unpretty

Philippines
December 8, 2012 9:58am CST
Hey guys and gals. Is there a time you felt you are unpretty? That time when you feel like no one would like you coz you are not beautiful. I feel that most of the time. I feel like i am ugly. I am scared that i'll not find my special someone coz i am ugly and i envy those beautiful girls that doesn't need any make ups to be pretty. I think the more i grow, the more i get uglier. But, there's also a time that i feel like i'm very pretty. But, most of the time i am not.
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19 responses
@betty1989 (752)
• China
8 Dec 12
the true beaty comes from inside not just appearance, I think. yes, we can have a makeup to make us more beautiful. How can you think you are ugly? from your mylot profile, I can see you are quite pretty.
@prashu228 (25808)
• India
8 Dec 12
exactly i felt the same she is so pretty.But she is feeling like she is ugly. That cant be true. she can even use some makeup to enhance her beauty. Every girl is beautiful in nature .
@adnileb (5035)
• Philippines
9 Dec 12
Every girl is beautiful in nature. You're right and from what I can see on her avatar, she's not ugly.
• India
7 Feb 13
Thanks for sharing. I wonder why you feel so, is this your real picture?If so, i will say you are cute/pretty, with age you will look prettier; please stop thinking negetive my young friend
• United States
22 Dec 12
i had the feels sometimes but i rezile your beauty is in the inside not the outside be can be the thing that make people ulgy is there attuide and body signs dont ever feel like like your everyone is beautiful in there own way.
• Philippines
13 Dec 12
Don’t feel down because you are left out, it’s just you yourself who feels that you are different. Think of the possibility that we all are created uniquely. We all have different styles, fashion, and customs. I do also feel insecure of myself if I am sat to some good looking people, but that doesn’t stop me from doing what I want. Instead of crying or feel depressed about my looks. I try to make it a point by blending in with them. Following in a way that I conform to their interests and also stand in what I believed in and what I like myself to look physically.
@adnileb (5035)
• Philippines
9 Dec 12
You are beautiful just the way you are and everyone else's. Beauty is mostly measured from your innermost - attitude/behavior. Just feel to be confident. I think it's the only thing that lacks you - self-confidence.
@galileo2008 (1147)
• Philippines
9 Dec 12
Yes, sometimes I do feel unpretty but it doesn't make me feel depressed nor unhappy. Sometimes I get so lazy to put my make-up on that I just go out with my friends without them. Anyway, you don't need to wear make-up just to look beautiful, as what my friends say "I am beautiful not because of my expensive bags or make-up kits. I am beautiful because God created me to be one. I was created like the image of God, and I am the most beautiful creature He has ever made".
• India
9 Dec 12
Hi friend, First of all you must give up this thought, i don't think you are ugly, i think it is your photo in your profile image, you are pretty in that picture. Why are you thinking in this sort that you are ugly? each and every one is beautiful in god's creation. I never thought in this sort and don't give importance to the external beauty.
@zoey7879 (3104)
• United States
9 Dec 12
Surely you have heard the song and seen the video for a song ... "Unpretty" by TLC. Look it up on Youtube with the official music video. (:
• China
9 Dec 12
Hi dear effinmuffin,is the image is real you?If yes,wow,you are a beautiful girl,definitely.Pls have confidence to be yourself. If the answer is no and that is OK,pls remember,Beauty is in the eye of the beholder.Someone like you will find out that you are a beautiful girl.
@Guit08 (597)
• United States
9 Dec 12
Just be genuine and be yourself! Don't worry about what other people think about you, after all the people who genuinely value you won't be superficial and worry about your appearance or things like if you're wearings tons of makeup or not. Don't get caught up in the whole mess of trying to impress!
@Dominique25 (9476)
• United States
9 Dec 12
It is important that you increase your self-esteem. You are pretty. I do understand what you mean though about at times we can feel that we are not pretty and that another person may not be interested in us. We need to do things that we enjoy and that make us feel attractive.
• India
9 Dec 12
Hi effeinmuffin. Well I dont kind of beauty you are talking about. Everyone has a different taste of beauty. So one can never call one self as either ugly or beautiful. Apart from that I think it has more to do with your inferiority feeling rather than your looks. Be confident and don't under estimate yourself. I am pretty sure that when your special someone will see you he would be flattered by your charm. Anyways have a nice day... -=SuperShames=-
@AkamaruKei (5218)
• Malaysia
9 Dec 12
Hey you should not think negative. All people have their own pretty. From what i see in your avatar you are pretty. If you still single that not mean you ugly maybe you still not find someone who is like and match with you.
@prashu228 (25808)
• India
8 Dec 12
hi, This happens mostly with many people especially during teenage .They are more concerned about their looks and beauty. This actually lessens as they grow and the concentration goes to studies or career or anything. They become more serious about life. so don't worry life goes on.
@sriroshan (2586)
• India
8 Dec 12
No one is pretty or ugly as such in this world. it is the people thinking that have made the discrimination between pretty and ugly. Never goes one face value or how one look looking at their face. Many time pretty girl is ugly at her heart. One has to pretty at their heart and behavior and not just beauty on face
@nitakb (21)
• United States
8 Dec 12
If that is you in the profile picture then you are pretty girl. The way I've always felt is that everyone is beautiful in their own special way. Its not so much about the physical looks but what makes you up in a whole. Beauty comes from with in. I've seen many people who are down right gorgeous but their attitudes were disgusting which in my eyes makes them a ugly person. Because when its all said and done the personality is really what says a lot about person and not about how much makeup they apply or the fancy clothes they wear. We all feel unattractive at times but that's only our personal opinion of ourselves. I personally can related to feeling unbeautiful. Personal Encouragement is a healthy way to ward off those kinds of feelings. As goes for those girls who don't have to work makeup, they are indeed fortunate. But if you flip the script they might feel the same exact way about themselves and are probably envying you. You just never know. Just know that beauty is in the eye of the beholder.
• United States
8 Dec 12
It must not be your face in the profile here. I think that lady is very pretty. If I were you I would post a picture so we could see you.
@jaiho2009 (39019)
• Philippines
8 Dec 12
Beauty is not all about physical looks- pretty face or whatever. Not every guy prefers a pretty face or sexy body. Be yourself and be confident- that will make you sexy to others.
@WakeUpKitty (8706)
• Netherlands
8 Dec 12
The biggest part of my life I feel kind of ugly. This mostly has to do with the eczema that can pop up in my face and does at unexpected moments.. besides of that it's very painfull which makes it difficult to have a relaxed face since every mimic is very painfull (so is laughing, smiling, crying, speaking, eating, drinking, etc). Besides of that I also have nerve pains in my whole body including my face. I do realize that mostly I feel it more as others are able to see it. The older I get the less I care about what people say or think (friends can be very cruel if it comes to that by saying you have an infection that will make them ill as well), which won't make me feel any better (dumping them did make me feel better). I know stress will make it worse so I try to have an easy life as possible, but badly enough also the change of weather is making it worse. The freezing cold, snow we have here since 2 days is killing me :-( I try not stay positive, do what I can to keep my mind on other things and go to bed early to get that extra bit of energy. If you let yourself drag into negative feelings it won't make you feel better that is for sure. If you shine inside your outside will shine as well. I met many people with whom this is the case so if it comes to that nobody is ugly!