What has happened to me

@jagjit273 (1740)
India
December 20, 2012 12:15pm CST
I do not know what has happened to me. Last year, l met a girl here on net and things turned into love. She called me up on phone and told me that she loves me. I was so happy but later on some things happen in my family life which i told truely and she left me . From then onwords , l do not know what has happened to me, l don't like to work at all. No offline earning. Though i talk to myself a lot and try to come out of the situation many times but again it does not help.
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8 responses
@kiran8 (15398)
• Mangalore, India
22 Dec 12
Hi jagjit, I feel that what has happened is alright since the girl seems to have her own inhibitions and may not be able to cope with whatever family problems you have.You should come to grips with your life and start taking part like before without letting the experience bother you too much.Without having met you have developed such deep feelings which in itself is not very wise .Unless you meet and interact , you will never come to know what her real personality is...
@jagjit273 (1740)
• India
22 Dec 12
Thanks for your advice.
@WakeUpKitty (8706)
• Netherlands
21 Dec 12
Sorry but it sounds a bit strange to me you just meet someone by the internet, that person calls you and tells you she loves you. Something happens in your family life and she left you. I don't know what it is, but for sure is that is not what she did like to hear. So you know that this is not what we call love or at least not what you did expected. You were thinking of love in good and bad times. But the fact is just meeting someone by the internet is not reality. Love has to grow. And you? You have to get over it since your expectations of love were way to high and not realistic at all. You better write down a list about what you did expected and what she actually said. I think you heard things she never said but you really wanted to hear. Re-read your list, get over it, there are plenty of people in this world. It's a pity to waste your life just because of someone you met by the internet.
@Shavkat (67249)
• Philippines
21 Dec 12
It turned out that she really doesn't like to continue the affection. She might not able to accept the real side of your family. Don't worry love will come in the right time and place.
@dodoazo (22058)
• Philippines
21 Dec 12
That's "drama in real life" You're beginning to learn the ups and downs of being in love and on how you're going to handle it. Don't lost hope. There are many ladies there waiting for you. Just be available and someone will come up, who is your compatibility. Cheer up and Good luck!
@jenny1015 (13389)
• Philippines
20 Dec 12
So you must have really fallen for her, huh? It is really hard to have a relationship that started online coz there are a lot of things that each person may not be honest about. I would still prefer having a relationship with a person that I can be with and have time to know that person real well.
• Bangladesh
20 Dec 12
Hai jagjit I understand your feelings, really hard to recover this situation. However I will advise you from my experience, please keep cool & calm, be steady, love yourself, pass time with your friends-closer one and enjoy your life.
@dipak777 (177)
• India
20 Dec 12
hi jagjit sorry to hear about that. but these long distance relationship does not work either offline or online.just move on.try to enjoy yourself by what makes you happy.also find some offline work.its gonna take away from all your lonelyness.beleive me i had also met the pain in my previous relation.love yourself
@subhojit10 (7382)
• India
20 Dec 12
Thanks a ton for sharing this discussion. Well i can understand your situation and i know u must be devastated after this incident. I do not know what has happened in your family life but i would certainly like u to talk to that girl in person and ask the reason of this attitude. Besides i do not understand why are u taking thing so seriously that it is affecting your personal and professional life. U need to be strong and find a better way out of this. What say?