Try to have a positive attitude in your life

@HuaZhao (457)
China
December 1, 2012 5:37am CST
Hi, mylotters,do you all have a good weekend. Everyday,we will find some people complaining something and making a show of their resentment of something around them. That is just their habit and whenever they chat with a person, they would do that. Are you this kind of people. I think a person should have positive attitude and spread it around, no matter how dark his life is. What's your idea?
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11 responses
• Indonesia
1 Dec 12
Attitudes reflect a person's personality and mind giving a major role to the person's attitude. That's why positive thinking makes a big difference in our lives. A good attitude begins with positive thinking. Positive thinking has an important role in the formation of each individual. The power of positive thinking is crucial in creating the kind of life you are. A positive attitude helps you in overcoming the problems of everyday life. A positive outlook can help you to cope with stressful situations and can change your life so much better. Here are some of the benefits of positive thinking: 1. Coping with stress: Positive thinking helps you cope with stressful situations, ignore negative thoughts, replace pessimistic to optimistic mind, reduce anxiety and reduce stress. When you develop a positive attitude you can control your life well. 2. Become more healthy: Our thoughts directly affect the body and how it works. When There's replacing negative thoughts with calmness, confidence and peace, rather than hatred, anxiety, and worry, then you will feel well. And this means that you are not disturbed while sleeping, do not feel muscle tension, anxiety, and fatigue. People who think negatively often depressed. 3. Confident: With positive thinking, then you are more confident and not to try to be someone else. If you are not confident you'll never get a better life. 4. Can make the right decision: Think positively prevent you from choosing the wrong decision or do something stupid that you later regret. Thinking positive makes you choose a decision quickly. 5. Increased focus: Using positive thoughts to help you stay focused in the face of problems. If you think negative would be a waste of time, and energy. 6. Can manage time better: With the increasing focus and the ability to make better decisions, you will be more organized. This will help you get more time for yourself and your loved ones. 7. More successful in life: positive attitude, not only can improve your focus and better manage your time well but lead you to happiness and success in changing your life. 8. Having a lot of friends: When thinking positive, you will attract the attention of the people and when people are close to you they will feel comfortable. 9. Being courageous: Fear comes from negative thoughts. Being a positive thinker eliminates fear. Courage comes from the fact that you stay positive you will know that whatever happens in your life, you can deal with it. 10. Happier life: Believe in yourself is the fact that you are happy to be yourself and not try to be someone else. If you have a spirit of positive thinking, you always anticipate a happy life, peace, laughter, good health and financial success. Tips so you always think positive: -Be optimistic and expect good results in all situations. -Find reasons to smile more often. -Visualize only what you want come true -Engage yourself in enjoyable recreational activities. -Read the inspirational quotes. -Follow a healthy lifestyle. Exercise at least three times a week. -socialize with people who'd always think positive. Someone who thinks positively know how to handle a bad situation better than anyone. And remember, success happens to those who believe in themselves!
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@jenny1015 (13390)
• Philippines
2 Dec 12
I think that we should always remember that behind every dark cloud is a rainbow. Not everyday would be experiencing the same happy moments. But nevertheless, there are small things that can make us happy as well.
@Angelpink (4023)
• Philippines
2 Dec 12
Jen , can relate with your words. Yes not all season rainy , some days also are shining , or will shine !
• Philippines
2 Dec 12
Well I'm a kind of pessimist. Because I don't wanna expect to much. But I guess it's much more better than being an optimist. Because there might be a possibility that I'll be disappointed if I'm being an optimist. :)
@chiwasaki (4661)
• Philippines
2 Dec 12
Yes I encounter people who are complaining most of the time. But somehow, I understand them. These people want to share their thoughts and their feelings. It does not mean that they are negative. The good thing is after they released their anger, they will move on with it. But I guess not all people are like that. Some never forget and always live in the negativity.
@Dominique25 (9476)
• United States
2 Dec 12
I think that it is important to try to have a positive attitude. This however is not always easy. And it is important for us to talk with our friends and family openly about our problems if we are under a lot of stress. But we don't want to be known for always complaining our putting all of our burdens on others.
@neelia27 (896)
• Philippines
2 Dec 12
definitely we should be positive in all the things we are doing.. spread good vibes in our environment so that people will have a good vibes too,, although life is really harsh sometimes.. but remember that in all the bad things that is happening there is always a rainbow after the rain..
@edvc77 (2143)
• Philippines
2 Dec 12
Yes, that is right. Let us have a positive attitude in life. However, we must be careful at times too. Have a nice day!
@marguicha (90283)
• Chile
1 Dec 12
I try my best to be possitive although I do not succeed every time. But I think that it is important to be aware of the importance of a positive attitude because it will help you on a daily basis. I am a firm believer that we must live the present. So that if I say that I will be possitive just for today, there is a greater chance that it will happen tomorrow too.
@puccagirl (7316)
• Israel
1 Dec 12
I very much agree. I try really hard to stay positive mentally myself, even when I face difficulties of some kind, and I do feel that this has helped me a lot over the years. I also see a lot of people who are very negative, and have a bad attitude and I think this also affects their lives, for the worse. So since you actually can choose what kind of attitude you have, why not go for the positive one?
@ARIES1973 (9535)
• Legaspi, Philippines
1 Dec 12
Hi HuaZhao! Yes you are right. We should really have to possess a positive attitude towards things. This will help us to face every difficulties in life easier.
@betty1989 (752)
• China
1 Dec 12
Happiness can be contagious.there is saying that attitude decides one's fate. We should hold a positive attitude towards life. If you smile,then a smile will turn you good.let's have positive attitude and spread it to the world.