I lose my temper

@Daisy_22 (1230)
Philippines
December 30, 2012 10:55pm CST
Last day of the year where I really pissed off with my sister. She borrowed my laptop last night and delete the history without asking my permission. I am really mad for I had an account there in my online business ready when I open it but unfortunately I haven't save my account and password! I am mean if I had shouted her today?If you were on my shoes,what are you going to do?
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13 responses
@AkamaruKei (5220)
• Malaysia
31 Dec 12
When i borrowed my brother laptop i always him before i do something in his laptop. No need to get mad because of this thing just calm down a be patient. Tell her nicely like this, next time if want to delete something ask your permission before delete it. Do you forgot your username and password?
@Daisy_22 (1230)
• Philippines
31 Dec 12
To tell you honestly, I really don't memorize my account and password for I have a lot of sites being joined!
@Daisy_22 (1230)
• Philippines
31 Dec 12
Actually I do recover my password after an hour of retrieving it.
@Nursefrai06 (2498)
• Penrith, Australia
31 Dec 12
Its true that the thing she did would make anybody angry, however it wouldn't be nice to ruin the holidays for anybody. Besides everything happens for a reason, think positively about it, I know it is easier said than done but it really is worth a shot if you do this successfully, you definitely make this years start a hood one for the both of you, I'm sure she didn't mean it and surely she wouldn't have done it on purpose. Maybe it's a blessing in disguise which you might find soon enough. I hope youll be okay with your sister soon enough. Happy new year, have a good one, :)
@Daisy_22 (1230)
• Philippines
31 Dec 12
I don't keep bad feelings in my heart for it only kills the good aspect in you. i used to express my anger by shouting or confronting person but after that there's no more problem. As long as I can express my feelings then it means for good!
• Penrith, Australia
31 Dec 12
That's good for you then, it's good that you let go of your anger easily and don't keep hard feelings towards others. That's a good start, maybe next you can focus on directing your anger into more productive things of self-expression. Happy new year! Take care. :)
@jenny1015 (13389)
• Philippines
31 Dec 12
I'd be probably mad as you. But you can always recover your password through your email, right? We sometimes, just instantly get mad without realizing that there are solutions for certain issues. But then again, we are just human to be at fault sometimes. I hope you and your sister would be okay before the new year.
@Daisy_22 (1230)
• Philippines
31 Dec 12
Actually I used to do that every time my things will be used without my permission. But then again it's not a big deal for me. It;s only a very little thing to be argued about.We easily consider each other's initial reactions.
@Daisy_22 (1230)
• Philippines
31 Dec 12
Actually I used to do that every time my things will be used without my permission. But then again it's not a big deal for me. It;s only a very little thing to be argued about.We easily consider each other's initial reactions.
@cobalt20 (1321)
• Philippines
31 Dec 12
If I were in your situation, you should bought a laptop for your sister. So that she can have her own laptop. Just don't get upset. Happy New Year!
@Daisy_22 (1230)
• Philippines
31 Dec 12
I'm sorry to say and not to offend you but we usually share each other.We do try to share and practice giving if others don't have.
@Cutie18f (9563)
• Philippines
31 Dec 12
That is a very huge mistake on your sister's part. She had caused the disappearance of something which is very important to you. That should be the last time you should lend her your laptop.
@Daisy_22 (1230)
• Philippines
31 Dec 12
I don't want to act like being selfish or rude to her. All she needs to do is not to delete something which really doesn't concern her own business
@meumeu25 (917)
• United Arab Emirates
31 Dec 12
Hi, I will be mad too, but it is not something that makes me lose my temper and shout at anyone. You can always fix that problem. She probably didn't mean to do it. I think it is just a normal reaction, especially when something important had been messed up.
@Daisy_22 (1230)
• Philippines
31 Dec 12
I know she didn't do it in purpose but my concern is that she needs to ask permission if there will be a time she wants to delete browsing history to avoid this problem.
@ddaguno (3110)
• Philippines
31 Dec 12
hmmmm.... yes, you did have a reason to get mad. but now that you've yelled and let her know that she has done something to upset you, maybe it's time to kiss and make up... Don't you think an browsing history would be a petty reason to stay mad on a new year? You'll probably be able to retrieve your password anyway. Happy new year!
@Daisy_22 (1230)
• Philippines
31 Dec 12
yeah I guess that's the good thing for me to do since a few hours will be the beginning of 2013 and I don't wanna feel bad. I need to start a very good and nice feeling for 2013.
@ZoeJoy (1395)
• United States
4 Jan 13
Well, perhaps it is time to move out or move in a place where your sister doesn't live. If you can't move out, then put a lock on your bedroom door. In other words, you can't trust that she won't borrow your things without your permission and if she borrows them, she doesn't give them back in good order and in good condition. I would not let her borrow my laptop. It is what you are using for your business. She can either do without a laptop or save her money to buy her own. It sounds cruel but it is what is best so that you can maintain a good relationship. The agreement: she doesn't borrow your things and you don't get mad at her. Sounds like a fair agreement, don't you?
• Mexico
2 Jan 13
Hi Daisy: I would not say your mean but you have to control your emotions. It was disrespectful but feeling the anger, specially on a day like this is not a good option. I would advise you that instead of arguing with your sister, take actions. Be strong and don't borrow her your computer for a while no matter what as a consequence of her actions. For me, that's a better way of giving someone a lesson and not just fighting. ALVARO
@celticeagle (118210)
• Boise, Idaho
2 Jan 13
I would be upset too. I think in the future I would be sure to tell her, or anyone else using your laptop, not to do this. Sometimes even when we feel a person should know they don't and a full communication on such things is all important. I would know what to do next time.
@jricky1 (6809)
• China
1 Jan 13
Hey,Daisy.Be calm down and i also had the same problem before,but this can't settle anything.So what you can only do is to do it again and see whether you can make it happen again.Right?Cuz this doesn't help and meanwhile you get hurt.Hopefully this help.
@misjoseph (162)
31 Dec 12
Well i would be very angry but i can forgive her but it all depends on how she react, it depends on the type of attitude that she give to me... but i would forgive and tell her not to delete my history again without my permission next time... Happy Year...
@adhyz82 (36289)
• Indonesia
31 Dec 12
i think i can understand your reaction it`s normal reaction while our effort are deleted without our permission even they are our sister.. nothing can stop when emotion ( i remember Michael Learns to Rock song)..