What do you do when you lack of confidence?

Indonesia
December 12, 2012 12:07pm CST
everyone sure has dreams and something they wanna achieve. we need to do much efforts to grant our dreams and wishes. but sometimes, things are not going as we want to be and our confidence already on its edge, feeling like give up and let go of that dreams. what do you do when you're feeling like that? to gain your self confidence again?
7 responses
• Philippines
12 Dec 12
What do I do when I lack confidence? Well, I try to make it a point to feel positive in every situation I am put into. Although I feel down about some things resulting to low self-esteem, I’ll to think about good possibilities so that at the end of the day, I’ll feel better.
• Indonesia
12 Dec 12
thinking about good possibilities, i might try that! thank you very much! :)
• Philippines
13 Dec 12
You are very much welcome.
@abitcurious (1422)
• Philippines
13 Dec 12
I guess confidence really is a result of experience. The more you put yourself, the more you get to learn how to face things head on. I think it starts with a little bit of courage.
• Indonesia
14 Dec 12
i'll do some experiences after this.. for sure. i think that it's very important. thank you!
@AdalieM (1134)
• United States
4 Jan 13
I think the reason why many of us lack confidence is because we start to question ourselves or we are put down by others and we accept and take all of their crap into our subconscious. When I don't feel confident, I stop thinking about everything and smell the roses. For me, self help books are the only way to get back my confidence or being around positive people. Believe me, when I feel like I can't go on, I say something positive to myself and hang out with some one that is more positive than me, and I start to feel great all over again. Influence is a powerful force.
@litvillegas (1274)
• Philippines
19 Dec 12
Hello shion13 I think it's normal to feel that sometimes but as long as you believe in yourself trust our Heavenly creator then I guess there is nothing impossible. We also need our family and our close friends to encourage us and help us to make our dreams come true.. Happy mylotting
@ruffabee (145)
• Philippines
13 Dec 12
yeah, all of us have dreams, and in order to achieve these dreams, we must stich to it without any hindrances or disturbances or any unnecessary circumstances and inconvenience. just go with it smoothly with self confidence, and in order to gain self confidence, just say to yourself that you can do it with your own capacity and risks. and you must also pray to god...
• Indonesia
13 Dec 12
right.. i'll pray to God too.. it's hard to avoid the disturbances though but i'll be positive! thank you!
• Philippines
25 Mar 13
To account for the lack of self-confidence, I try to achieve things like high grades, winning competitions, or doing something that is worthy of praise. Being able to do these things gives my confidence a boost. If I really lack self-confidence, I give myself some pep talk. It may sound funny, but it does work sometimes.
@babyeve (1048)
• Seychelles
18 Dec 12
I pray to God to have confidence. He is only the one cable of giving it to me.