Guarding our Children

@edvc77 (2143)
Philippines
December 8, 2012 6:49pm CST
We are in the age wherein computer are trends and everything is becoming innovative and modern. I think ones parents should guard their children well in regards to their spiritual, social life, schooling, friends, and lifesytle. I just observe some children how to speak say things right away without thinking with their own modern languages now. They can easily call names other people and say rude and bad words without any hesitation as if it is nothing. I would say that some are becoming disrespectful to people reagrdless of what age. We should really guard and teach our children. Probably the media and the influence of the environment are factors on having this kind of attitude. What do you think of this mylotters?
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@jenny1015 (13394)
• Philippines
9 Dec 12
Too much exposure to these social media sites and television has greatly affect the behavior and attitude of children today. It is somehow alarming at how these kids have made themselves into "monsters" with the kind of language they use in speaking to other people of their age. While it should be okay to let our kids have their won freedom, I think that allowing them to have access to the internet all the time will just make them worse.
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@prashu228 (22839)
• India
9 Dec 12
Hi, I agree and i am one of them who used to be some what rude i used to be short tempered during my school days but later realized its not right at all. My mother used to take care and she used to teach me how we should speak in the society . I realized it well when i went to college.
@cvbr71 (31)
• India
9 Dec 12
In this fast moving world where we were born,we as a matured persons are quite worried of the ethics , traditions etc being not followed or forgotten by most of the people.So it means clearly that we have not forgotten our traditions and we do not want to forget. This is what we are and what the life is all about.Traditions are its own place. Only thing we have to do is guide our children of our traditions by sparing little time everyday, teach them respect, our ethics, social values etc, monitor our children of their daily activities, inculcate in their minds of the humanity and our responsibility in this world being a human.Media and Influence of Environment teaches us good and bad. It is what we take to our stride that matters. Inculcating good habits, ethiccs to our children while following the same will lead us to a happy life,
• India
9 Dec 12
Hi friend, Parents are the role model to the kids and kids learn a lot of things from their parents activities. Raising a kid is not an easy task. We must be careful in each and every sort to guide our kid in a good way. Mostly kids will reflect most of their parents activities and attitudes as they are watching all the parents activities keenly and observe a lot of things from it. If the parents are kind and having helping tendency, surely kids will follow the same activities and being helpful to their friends and other persons. If the parents quarrels a lot in front of the kid, it will disturb the kid a lot. Kids whoever living in this kind of situation will get mental depression and have health issues due to the parents activities. So parents must surely avoid the quarrels in front of the kid and we must raise them in a calm and friendly situation. Learning process of a kid is started from its home with the parents. Each and every parent is having a lot of responsibility in growing and guiding the kid in a good way and follow kind activities to raise them in a happy manner. Parents must give their full love and affection to their kids and watch each and every activities of the kids. Never allow your kid to feel loneliness and always engage with them and spend most of your time with your kids to teach various good things to them. If the parents don't give their care to the kids, the kid will feel the loneliness and get mental depressions. This kind of careless activities will turn the kid in to the wrong site and they start to concentrate with the person whoever give the real affection to them and follow their activities. Parents carelessness may create a hatred with the kid among the parents. The kid who is spending a lot of time with loneliness don't learn good things, so parents must try their maximum to engage with the kids and teach a lot of good things to them with their activities. Really parents playing an important role in their children's activities and attitudes.
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@prashu228 (22839)
• India
9 Dec 12
I agree with you. The modern children are not bothered about others feelings .They just think about themselves and their way of talking is really rude. But on contrary not all are like that. Yes its parents who have to teach them how they should talk and respect others.so we should take care of these and teach them what is right and wrong.The influence of media is also not less as you mentioned.
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• United States
9 Dec 12
I was just talking to my sister this morning about the rude kids we are living around these days. They don't care who you are they will tell you off in a minute. shame on those kids.
@edvc77 (2143)
• Philippines
9 Dec 12
Yes, I notice that too. We really have to guard our children. Days are becoming different and the environment too. I think they are influenced by some things and some people. They have to be taught.
@aabuda (1729)
• Philippines
9 Dec 12
I think whatever things that is going on in our environment and into the world, still, parents should be constantly monitoring and guarding their children. They should always protect their children from those environmental factors that could affect their attitudes, traits and behavior especially in dealing with their peers and adults.