My life

Philippines
December 21, 2012 10:56pm CST
In my 23 years existence in this world. I may say that my life is not as successful as my age level, i have many struggle that i've encounter such as financial and emotional crisis, my social life is not as many other people. I dont want to be fame like others, i just want to be known as a good person to others, fortune isnt my wish but luck is on my list. Now, im into something good- be a good person, every one else wants to be a good person i know, but what im trying to say is a people who really and fully understand how life is all about. There are times that ive tried to ask myself how or why life is all about and where i start my life, the answers to these questions is: i dont know. Why people work? Why people are living? Why are we eating? Why are we must know god and why do people love? For you, What's life all about?
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11 responses
@kiran8 (15399)
• Mangalore, India
22 Dec 12
Realisation is the most important factor in life and once you work on it you will see success too.We all go through such stages in life when we feel that we have done nothing worthwhile, but what is important is not to fret but to act and do whatever you are capable of to the best of our capacity - all the best and have a great weekend
• Philippines
23 Dec 12
What you mean is just sticking to a very strong plan is the key to a stronger future.
@kiran8 (15399)
• Mangalore, India
23 Dec 12
Exactly ! let bygones be bygones since nothing will come out of it, being focused on the present and the future is what counts in life and our success depends on how we put our present to use.Start today instead of keeping things for tomorrow - all the best
@ShyBear88 (18148)
• United States
22 Dec 12
What is my life about. Well it's about my kids my two little ones that I gave birth too. That is what my life is about. Taking care of them and raising them. There are thousands of whys but I don't ask them and I don't think about them because why look for the answer when there are many answers for them. Meaning behind your life might not have come just yet but there is a reason.
• Philippines
22 Dec 12
I think your a strong person because of your kids and your questions are answered.
@ShyBear88 (18148)
• United States
22 Dec 12
Having kids doesn't make a person strong it's themselves that make themselves strong
22 Dec 12
My life is not so successful I n every moment have a better experience in life .In my 22 age I seen lots of bad side of live . In my family side i seen a bitter experience in my job life also not so flexibly going. In my life I am not so Happy.
• Philippines
23 Dec 12
Be strong my friend, life is just like a carousel that just goes round and round, just make sure that you are always gear up to be safe from harm.
• Philippines
22 Dec 12
Hello and welcome :) I am 25 and running 26 this coming March and I have questioned myself the same way as you did. I can still remember that I posted something about it here on mylot 5 months ago. I feel like my life was empty, i have a lot of questions and there are no answers. I was not successful, I am a failure, I haven't make my parents proud of me, I have no successful love life and no work, but one day i just realize that in order to achieve what i like, I need to take it one step at a time. I gave time to myself and pampered myself. I slowly checked my credentials and started to make my resume and I have always put in my mind that even if I am no yet there (my dream and ambition) I will get there no matter what even at this age. I don't pressure myself too much because it's depressing. Right now all is well, I am starting my little business and I mingle with people,chatting with friends sometimes having fun. If you are asking on how to start your life then go to the basic. Love yourself, being in love with yourself will motivate you to do things that would make your life better then so on and so forth. Good Luck :)
• Philippines
23 Dec 12
Im glad that making time is important to you, making time important means loving naturally is lifes greatest achievement that you must give to yourself.
• Philippines
22 Dec 12
It also came to a point in my life when I questioned everything. It is because of the stress in my work and the problems that I encountered. So I started volunteering to various groups and joined charity events. I then saw how lucky I am to have a family, a job, and partner to love me for who I am. My questions were replaced with gratitude that I am lucky comparing to the other people and my problems can be solved and I'm the one who is stressing myself. So I quit my long time job and started all over again. I became financially stable at the age of 25. You are still young and you can achieve success as long as you try to make the right decisions in your life.
• Philippines
22 Dec 12
Youre lucky, you got the needle from the hay, not all people catch the fish in the ocean, i think youre a hardworking individual and a loving family man. Thanks.
@ARIES1973 (9539)
• Legaspi, Philippines
22 Dec 12
Hi friend! I came to a point when I think that everything that I am doing is wrong. That I am a failure because no matter how hard I try, yet I cannot have a glimpse of what is called success. However, I did not stop from trying. I evaluated my past actions to know on which particular aspect I may gone wrong. I could say that before you could attain what you want in life, first and foremost you have to know what it is that you like to attain. Set your goal. By doing this, you could develop a plan in order to reach this goal. Maybe we could also help you better if we know about it. You are lucky to have found this site. Why? This can be the gateway to a successful life. So cheer up! You might not know it but we are here to help you. Lay down your goal and we will help you achieve it by sharing our ideas and strategies that could help you. Welcome to myLot! Have a nice day!
• Philippines
22 Dec 12
Lets thank myLot for that, i am gaining sympathy from all of you
• India
22 Dec 12
Hi friend, welcome to mylot. Don't think you are not successful. Each and every one is living for something.. Most of us having question about the meaning of our life. Some of us searching for it. Each and every one is born in this world for some purpose and we all doing our activities based on it. At the beginning we don't know what is the purpose of our life, we will realize it after getting maturity and achieving our targets. We all have some unique talents, skills, needs, responsibilities in our life and doing our activities based on it. No one is useless or unworthy in god's creation. Each and every one is having their own value and shining in their field with their talents. Some of us don't take more effort to achieve our targets, so we don't know about the concept of our life. If we set our goal and try our maximum to achieve our target, surely we will achieve our aim and find out the meaning for our living. Don't think that your life don't have any meaning and you are living without any reason. We all have our unique duties and responsibilities which is given to us and working hard to fulfill them. We will find the real meaning of our life after achieving our things. May be at the beginning life seems to be meaningless and empty. But after achieving our goals, we will get the real meaning for our life. If you want to find out the reason and real meaning for your life, set out your goal in your field and work hard to achieve it. Your hard work, concentration, dedication and efforts will help you to reach your goal and you will achieve your target with your activities. You will get happiness after reaching your goal as well as satisfaction by finding out the real meaning of your life.
• Philippines
22 Dec 12
Thanks for your response,meaningful one
@bluespygirl (2112)
• Philippines
22 Dec 12
Hello there! Welcome to myLot. I am at this point of my life too where I question what is life all about. I just go with the flow and do my thing that I am supposed to do. You know, being a mom, household chores, business and everything that I need to do. I am not saying that I am spiritual or I am an expert here. But, I believe that we should nourish our spiritual part of our life. I have been to my lowest point of my life. Actuay, I am still coping. In my lowest and darkest point, I had learned that no ONE can help you -- even your closest friend, parent or partner. I had learned that only God can give you comfort. Try it, believe me. Try nourishing your spiritual side. Happy Holidays and Happy Lotting!
• Philippines
22 Dec 12
Thanks for your comments and suggestions. Maybe spiritual thing is right, but you must stick to the saying: in god have mercy, in people have to do it.
• Philippines
26 Dec 12
It’s normal that we experienced such in our human existence because it is patterned in our human lifestyle. Society dictates us what to do, and what not to do. We were born with set rules, regulations, and plans in our life that we must conform. Life is not just about working us to earn a living, or to eat four times a day. It’s about knowing your purpose and setting up your goals that you want to achieved. Let’s remember that this is a dog-eat-dog world and every day is a competition, we just need to put up our a-game to be successful in our daily life.
@Mavic123456 (14474)
• Thailand
22 Dec 12
Life, is just a matter of choices. What do you like to do with your life? what do you like to achieve? You said that you don't like, fame you just like to have something that will make you worthy as a person. First thing first. then everything will flow accordingly. First, what do you want to straighten up, to iron out? your, financial, emotional, social life? You have to determine first what you really want. Be specific on how you want your life to be? It will not be solved by sighing and questioning about it. It will not be solved if you won't do anything about it. so... just aim for specific target. You are still young and life has a lot more things to offer you.. just work something on it, wait and be patient. If you believe in prayers then pray.
• Philippines
22 Dec 12
just relax... i am at the same age as you are. there is always a time for everything. be patient and most of all pray and have FAITH in HIM and everything will be fine.