Jealousy

@tech40 (9221)
Philippines
December 4, 2012 7:22am CST
Have you encountered this feeling? a feeling of being Jealous to someone, and how did you encounter it in everytime you feel this feelings? cos it is too hard to encounter .
7 responses
@ZoeJoy (1395)
• United States
4 Dec 12
If there is jealousy, then there is a lack of trust. I would have a deep talk with that person to find out how to build a more trusting relationship. Also, there is insecurity involved - either with that person or within the relationship. I would find ways to build a more secure relationship. It takes communication to build a solid and trusted relationship.
@tech40 (9221)
• Philippines
4 Dec 12
The reason why people getting jealous is, Too much LOVE, Too much TRUST, Scared that your partner will not leave you, so I just want to say that, TRUST is still not enough in terms of Jealous cos jealous is a feeling that you can't encounter even if, you really trust that person,
@arrianne (29)
• Philippines
4 Dec 12
I already encountered that feeling. It is really difficult for me because I can't tell him directly what I really felt because I'm afraid that he will only laugh at me. So,I usually do is to listen music or play a guitar by that I'll forget everything.
@tech40 (9221)
• Philippines
4 Dec 12
thank you for sharing and welcome to mylot! yes you're right, im also afraid that she will just laugh, and i dont want to tell to her that im jealous because I dont want her to do those things once again just to make me jealous once again, I only do, is to be calm down for now, and play some online games, until that feeling will be gone,
@hlfbldmom (743)
• Philippines
4 Dec 12
I am not really a jealous type but there are times I feel jealous when I saw my boyfriend chatting and he tries to hide it from me. What I did is I talked to him and tell him what I felt. Or I tell it to my friends we talk about it and then I feel better.
@tech40 (9221)
• Philippines
4 Dec 12
Thanks for the reply, But I cant encounter the feeling everytime I got jealous to somebody, specially when someone closes to my girlfriend, I dont know how to encounter it, I know that I got jealous because I know to myself that I love her so much,
@wolfie34 (26820)
• United Kingdom
5 Dec 12
I have to admit I was incredibly jealous of my girlfriend's sister, she has everything in life, gorgeous young boyfriend, nice home, car, brilliantly paid job, in fact she wants for nothing, she was on my Facebook page and she would often boast about how life was wonderful, that really upset me, and I found it hard NOT to be jealous, so I took her off Facebook, it was like rubbing my face in it. She probably doesn't realize that she is bragging that she has everything but to me it is very uncomfortable and yes I am jealous, it's hard not to be.
@jenny1015 (13390)
• Philippines
5 Dec 12
When I was younger, I would easily become jealous and I would literally scratch my boyfriend on his arm coz I felt I just needed to have an outlet to release my anger. But I have tamed over time. I do get jealous but I just teach myself to stay calm and think of other stuff instead.
@ungu89 (2001)
• Malaysia
4 Dec 12
haha, always the time people will always have that feeling. when i feel that i just remember think that might i have he/she don't have
@berting600 (3458)
• Philippines
4 Dec 12
Jealousy is a consequence of being in love to someone you are fallen in love with, especially if she was having someone else with that time you like to see her.You can not always perform your feelings of being jealous if she is not your girl friend at the time you have seen her talking or entertaining some visitor,yet you can be demonstrative with your feelings of being jealous,when the two of you are already fallen in love.