Long Distance Love Relationship

Philippines
December 21, 2012 11:51pm CST
I am into long distance love relationship and my boyfriend and I faced so much hindrances and hardships. Being into a long distance love relationship is not that easy, so much to sacrifice and consider. He is from the USA and I am from the Philippines so one of the hindrance is the time zone but we manage to talk everyday, we just need adjustment. Are you into long distance love relationship as well? How do you manage it?
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@KrauseHome (36448)
• United States
22 Dec 12
This would be a hard situation to be in, especially when you Love and really care about one another. There are a lot of challenges coming with that as well. Do you have any plans to be together soon to change this? I know couples do things like this all the time, but this would be hard.
• Philippines
22 Dec 12
Yes, we planned to be together. He wants me to live in Wisconsin soon. But I am going to the UK for the work. It's between my relationship and career, I explain to him. It's hard to make a final decision bu I need that job.
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@KrauseHome (36448)
• United States
23 Dec 12
Well, since you are New to myLot I do not know that much about you yet, but if you and your boyfriend are Praying people, maybe the Best thing you might want to consider is Praying about it, and let god lead you both in the decision that is best for you. Wishing you the Best.
• India
1 Jan 13
I started my relationship at the age of 18 when I was in my intermediate level.At time time relationship was a simple attraction and slowly got maturity and then many problem started.We were staying far apart and it was really difficult for both of us to stay.There was so much resistance offered from her family and my family also but we were successfully overcame all the huddles and finally got married last year and she is pregnant now.Both our families are very happy and waiting for the new family member to come.This is my successful story and I think I am very lucky that I got what I wanted but there are many relationship which do not get a destination.
@Porcospino (31366)
• Denmark
25 Dec 12
I am not in a long distance relationship at the moment, but I have had two long distance relationships in the past and it is hard. I missed my boyfriend a lot and it was hard that we weren't able to be together. We talked on the phone a lot and we tried to keep the relationship alive in other ways like the unexpected letters and parcels that we sent to eachother. I was so happy when I suddenly received an unexpected parcel from him. The things that he sent me weren't expensive or anything like that, but I was happy to know that he had been thinking about me and wanted to surprice me.
@Lucas818 (377)
22 Dec 12
well I'm in a long distance relationship for 12months, which we're in two different countries. It was okay at the beginning but now we're facing with some difficulties. She can't arrange her time to communicate, due to her job. Somehow we're trying to work this out and I hope things will get better soon...
• Philippines
26 Dec 12
Time is somewhat makes a long distance relationship crucial, since you two have different time zones, you need to sacrifice such hours to communicate with your loved one. But although this is a big take in your relationship it also is helpful because you put in effort in communicating with your love one.
• Philippines
25 Dec 12
Im into a long distance relationship.We've been chatting for almost a year and half.Sometimes we fought .But its part of love.One way to maintain long distance relationship is communication and trust with each other.
@enelym001 (8322)
• Philippines
22 Dec 12
Yes I'm in. And I do know how difficult it is. We fought about some past relationship with others. I was wrong. He was wrong. We hurt each other. And I came into a conclusion that we broke up already 'though there is no closure yet. ANd he is still messaging every day at least even a hi or some small talk. I was getting over him when one day I guess he felt it. And asked why am I not responding anymore. Turns out for him we are still together... and for me we aren't. We tried to talk. And now we are together again. That is one hindrance of being in LDR. Since we can't talk to the other, the messages we hear or read from them is somehow quote hard to interpret. The sincerity we may feel on that time we are talking to them... but there will be times you will ask yourself is he for real, is this relationship really going somewhere... Right now, we are limiting our communication unlike the first month that we are skypeing and chatting morning, afternoon and evening.
• Malaysia
22 Dec 12
First tho i never experience this kind of relationship before, but i strongly believe that it can work, as long as the couple have faith in each other and truly love each other. Good luck for you.