not liking self at some point of your life .

@Angelpink (4035)
Philippines
December 12, 2012 12:27pm CST
Friends , have you experience not liking yourself at some point of your life ? That is what i felt right now ! I don't like myself for it keep on loving though she is already bleeding. She can never stop loving him though she is not getting even. She's been wounded but still she is around. Nothing changes , she still loves him . She is tailored by God so differently and weirdly . Is she fool ? insane ? saint ? or she is just real to herself. What can you say about her ? Share me your thoughts .
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@Arieles (2473)
• United States
12 Dec 12
There have been times in my life where I have been disappointed with my own actions, which left me thinking "what was I thinking?" I have always liked myself as I have a pretty healthy self esteem, but when life has gotten out of control, and I feel like I'm spiraling out of control, I will think "why on earth did I do that?" We are often our own worst critics, and that's where we need to change our thinking. Even though we've gone through these experiences, loving the wrong person, spending to much money or not paying attention to what we're doing doesn't mean we're bad people, it just means we had our head in the sand for a little while. Now it's time to take it out breathe, and remember that no matter how bad things get, we always, always have to be our own best friend. This alone will help us get through anything.
• Philippines
13 Dec 12
yes your right, we all have made terrible choices or the ones that we didn't want to. like turning left instead of right. not sure how can i be my own friend, but i do indeed trust myself in every way. I now experience my lone some moments that i thought am all alone thinking like this. it's easy to be said than done but unfortunately, it's hard to have a more optimistic mind setting these days
@Arieles (2473)
• United States
13 Dec 12
Have you checked out my post on a gratitude journal? Staying optimistic is hard, but you can do it, and once you have the right mindset, you can turn your life around.
@Angelpink (4035)
• Philippines
13 Dec 12
Ariees , love what you all said , so very true ! Sometimes i told that to myself , i am not bad and never i am , i am just being real to myself but just so sad that myself is not that mature , the child in me always speaks. Have accepted that but striving my best to overcome it and improve myself. It just takes time ...but someday i will and would be perfect.
• Philippines
13 Dec 12
Some people, no matter how old they get, never lose their beauty-they merely move it from their faces into their hearts.
@Angelpink (4035)
• Philippines
13 Dec 12
....and those are the lucky people , the very matured one , the people who have strong emotional side. How i wish to be one of them ! But am working on it !
@gloamglozer (1289)
• Australia
13 Dec 12
This is really confusing to understand what you are saying. Are you the person who sees a girl you care about who loves someone that doesn't get along with well? I think people find it hard to leave a relationship when they invest so much time and effort into it that they find it difficult to leave even if it is a toxic relationship.
• Philippines
13 Dec 12
Hello angelpink, The one thing about i didn't like about myself was when he quit his job years ago and he feels he can never go back. with his late unemployment situaion he's loosing anymore confidence of getting anymore job. I wonder, despite of the blessings of having a rental business and some flow of income coming. however, having a self and financially independent on things allows him to have a better social status of himself
@subhojit10 (7375)
• India
12 Dec 12
Thanks a ton for sharing this discussion. Well liking or disliking oneself is not in our hands, it is the circumstances that compels us to think such way. Nothing is good or bad but our thinking makes it so. I have also experienced many such situations where i have cursed myself but the next moment i have forgotten such things and have accepted the reality as it is. I think whatever the girl is doing is her own decision and whatever she will be doing will depend entirely on her. What say?
@Angelpink (4035)
• Philippines
13 Dec 12
That's it ! Situations , happenings made me dislike myself . I can't managed self well , a slave with in. Sometimes like you do , have to accept for that is the only choice available.
• Denmark
13 Dec 12
I have spent most of my life hating myself and suffering immensely because of it. I've learned that your body, mind and soul will believe whatever you tell yourself and accept it as truth. So tell yourself that you are beautiful, amazing, smart, talented, funny and that you deserve the very best in life. You will end up believing it... and better yet, the rest of the world will too!
@Angelpink (4035)
• Philippines
13 Dec 12
Am doing that sometimes , cheering the sad part in me. Making all negative possibly to be positive.
@riempie9 (1021)
• South Africa
13 Dec 12
At some point in our life we have all been dissatisfied - either with our appearance or the kind of person we are. If you are depressed and feeling low self-esteem, change the way you think and change the way you do some things. Listen to music you like, go out with some friends. Give yourself a lift by doing something good for a friend. There is a lot of things you can do to take you outside of yourself. Read up on depression. Read other people's experiences. Do not be too self-involved.