women have joined the cheating game especially wives.

@pomwango (1355)
Kenya
December 19, 2012 6:13am CST
Hi, there was a time the word cheating in marriage was only about the men but its now very common to see many women having affairs yet they married.some of them are doing it for various reasons from promotions at work,to get back at something their husband did to them ,others for material gain and some just for the fun.Its getting so bad because some women now even get kids from their affairs and let their husband go on thinking its their child. what is your view on this and do you know of such women?
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@KrauseHome (36137)
• United States
22 Dec 12
Personally it is sad when anymore there is not Faithfulness and Love and committment when it comes to marriage. There are so many people out there doing it, it is true and it is sad. I know I would never consider it as I have experienced seeing what happened to my Mom when my Step Dad did this. Wish we could go back more to the good old days like back in the Bible with this.
@pomwango (1355)
• Kenya
22 Dec 12
thanks very much,its bad we cant commit to the vows we take during marriage people should be more God fearing and emulate what our ancestors behaved,i think this equality rights for women has opened up some people negatively.
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@KrauseHome (36137)
• United States
23 Dec 12
For sure, even when it comes to Christian based marriages even so many stray from the Bible and the believes of letting God be in control. If more people could keep Marriage as something sacred life would be a lot better for all.
@Aja103654 (5656)
• Philippines
21 Dec 12
I think it's very bad. The worst is they pass it on to the kids and kids are affected by such behaviour. Couples who cheat on each other, why do they even stay together, because of marriage and the children. This is not a good thing to do when one is committed already. There are more fun things to do for women that does not involve cheating with other men.
@pomwango (1355)
• Kenya
22 Dec 12
i agree its bad and assists in the moral decay of society.your idea of women getting other things to do is great.
@Aja103654 (5656)
• Philippines
23 Dec 12
yeah lol! If I were a lonely woman I wouldn't spend time with a guy to cheat on my husband. I would rather do something exciting and fun with my girl friends! There is so much better to do in this world than cheating.
@bluesea3 (167)
• Indonesia
19 Dec 12
I agree. I think it's usual now. Even, in the Europe, America, and North Asia, it's a habit. So, i'm not surprised because of it. Something which i worry is about how the fate of women esteem, children, and teenagers forward. This will cause the nation collapse.
@pomwango (1355)
• Kenya
19 Dec 12
very right when women were looked at to guide the family behave this way,then definitely they will not be able to guide their children in future and eventually the society moral values will keep going down.
@WakeUpKitty (8704)
• Netherlands
19 Dec 12
What a nonsense.. if men cheat with whom you think they do? With an other man? To my opinion there is no reason to cheat, if you do not like your partner leave! How hard can that be. This besides of the fact we live in a free world. Men and women are equal with equal rights. There is no reason for any woman in this world to accept a cheating husband/partner or let her partner treat her like a piece of dirt just because she is a female.
@pomwango (1355)
• Kenya
19 Dec 12
true if cheated you should leave but at the same time women are viewed as more disciplined not to be cheaters so i dont think they should spoil their reputation getting back at their husbands.its better to leave the marriage and get someone new to have a relationship than be looked at by society as an unfaithful woman.