A Gay's Principle

Philippines
December 14, 2012 2:11am CST
Most gays that I encounter in our locality dresses like that of a girl, with short shorts, tight jeans, tight pants and all sorts of things. However, I met this gay who have this principle "I am already a gay, I do not want people to have more reasons to criticize me". I was really amazed by his principle and the way he dress. Indeed, its something very odd in today's setting. What do you think of this?
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4 responses
@meowchie (992)
• Philippines
15 Dec 12
I know both of them, those who are dressed up as female and those who kept their manly gesture though they admit they are gay. Both are lovable, easy to get a long with.. but whenever group of friends compare them, people has different things to say. The 1 with female outfit is likable because he acts like a clown, entertainer..and the other 1 is likable because he has projected himself a gay but very decent and professional. I can see..they have different ways to deal with people around them:)
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• Philippines
16 Dec 12
Nice thoughts you got there in terms of comparing both.
@vernaC (1493)
• Romania
14 Dec 12
He knows his value from how I see it. There are also gays who dressed up with womens clothings but they don't act so wild like other gays. These people have respect for themselves.
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• Philippines
14 Dec 12
Indeed they are. It would also be better for them to really act respectable. Its not like I am discriminating them, but it is one way of uplifting their own image.
@jaiho2009 (38810)
• Philippines
14 Dec 12
I have gay friends who doesn't dress up like girls. They know how to act respectable and that is why I like them. I hang out with them, not because they are my friends and team mates, but because they know how to value their selves as a person.
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• Philippines
14 Dec 12
Indeed your friend is a person worthy of respect. I really prefer those kind of gays who does care on the things they do in order to be respected. No offense of other gays who dress like girls.
@sid556 (31019)
• United States
14 Dec 12
its not unusual where i live at all. while some are very flamboyant, many are very reserved and unless you knew about their personal life you would not know they were gay. i oce had a huge crush on a man who was actually a pretty good friend. we hung out a lot, talked alot bt theone thing he never felt comfortable in sharing with me was that he was gay. he hadnt told anyone and when he did,he moved far away for a long while. i learned itfrom his brother. i worked with a man and was very surprised when he confided that he was gay. its not unusual here