Her Day is Over by 11 a.m.???

I know people who are like that, I have family members who can never be wrong. Even when they are it's better to let them think they are and when they realize they aren't? Don't mention it either because it's just more of a headache. Then there's the one that is always fussing about something. Now honestly when you get used to a schedule it's hard to break it but I wouldn't want to get up at 3:30 am unless I had to for some reason. The earliest I'd wake up just to wake up early would be 5 am.

I can't imagine anyone wanting to get up at that other than it's her "me time" and alone time but who knows what goes through her head. She usually sits at the kitchen table doing word search puzzles every day at that time. Blah.

I can understand that, but I wouldn't be taking my mood out on everyone all day like she did today. Some points of the day she was fine and other times the slightest thing would set her off, she was the worst with my dad and actually got fairly vile with him twice. She never likes to be told she is doing anything wrong for example and if she even senses it alittle that someone says something like that to her she will go off on them especially if she is in a bad mood to begin with. Yet she can critique everyone and everything else she wants, cause she has this "entitlement" to. I wish I knew what caused this. Everyone I talk to says 3:30 is way too early, but that is her always doing things so wierd. I asked her several times why she gets up at 3:30 a.m. even when she doesn't have to and she comes up with the excuse that her father always used to get them up that early. (Uhm, so I'd want to get up later if I was in my own home, no??)

Was she always this way since you were a kid? What do you do after the 3pm dinner? And what does your mother do then?

Yes and I have tried to tell her that but she does not think like the rest of us, and it can be a hindrance at times. If she was cooking for anyone else than us they would never care for her at all.

11 am is over, ahhhh no wonder, dinner time is at 3:20... and at 6:00 pm it is already midnight. Are you sure she is using the right clock? just kidding but this is a cute discussion. She has really different biological clock, which later on some of the members of the household may adapt.

ladygator, I don't know where she gets it from really but she says her dad used to get her and the rest of the family up this early but for what I don't know and that was over like 60 years ago. I just thinks her whole presence is different from most of us in general. No I wasn't kidding about the 3:30, and now she makes food even earlier like #;20 at times, and that is why I was thinking it gets earlier and earlier. She goes to take a few hours of a nap after 4-5 for at least 3 hours cause my brother wakes her up at 8 when he puts on his TV shows. Then she goes to bed for certain usually at approx. 9 p.m. til maybe that 3:30 a.m. I'm moving in with you guys, haha! (Can I please? Teehee) Mavic, She does seem to have a different 'clock' amoung other things than most, she is just one of a kind, a doctor or two has told her that.

You're not lazy you are about like me, I would prefer to get up at 9 a.m. as I really don't have all that of a rush around here to get things done like she does and then have dinner at 5 p.m. like we used to years ago.

I can understand that but to take your anger out on someone or others in the house is not right. She doesn't even need this to go off on anyone. I know, everyone I talk to about that time says it is way too early. Leave it to her to do things so wierd all the time.

No, it isn't. But it does happen. Some people are just too impatient.

Yes but she has often said other times when she wasn't waiting or someone either that her day is "finished" by that time. I'm not sure what her meaning is but she is so different than most of us in the world it is rather disturbing at times, that is why I try to find humor in it--usually I fail though LOL. By the way that person she waited for finally showed up today when no one was expecting them.