I've been bullied!

Philippines
December 29, 2012 9:10pm CST
Yes! I am a victim of bullying. Ever since I was a kid, I've been bullied due to the fact that I am fat. So, upon maturing and growing up, I decided to lose some weight plus the fact that I wanted to be perfect for that one i loved. It did work out for me, my body structure today is better than those of the past but still I have those what you call "excess fats". My siblings, keep on making fun of me, though I'm already used to it, they still treat me as that fat sis they always have. Its really ironic right? but somehow, I feel irritated when it comes to my classmates who keeps on bullying me of that I am fat. Hello?! They are more fatter than me, its just a matter of height hat lacks in me actually, but really, they do. They keep on making fun of me to the point that I end up ruining their day. Really, I am a very straight-forward and frank person, I really speak my mind. So, in the end, I turned out to be "the Bully" instead, for being real. Until now, I'm working on my excess fats so that I will never be bullied a school. I know his would worked out for me. And I will be better.
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7 responses
@ZoeJoy (1395)
• United States
30 Dec 12
Being fat has nothing to do with being bullied. Skinny, scrawny kids are often bullied. So, don't let people get under your skin. Wish them a good day and bite your tongue. It is when you have confidence in yourself that you will feel better about yourself, not just what you looked like on the outside. Say kind words to others and kindness will come back to you.
• Philippines
14 Jan 13
Yes! you're right... I am kind as well, but those classmates of mine are really mean.. As if they are those mean girls in the "MEAN GIRLS" movie.. they kept on seeing me as the subject for them to make fun with.. It just saddens me but irritates me as well.
@Shavkat (63439)
• Philippines
30 Dec 12
For concern people, it is fine to tell you about their concerns. Thus it should not make it as for fun. I don't like being bullied, in some point I had proven them wrong.
• Philippines
14 Jan 13
yeah that's right... I always proved them wrong in the end.. but somehow, It feels like I'm the bad guy in the end.. was that a normal feeling? But I never concerned myself with that anymore. At least, I'm not a fake friend. hehe
@KrauseHome (35291)
• United States
2 Jan 13
Personally there will always be people in your life that no matter what is going on, will always want to make fun of you, and say mean unkind things. Often times, this is because they are upset and angry with themselves. When they are not pleased with themselves and how they look, etc. they have to pick on someone else just to feel better about themselves. Makes you wonder though why they cannot see it and just want to help change themselves instead?
@robspeakman (1705)
31 Dec 12
I think it is safe to say that most of us have been bullied in our lives. I was a tiny boy from a poor family when I was a school - bullying would be daily. I grew up in a time when going to teachers or parents was seen as a weakness and if you were being bullied, you should deal with it yourself. If that is your real picture in the profile image, you do not appear fat. Bullies will find something that singles a person out - fat, thin, black, white, Gay or straight - you get the picture. The really is no solution to bullying, we could report it. That may stop one particular bully from bullying you... there are other bullies. I always found confidence and self assurance, however fake - always diluted bullying
@WakeUpKitty (8706)
• Netherlands
31 Dec 12
I can tell you by now that if you are not "fat" anymore you will be bullied about something else. Since it has nothing to do with being fat or thin or tall or little, wearing glasses, having a different colour of eyes, skin or whatever. All children be bullied nowadays have 1 thing in common: they are too friendly. People will keep bullying you till you are kicking back, tell them to shut up, show where your limit is!
• Jacksonville, Florida
30 Dec 12
I am pretty sure everyone at one time or another has been bullied. I know I was bullied horribly, and so was everyone I know actually at one time... There is no getting away from it. I got bullied in school and at home. The thing is, you have to ignore it and move on. The only way it becomes true is if we believe its true ourselves what they say about us... I had glasses, I was a tomboy, I was poor, and I was not cute when I was younger at all...So yeah I got picked on all the time every single day! I used to let it bother me until I realized that every single person has been bullied. Its not right but it will most likely never completely stop. Pick your head up high and just know you are special and there is no reason to let the bullies get to you...
• Bermuda
30 Dec 12
Be propud of who God created you to be you are made in His image and likeness and in His eyes you are prescious because you are a part of His wonderful creation. You are beautiful in the site of God. and only what He thinks of you matters. So dont worry about what other people say Just Worry abut what God says about you.