What's wrong with having a broken heart?
November 25, 2012 7:03am CST
My friend said: What's wrong with a broken heart? It cannot kill you anyway..." Well, I replied: "Yeah you're right... I mean, at least - initially...But when you felt you've already gotten through the pain, it's starting to haunt you and you'll never be the same again...:(" Having you're heart broken is not really wrong at all. In fact, it's right because it's a proof of our existence. That once in a while we know how to feel... how to be happy when in love, to be sad when it has to end, and to be strong when it's time to let it go... The only thing there is, even though how many times we may have our heart broken... we're still willing to accept someone who's willing to put back the pieces all over again... :)
27 Nov 12
Hi friend, welcome to mylot. It is really hard to forget about our beloved persons after break up, but we don't get any benefits by thinking about them, so we must try our maximum to forget about our past incidents and divert our self with some new things. There is nothing wrong in accepting another love after a love failure.
26 Nov 12
Hi akhaniemar, as for me there is nothing wrong when we are broken hearted. God allowed us to be broken in order for us to break through. Yes its painful and eventually will fade but the learning it brings will stay forever. One thing only that we must understand is that when our heart is broken, it will leave a scar, heal it dont be bitter to the person who broke your heart. We should always remember that for the many days that you spend time together good memories are recorded. So let those good memories cover up the bad ones and move on.
27 Nov 12
hello, grace147... thanks for your response. I learned a lot. I agree, it's about time to move on and never look back at those bad memories. I'm bringing all the good ones with me now and I know there are still better things along the way, I learn to let go and let God...:)
28 Dec 12
A broken heart broken is memories to the mind it just stay there and there are times your mind comes back on the same things again... a heart break is a great stress and if someone just continue to think about it over and over again it can even make you lose weight.. a broken heart is not easy... but we all should learn how to let go and forget the past...
26 Dec 12
Hi, Getting heart broken is a part of growing up. Most of us girls fall for someone who is a role model like a sports person or a hero. I still remember a cousin of mine was head over heals in love with Wasim Akram ( a cricketer)from pakistan and when he married, she was kind of heart broken even though she had never met him in life. But she was ok soon. Time is a great healer and it heals all broken hearts and you do not need someone to put back all pieces, time would.
26 Nov 12
Pain is the anticipated feeling when we engaged to a particular relationship. Akin to this is fear and the agony of losing. However, we should always refrain in carrying the grudge of yesterday's pain for us to moved on easily and fast forward into total acceptance. You are directed to open your heart and mind for the possibility of pain on your second try. You cannot avoid, diminish or even deter pain because it is already attached to us, as being a human being.
25 Nov 12
That is true. It's such a feeling you will never wish to feel again. It's tears us apart. It's brings hurtful emotions you can never clearly describe. I bet your friend have never even felt broken at least once. Or if he did, he may have not loved truly at all.