December 8, 2012 12:39pm CST
suppose, everything going according to your plan. Running smoothly all the way and you are expecting and fully sure that you are going to get it. But due to some unexpected and unavoidable circumstances at the final moment you fail to achieve it. Dear Mylotter what would you do if this situation occurs in your case
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• United States
9 Dec 12
Like aries (above) I hope for the best, expect the best but try to be prepared for the worst, just in case. And there is a saying I try to go by - "Make the best of a bad situation". And that's what I try to do. Salvage whatever is left and try to put it back together, if I can. If not, start over. If it's too late, the opportunity is gone, then I must face facts and move on. Easier said than done, as I am prone to depression. But that's life. Things happen that are beyond our control. It helps to have friends that can, at least, comfort you in times like these.
9 Dec 12
well everything happens for a reason. Easy to say, commonly heard, but really difficult to understand. First, I will cry... i will cry to the last drop of my tear. of course it was planned, it was running smoothly and ... and... and.. argh.. hard to accept. Second, after my eyes popped out of the sockets, due to so much crying, I will take a deep breath... and think... what went wrong. Third, I will cry again.. if I don't have tears anymore.. I will just sing.. (hahaha just like crazy)... Fourth, nothing I just accept it. it happens for a reason and it is not meant to be. I don't like to pull the string so much because I know even if it is elastic, it will come to reach its limitations. do I make sense?
• Legaspi, Philippines
8 Dec 12
I always know that even though we laid our plans and follow it religiously, things may come out the way we don't want it to be. So I preset my mind that anything can happen. Just hope for the best although we must also be prepared for the worst. Not expecting too much would help.
9 Dec 12
Suppose in our life what we plan or what we dream had turn out to be tru then we would have been the happiest person on the earth. We always likes to have everything should work fine in our life without any hurdle, but some where or other we go wrong or somebody may put break on what we have planned. If it does not happen as we have planned don't get upset instead give the second try, as we all knew this - "Try and Try till you get success"
8 Dec 12
when i was young, i often accepted the fact and/or possibility of failure. now that i am grown up, i try as much as i can to limit that possibility. i anticipate the scenarios in my mind and as much as possible and prepare for those scenarios. however, i still get surprised every now and then. and there i trust myself more than anyone else.