I asked for the truth but he won't respond..

@jadoixa (1166)
Philippines
November 27, 2012 2:09am CST
when you asked someone about the truth and they just ignore you or won't respond, does it mean it is true? i am confuse, he is not telling and refuse to talk about it? have you experience anything like this?
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10 responses
@WakeUpKitty (8694)
• Netherlands
27 Nov 12
If men ignore the question they don't want to talk about it. They think if they ignore you, you will forget about it or forget asking (it works for men). With women it will work seldom. They keep asking, which men do find annoying, so in the end they get angry, say what you like to hear or start finding excuses for what they did. It's my experience a wall or chair or table will give more respons/feedback as a man who is not willing to talk or feels trapped. And yes mostly it is true what you think or should I say already know? BTW if it comes to that.. men who shout out loud what you think about them, they are not that way, etc just play a game as well. They just try to manipulate you, make you feel quilty, say you don't trust them, etc.
@jadoixa (1166)
• Philippines
14 Dec 12
yes, sometimes when i asked a question to this person, he just ignores it..he wil respond for a few days but not related to the question or topic before. then in the end it is me who feels guilty about it because maybe i keep asking questions, i could come across as nosy..it may be annoying for him already.
@jaiho2009 (39142)
• Philippines
28 Nov 12
They say that silence means yes, but I don't think it applies to everyone and every situation. Maybe he don't want to answer your question because he is not certain about the truth. Maybe he is also confused and he doesn't want to give you false reply.
• United States
28 Nov 12
No it doesn't necessarily mean it's true. If your love interest is hurting you and keeps hurting you, you should probably leave the relationship. Two people in a relationship should love and respect each other. I wasted many years with a man who didn't love me or respect me and I even married him but it only lasted about 2 years. I wasted a good 12 years total or more on this stern, rude not anything great of a guy. Now I'm alone and he after being alone along time has found someone. I don't care; he killed my love for him. I've not loved him for years. But the very bad experience with him has caused me to fear entering a new relationship or even looking for one.
@Dominique25 (9464)
• United States
27 Nov 12
Yeah when a person refuses to answer or will not talk about you are probably right about whatever it is your talking about. I hope that perhaps in time he will talk to you about whatever is going on. That can be a very stressful situation. I hope everything works itself out.
@ungu89 (1999)
• Malaysia
27 Nov 12
i have felt that too. i just hate people when we ask for the answer to know something that they tell the true or not, but they keep silent or just make something to run from answer that question. i really hate it. even i try so many time. they still like that. sometime i just give up with that kind of people
• Philippines
27 Nov 12
yes i have experienced it and there are 2 reasons why he is not talking. first he is lying to you and second he doesn't want to talk about it because he knows that you would still get upset and that in your mind its already set that he is lying whatever he will say.
@beamer88 (4259)
• Philippines
27 Nov 12
Most probably it is. I think most of us react more if something asked of them isn't true. But when it is true, we tend to keep silent about it. Just my observation though. How well do you know your friend? Maybe you'll get your answer even without the person responding to what you asked.
@jenny1015 (13366)
• Philippines
27 Nov 12
It's really hard to tell. It is either he refuses to tell you the truth or he just do not want to talk at all. If someone refuses to tell me something that I want to know, then I can not do anything about it than find it out myself.
@cearn25 (3456)
• Philippines
27 Nov 12
Yes, I have experienced it for how many times already with my boyfriend. It hurts to ask for the truth of some certain things especially when you want to know or clarify how it is. I am confused when they don't answer me directly. Maybe it is their way of admitting the truth.
@betty1989 (751)
• China
27 Nov 12
i have experienced the same thing. maybe sometimes they worried when they told the truth, that will hurt you. so they can just ignore or skip over it. look for the positive one.