we are friends again

United States
December 31, 2012 7:01pm CST
many of you know when i was here on mylot before i was having a lot of issues with a neighbor of mine. we were all like family and then all of a sudden it was all gone and we were no longer talking and she took things way to far. well a lot has changed... her daughter and us are aloud to talk again and she comes over a lot again. she uses our wi-fi more but that is ok with me i am just glad to have my "sister" back. me and her mom are talking again. we still do not talk as much as we use to on the phone. before we use to talk everyday and there are still times that we do that but there ar also times that we go a few days without talking to one another. i do go back over to her house again and she is treating my kids jsut like she use to. she even watched them a whole weekend when i was at my grandmas and my husband ended up having to work. she is back to asking me for rides again and that is nice because she gives me gas money so i can use it for that or something else if i have enough. i am happy to have them back as friends and i hope we do not go through this again but i do see now that no matter waht happens i think we can pull through it. it just might take longer than others. this took so long i was having doubts about us ever working things out but it jsut sort of blew over and i am glad it did. it is nice to have a friend back when you do not have very many. thank you everyone that had encouraging words for me during this time. it helped me a lot and all the advice i was given was very helpful.
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5 responses
• India
1 Jan 13
Hi friend, good to know that you both are friends now. Quarrels and silly fights are quite common between neighbors, but we must forget about it and help each other for our needs. Wish you to continue your friendship for a long time
• United States
7 Jan 13
yes I am glad that we were able to work things out together. yes it isn't unusual for neighbors or friends to have that between themselves but I am glad that we were able to work through it together and still be close and still there to help each other out. Thank you I hope that we can to
@stanley777 (7176)
• Philippines
1 Jan 13
Well, what a good way to start the new year and I'm happy for both of you. I guess most of us do experienced the same thing, having disagreement issues with close friends, relatives or neighbors. It's really hard to accept if we would think of the many good things we have shared with them and this thing happens. I just hope it is for good. Happy New Year
• United States
7 Jan 13
yes it was a great way to start off the new year yes I am sure everyone goes through this at some point in time in their life. but I am glad that this time it turned out ok for us in the end and I am hoping that it is for good also. happy new year
@KrauseHome (33385)
• United States
1 Jan 13
Personally, I think no matter who we are, we all go thru times like this with our friends. I think sometimes things happen to where you feel it is best to take a break away, and often find out you really missed the person, and so you decide to mend the fences and be friends again. Glad this was the case for you.
• United States
6 Jan 13
I agree with you 100% on this everyone at some point in there life has or will run into this problem with a friend it is almost human nature for it to happen it just goes to how you handle it and tackle it on how it will turn out. I am very happy it turned out this way and hope to not have to go thro this again with anyone much . less this neighbor.
• China
1 Jan 13
Better make friends than make enemies.It is so great to hear that you two finally work out the difference and get back together.It would be also a brand-new beginning in the year of 2013.Cherish the moment you get along well with your neighbors coz as an old Chinese saying goes,a good neighborhood is better than a brother far away. Wish you all the best,happy new year.
• United States
6 Jan 13
yes it is always better to have friends than enemies any day. yes it is nice to start the new year reunited as friends. I have been and will keep cherishing every moment I have with them. I have never heard that saying before but I will always remember it because it has a lot of meaning to me with family I don't talk to much and this neighbor is a good person to keep around who is just as good if not better than some family. I hope you have a good new year also. happy New year to you to
@Cutie18f (9564)
• Philippines
1 Jan 13
Well, as one famous adage goes, love your enemies or love thy neighbors. It is just right for us to be at peace with our neighbors since they are the ones who can see our house when we are not around. We might have differences with our neighbors but it is always good to be humble and friendly at all times to avoid trouble and to have peace in our hearts.
• United States
1 Jan 13
i agree with you 100% on this. i realized that the people we need the most are the ones that are around us and if we do not treat them correctly and we do not stay at peace with them then we are alone and your right they can either watch our house and help us out or look and not do anything if something is going on. i am happy to be back on good terms with her