He Said He Gets It Now!

Jacksonville, Florida
January 2, 2013 9:47pm CST
I am excited y'all! My husband said he get's why I love it here so much now. I read him a few of my discussions and my husband said I get it now. He said, it earns a little money, keeps you busy on times when everything else is done and it gives you adults to talk to! I am so excited he finally see's why I love it here so much! I'm done now, just wanted to share that with everyone since I'm so happy about it! He see's the MyLot light now...
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@Hatley (164672)
• Garden Grove, California
3 Jan 13
hi lovingMyBabies oh good deal thats great now if I co uld get ny son to see why I love mylot. hes a Facebook fan faretheewell and has loads of pictures and stuff on his account. I love mylot much more as I care about my friends here and its helped me s o m ch with being able to accept staying in this tiresome retirement center.And sometimes I have been able to help others and that was a great feeling too.I love my earnings too. I am so glad your husband understands now and he has a really intelligent grasp on it.
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• Jacksonville, Florida
3 Jan 13
Ugh, I lost my entire response to you but here it goes again... I hope your son will see the MyLot light soon! It took my husband 2 years and now he finally gets it. He knew I was here but didn't know what it was all about. I willingly told him about a few discussions and that is when he said I get why your always on there now. He said its great that your getting to socialize with different people and make a little money too! =)Hopefully one day your son will get it too.
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• United States
3 Jan 13
Hatley, isn't this the same son who fixes your computer woes all the time? Surely he has to see that you are so upbeat and positive, and that you're able to pay for some of your extras.
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@Orson_Kart (4353)
• United Kingdom
3 Jan 13
He's only getting it now? From what I have read, he was getting it at least 5 times a week, and twice on Sundays!
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@mysdianait (64063)
• Italy
3 Jan 13
Earlier she said it had taken him two years to get it It appears that having a crush can work wonders for everyone concerned
• Jacksonville, Florida
4 Jan 13
He gets about MYLOT now, did I not specify this?! He has no complaints in that area either...
@cher913 (25893)
• Canada
3 Jan 13
yup, same here. well, at least about the money part. i have been fortunate because i have used the money i make on here to buy little things for our daughters for Christmas (now i will be working on stuff for Easter as i will be getting payout for December) and stuff for myself and my hubby has defended me earning money on her to my daughters (when they are too lazy to make supper, etc).
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• Jacksonville, Florida
3 Jan 13
That's good! Making a little extra sure does help a lot. And so does having friends from all over the world! =-) My husband used to get upset when I was here a lot until last night, I was just so happy because now he knows why I'm here so much and why I love it!
• Indonesia
4 Jan 13
The fact that you both get paid confirms that myLot is indeed an honest site. It makes me feel good to be here. Thanks for sharing guys :)
@dpk262006 (56110)
• Delhi, India
3 Jan 13
Hi LMB ! It is nice to hear that finally your husband could understand why do you come on mylot and what you gain while discussing various issues with fellow mylotters. Now he has understood and given you his consent to be here, you could enjoy your time as and when you feel like. All the best.
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• Jacksonville, Florida
3 Jan 13
Yeah I am so happy he get's it now. =) Before he would get a little upset because he could not understand why I was here or what I was doing. Now he feels more secure and I am glad he checked it out for himself...
@dpk262006 (56110)
• Delhi, India
3 Jan 13
It is really good that now he feels better and secured.
• United States
3 Jan 13
I let adrain read what I write and what others say as well. He just thinks that when things are not right that i listen to people here tell me what to do. lol I have asked questions for him and he liked what responses he got as well. He know 9 times out of 10 when he checks in on me what I am doing. lol.
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• Jacksonville, Florida
3 Jan 13
I am glad my husband doesn't think that. He said he thinks it is a great thing that I am here and socializing with different people. =) My husband knew I was always here but this is the first time he checked it out for himself and I am glad he did.
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• United States
3 Jan 13
I am sure your husband has no reason to feel like adrain does. I came here when things were bad and was willing to let him go. he thought someone here made me not want him back. but,that was not true. I truly believe that if you love someone and they want to leave don't stop them if it is meant to be they will stay or come back. he never made it out the door that last time..
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• United States
3 Jan 13
It is great when husband's finally understand us and why we do the things we do. Randy had wondered why I am on here a lot and I had told him to talk to to people and to also find other sites that pay. I am also into crafting and I get ideas from here as well. I love being able to share with my friends and have learned from them. It is great to know that I am not alone and that there are people who have the same troubles as I do and can relate to what I am going through. Randy has Type 2 diabetes and I know there are other mylotters who have Type 2 diabetes or know of someone who does which makes it good because we are able to share stories and give each other help and guidance.
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• Jacksonville, Florida
3 Jan 13
Yes it is. It is so awesome that we all come from different walks of life but we can still enjoy each other so much here and learn so much from one another! I love it here and I am so happy he finally gets it. It took two years but hey, better late than never! =)
• United States
3 Jan 13
My boyfriend thinks that myLot is a bit odd. He's seen a few of the more garbled posts on here, so he sort of wonders about the appeal this site has for me. However, he realizes that I do get some money out of it, and I could be up to far worse things--not that I ever would.
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• Jacksonville, Florida
3 Jan 13
Of course you wouldn't do anything worse than mylot!
@mysdianait (64063)
• Italy
3 Jan 13
Just wondering which topics you showed him... was it the "crush" one perchance?
• United Kingdom
3 Jan 13
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• Jacksonville, Florida
4 Jan 13
Definitely not that one...
• Jacksonville, Florida
4 Jan 13
MysD~Where were you for my stalker discussion? I thought you would have graced us with your presence...
@bingskee (5237)
• Philippines
4 Jan 13
that's good news! not all husbands will be that understanding. well, what bad could somebody see in a discussion forum such as MyLot where you don't only get to earn but also learn!
• Indonesia
4 Jan 13
I didn't believe it the first time when somebody told me about a site that paid one for participating in a discussion. Never knew such thing existed. I am glad I checked myLot out and like it here :)
• Jacksonville, Florida
4 Jan 13
Yes I am happy he understands now! =) It is a great site to be on and even he sees that.
@donann80 (151)
4 Jan 13
I am glad for you that your husband finally get the light. He should also get an account. In that way you can make a little more money. Anyhow continue to show him the light about Mylot, it is great. Wish you all the best. Bye.
• Jacksonville, Florida
4 Jan 13
Yes I am happy too. I don't want him having an account here because I share a lot here...this is my personal online journal so I don't want him here too honestly... It would make it weird for me.
• Indonesia
4 Jan 13
Yes, that kind of weird feeling exists quite commonly in some families. Some family members feel more comfortable to confide their problems in their friends or doctors. In a way it's good, because we sometimes need unbiased input from third parties.
• Philippines
3 Jan 13
Yehey to that! We have a new mylotter. Congratulations to him and to you for being able to convince him. Hope you'll have plenty of fun both of you here in mylot.
• Jacksonville, Florida
3 Jan 13
Oh no he is not joining, he just understands why I love it here so much now... I would never be okay with him joining here!
• Indonesia
4 Jan 13
You have a point, if you and your husband both are so involved in myLot, some house works are very likely to get neglected :))
@BarBaraPrz (19576)
• St. Catharines, Ontario
3 Jan 13
Does this mean he'll start an account, too?
• Jacksonville, Florida
3 Jan 13
That is a big fat "NO"! I would not allow it, where else can I vent about him when I need to? Besides he is a REALLY slow typer so one response would take him an hour to write! Lol. I did not suggest that to him and I wouldn't either. Haha.
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@BarBaraPrz (19576)
• St. Catharines, Ontario
3 Jan 13
Right on!
@Thoroughrob (11750)
• United States
3 Jan 13
It is nice to know that your husband understands. Mine doesn't and complains all the time about how much I am on the computer. He sure doesn't complain when I have gift cards and things so we can go do things.
• Jacksonville, Florida
3 Jan 13
My husband used to do the same thing. Why don't you ever get off that computer? But now that I showed him all I do here and everything he said he finally gets it! I am so glad he does, its a relief that I don't have to explain to him all the time why I'm on here... And I am sure he does not complain about the good things that come out of MyLot...
• Indonesia
4 Jan 13
If my wife were the one giving me the good things she got from myLot, I wouldn't complain, but I would give her a few extra kisses instead :))
@wolfie34 (26816)
• United Kingdom
3 Jan 13
That is great news! So many partners often wonder why we can be so transfixed and totally consumed in Mylot, and some will even joke about it and unless they fully understand what you get out of Mylot then they will never see the fascination. I could never confide deeply with my ex, well not as much as I open up here on Mylot, many times I got the support and advice I sought, when in reality it should have come from my ex. My therapist appreciates that I have Mylot to turn to, I see her once a week, and I tell her what support I get at Mylot and she appreciates it and is happy to see me 'communicating'
• Jacksonville, Florida
3 Jan 13
I am so happy! I never thought it would happen but he has surprised me yet again. Lol. It took two years but better late than never I guess! =) I open up more on MyLot than anywhere else too. My husband knows mostly everything about me but there are some things that I only share here... That is good that your therapist thinks being here is a good thing too. =)
• Indonesia
4 Jan 13
You are right, it is never too late for something good. Being able to discuss things over with other people offline as well as online is a certainly a good thing. It can often relieve us from our burden :)
• United States
3 Jan 13
I'm so happy for you! I'm still working on my boyfriend, but he's glad to see that I'm able to earn a few extra dollars when we need it! Sometimes I just need to vent, and that makes him happy that I have someone else to talk to!
• Jacksonville, Florida
3 Jan 13
It took my husband two years to finally get it and be happy for me being here. I guess its better late than never! I hope your boyfriend will understand too.
• United States
3 Jan 13
My boyfriend doesn't really mind; he always asks me what I'm typing but he never looks over my shoulder. He DOES enjoy having a bit of extra funds coming in, but I can't imagine NOT coming here to see my friends. I hope that he gets it the same way your husband does!
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@toniganzon (49159)
• Philippines
6 Jan 13
I am so happy for you. I could never get my husband to hang around here or even just read my discussion. He's not into this and i just have to live with that. I'm just contented that he allows me to spend as much time as i want on mylot. Not that he's complaining.
• Jacksonville, Florida
9 Jan 13
It took my husband a while to understand why I enjoy it here so much but I'm glad he finally gets it now. Before that he'd always ask why I'm on the computer so much. So I'm glad he finally gets it. It just makes things easier for me!
@shaggin (36578)
• United States
5 Jan 13
Thats awesome he sees how much you love it here and why. I remember mylotting when my husband lived here but I dont think I was as active at all. I was pretty obsessed with facebook at the time. Mylot is such an awesome site. I am so glad I found out about this site 6 years ago.
• Jacksonville, Florida
5 Jan 13
Yeah I am glad he understands why I love it here so much! It is an awesome site. =)
@dorannmwin (36698)
• United States
4 Jan 13
I couldn't help but laugh at your last statement here about your husband seeing the MyLot light. That said, do you think that it would be possible for you to have your husband call my husband and explain to him why I am so incredibly addicted to mylot. You see, my husband doesn't seem to get it at all and he really should. He should realize that if it wasn't for mylot and the other sites that I work with that I would have had to have asked him for money for Christmas shopping and our children wouldn't have had much of a Christmas this year.
• Jacksonville, Florida
4 Jan 13
I was hoping it would make someone laugh! =) I know my husband, he would definitely do that for you! And knowing my husband he might throw in there that we could be b*tching to them instead of doing it here when we vent... Might change his mind a little bit!
@MsTickle (24962)
• Australia
4 Jan 13
That's great! Great that he knows what you are doing and happy for you to have this connection with all of us. You're a lucky lady to have such a nice husband.
• Jacksonville, Florida
4 Jan 13
He is a good one most of the time! He has his moments too... Lol. I'm just glad he gets it now and doesn't think I am just wasting time...
@lsjapdoit (652)
• Indonesia
4 Jan 13
I have been encouraging my wife to check out myLot and be involved. She seems to be interested but has yet to make time for it :)
• Jacksonville, Florida
4 Jan 13
That's good! Sometimes all someone needs is a little encouragement. =-) Maybe one day she will decide to check it out too.