Violence is NOT ALWAYS an option

Philippines
December 25, 2012 10:56pm CST
Yes, it is true that every crime is punishable by law. There is always a thing called "Due Process" or a legal procedure in confronting acts punishable by law. But the thing is, not everybody has the chance to take this way of finding justice. Some are afraid, some are intimidated, some are harassed and some are even embarrassed exercise their right. Most, if not all people believes that we should not put justice into our hands. Well for me it doesn't happen all the time. Seriously? What will you do if SOMEONE is after you and is ready to kill you or hurt someone you love? will you just watch them, call the police and wait for minutes or even hours to save yourself or your love one? Of course not! I believe everybody will have this adrenaline rush and do anything that could save himself (love one) even if it takes hurting that SOMEONE or using violence. This is why I don't criticize what Slim (Jennifer Lopez) did in the movie "Enough".
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@WakeUpKitty (8694)
• Netherlands
26 Dec 12
No pity enough not every crime is punishable by law. In most cases law is not punishing at all. Police will tell you they can only help you after you been killed. An advocate ones told me: there is a big difference between being right and getting your right! I think that already says enough. This besides of the fact that the society/country I live in is way more interested in helping (out) criminals as vitims.
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• United States
27 Dec 12
You are right. I have found that to be true also. It seems that police aren’t there to stop crime from happening. Police are there to investigate crimes after they have occurred and to arrest people. They do sometimes stop crimes in progress, but often times they don’t. They can’t be everywhere at once, and they don’t always help much in domestic disputes.
@celticeagle (159017)
• Boise, Idaho
26 Dec 12
I loved the movie "Enough" and it is on my top ten must sees annually. Sometimes over dramatizing something is the best message. I like revenge type movies. I think it is good therapy for some of us. We know this is wrong and you shouldn't take justice into your own hands but you can't set by and watch it happen to you and yours either. Proactive and ready is something people should think about.
@celticeagle (159017)
• Boise, Idaho
26 Dec 12
And she was in a situation where her husband could buy off anyone so unless she got rid of him she would lose her daughter. If I was up against that I would fight him, or anyone else, too. A mothers love is deepest, strongest and most absolute.
• Indonesia
26 Dec 12
That sounds like a very interesting story plot. I will definitely check the movie out. Thanks guys :)
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• Philippines
26 Dec 12
Exactly! At least someone understands me here:) I really love the movie. It brings so much emotions in me. Of course in a good way. I love how they depicted that women shouldn't be weak, women shouldn't always be seen as underdogs.
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@anandjee (282)
• India
26 Dec 12
Violence is NOT ALWAYS an option , i agree with you, this problem arise when Government is not responding on the time, then this problem arise and some unlawful people join this, agitation , violence is not good for anyone, it harm other people also who are not involve on this agitation, some time governemt is not responding due to when they make a law the bad people who are in government they come under the scanner and the government is gets is problem , because law is made for everyone evam politician also , so they are hisitate to make the law, government have power to kill the agitaion by force applied , then what citizen do then?. they cant wait for another election , hariom
• Indonesia
26 Dec 12
It is unfortunate that things like that happen everywhere in the world.
• Philippines
26 Dec 12
Thank you anandjee:) I wouldn't really rely on the government for justice. Why? because even the government use violence to get what they want, so how can we trust them?
@jeetking (190)
26 Dec 12
According is not an option always because it will be the end of everything.
• United States
26 Dec 12
Do you mean it will be the end because everyone will kill each other?
• Philippines
26 Dec 12
What? I'm sorry i did not understand.
@leeandrew (1225)
• Philippines
26 Dec 12
So true that every crime is punishable by law if... the criminal got caught, but most criminals these days always got away. They were able to live a free life and have not faced the punishment that are meant for the horrible act they did. I am thankful though that at least God knows all that happen in this world and I know that not any one of us will be able to escape from His punishment. I really don't know what will I do if I see my loved one being hurt by another person. They would never like what I'd do to them of course.
@leeandrew (1225)
• Philippines
28 Dec 12
@Isjap: so true, those criminals might have thought they're lucky enough to get away, but what they don't know is the punishment they thought they have gotten away is already there with them. Poor people, they thought they're smart but the truth is... they're blinded of their evil thoughts. @va: true as well, sometimes I also think that I might use violence if necessary, but actually I din't to use violence co's all that I needed is prayer. A prayer that all the days of my life I'm covered with God's protection.
• Indonesia
26 Dec 12
Yes most criminals seem to succeed in getting away with the crimes they have committed. It is also true that no criminals can escape from the punishment they deserve from God. Nobody escapes from his own karma, good or bad.
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• Philippines
26 Dec 12
This is one of the reasons why people who wants to defend their selves end up using violence because criminals nowadays could just get away easily.
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@00zero00 (30)
26 Dec 12
Violence is never to be exercised by any person whatever the reason is...that's what I believe. Law is created to prevent violence against people at all cost...But I really can't say what I'll do if someone is to hurt my loved ones, and I hope no one would try to hurt them, I also hope that I can stay true on what I believe if that really happens. And the movie you're talking about... I haven't watched it but I think I'll watch it some other time.
• Philippines
26 Dec 12
Yes, I also believe in that but I guess in some situations you just can't always do the right thing. I hope you get what I mean. Anyway, you should watch the movie, it's really nice:)
• Indonesia
26 Dec 12
In my opinion whatever you do that saves life will most likely be the right thing, but then I have not watched the movie yet :)
31 Dec 12
Yes, i agreed but any time situations and circumstances are very negative. In such situation any person have to take some decision like violence. He or she not happy to ho but some time the other one need for it so in many situation it right. Everyone want to happy in their life but everything in the life is not according to us. The real life and movies are the two different things so i think no one should compare.
@surfer222 (1714)
• Indonesia
26 Dec 12
I think i saw that movie, but i'm not sure... If the movie was the one that i had in mind, i didn't really enjoy it, probably because the oppressor was a man and the one that had to defend them self is a woman, so the audience can accept the decision that she made in that movie... but what if the oppressor was female and the one that had to protect their loved one was a man... can the audience accept the decision to kill the woman? In real life, if ex-husband or ex-bf kill ex-wife or ex-gf, nobody will hear his side of the story, it's different when ex-wife or ex-gf who kill their ex-husband or ex-bf, everybody want to hear her side of story.
• Philippines
27 Dec 12
The idea of the movie was to show the real life situation of many women in the world. That even if they are hurt, they still try to stand up and forgive their partners because of love. But then even the kindest and loving person if you've reached to their limits, loses their love and and affection for you and diversify it to hared. Slim in the movie accepted all the cheating and assault of his husband towards him because of her love. But when his husband try to hurt her daughter that's the time she started hating his husband and finally decided to fight for her and her daughter's life.
@smilemoon (766)
• United Arab Emirates
26 Dec 12
We need to recover our minds and think slowly and make expectations about the bad effects of violence.
• Philippines
26 Dec 12
Sometimes, if we are in the bad situation we really just can't think and make good decisions.
@Suziecha (89)
• China
26 Dec 12
Yes, I agree with what you said. We should fight for rights, benefits, justice and other things by ourselves. And then I think I have an interest in watching the movie "Enough".
• Indonesia
26 Dec 12
You are right Suziecha. That is what every individual should do.
• Philippines
26 Dec 12
Thank you Suziecha:)
@Angelpink (4035)
• Philippines
26 Dec 12
For me it is a kind of self defense . I would not resort to getting ones life. I will try my best not to kill but would just paralyze the perpetrator maybe so that he will not succeed in his dreadful intention to me. I will never get anyones life , a big big no no to our belief. Violence is not an option and will never be. Communication is , cool relax mind also . I believed anything can be done in cool , communication. Listen and be heard .
• Philippines
26 Dec 12
You may not want it but you can never tell. It all depends on the situation you encounter.
@GilMegans (241)
• Philippines
26 Dec 12
Hi val1234. Every crime committed by any culprit or offender is punishable by law regardless on what is the nature of its commission. However, everyone has the right to claim the presumption of innocence and that the litigation should be undergone "due process" to give a fair trial of both parties, that's precisely the rules that enshrined in the constitution. True indeed that not everybody have been awarded by the so called "due process" but it doesn't mean that the whole justice system was revolutionizing its rule to the entire judiciary. There are only few who will practice such but most of them are still reputable justices and hold its principle for the equal rights of every individual. As the saying goes, "no one is above the law" and that, we should refrain in following such practice to put the law in our hands because no justice at all has been prevail in this land. (that's a wrong concept & principle). In addition, the example that you are referring to is all about "Self Defense". Self defense is not actually a direct form of violence - it is however a kind of act to protect oneself out from danger or to any harm that have been put into. So therefore, as long as you have an option to defend your rights or protect yourself it cannot be considered as violence and it is not an excuse nor an option. With the above cited explanation, this will clearly emphasize how our rights being performed and when we certainly exercise our rights of protection against any danger brought by any person. Culprits who are committed crimes are therefore subject for a due process during litigation. Further, thorough and in-depth investigation and careful evaluation on the evidences presented by its council must be cautiously observed and applied for the benefits of a fair trial. Whereby, no person or individual has the mere right to use his capacity or capability to put the law on his own hands, that's absolutely against the law. We have the law that stipulated in our constitution order that people will be guided properly and know its boundary and limitation pertains to their actions.
• Philippines
26 Dec 12
Thank you. I learned a lot from this. Your thought are really organized. I'm just speechless. Good day!:)
@Eric731 (40)
• New Zealand
26 Dec 12
Violence is illegal and the offender is subjected to penalty by law. In relation to the example as stated above (if someone was going to hurt or kill others), protecting oneself or others from being hurt or killed is a necessity. One can call the police instantly. I don't know if doing something ''violence'' to the predator in order to stop him or her attacking the victim in this circumstance is a crime.
• Indonesia
26 Dec 12
I would call that self defense or self protection. It would be a crime to let a criminal hurt or even kill you or your loved ones if you could attempt something to prevent that from happening.
@deiusz (193)
• Indonesia
26 Dec 12
i dont know yet the movie that you mention, but about 'will happen' that like what you think and if you know , it think just do the best that you can do. Sometimes justice is very expensive price, for any condition and sometimes not fair if you are the right ppl, and could be the 'false' ppl can be free because he/she is 'powerfull' person. i guess we can not apply this in all condition,that's always exception even we knew that's not really fair.
• Philippines
26 Dec 12
That's really true. Now power is all over the world. Without power you can't really exercise your rights. You will always be the underdog especially when you consider fighting justice against someone who is powerful. Money, connections and power can really run the world.
26 Dec 12
LOVE is the only way to spread peace in the globe. Violence kill the brotherhood through out the world. Violence can not be a way to solve problem in any mean. Violence outrage the modesty of love. Violence propagate the hate and cruelty in the society. So be wiser and choose the path that brings prosperity to you and to the people around you.
• Philippines
27 Dec 12
Yes, love is truly the way to spread peace. But sometimes, Love is also the root cause of pain and suffering to people. Yes, everyone should we wise in all the decision we make not thinking just about one's self but as well as the people around us.
@dandan07 (1906)
• China
27 Dec 12
Thanks to the development of modern technology and social science, now we have many ways to deal with the problems around us. We can call the police, put the cases to the law and ask NGO for help. So that we can solve our problems in a legal way without use violence. To many people, they do not know they can solve problems in those ways or they do not own enough knowledge to use these methods to deal with their problems, so they are up to violence. I think the best way to avoid violence is telling people how to use their rights and powers in a suitable way.
@salonga (27775)
• Philippines
27 Dec 12
The rule is right, We should not justice in our hands. This however is different from what we call "self defense". It would be so dumb of a person if he did not do something to protect himself from any criminal all because he believes he should not put justice in his hand. Also it is wrong to wait for the police, if you can do something to defend the victim from the perpetrator. It is lack of concern if you just watch when you can do something. I would say that the rule must be properly applied depending on situation.
@toyota4k (1208)
• Philippines
28 Feb 13
Self defense is justified. The "people power" was also justified by the rest of the world when the Asian dictator, Marcos was ousted but I doubt whether the so called Edsa II was.
• Liechtenstein
27 Dec 12
I don't care what the law says to be honest. If anyone or anything intends to harm me or anyone I know, I would do anything to stop them from doing it. Even if it means killing them. I mean they are the ones who tried to kill/violate us. So why on earth are we not allow to use whatever means necessary to protect ourselves? The criminals should know that when committing crimes there's always a huge risk/consequences that comes with it.
@lsjapdoit (651)
• Indonesia
26 Dec 12
In an emergency situation where our life is in great danger, it is a must to defend ourselves and do all the necessary things so that we do not to get hurt or killed. That would be called self defense rather than violence. I think I am going to check out the movie soon :)
• Philippines
26 Dec 12
But sometimes even if we would like to just defend ourselves, we still end up using violence and not merely self defense. right?:)
@lokisdad (4226)
• United States
14 Jan 16
Its not so much a matter of criticism as much as it is that if you believe in the system vigilante justice undermines the whole thing. At that point you become part of the problem.