What do you feel when nobody post comments on your discussion?

So alone - How do you feel?
@Ambebe (42)
January 3, 2013 5:54am CST
Lets say youre just new and you wanna "in" so you start a discussion you think would get anybodies attention. But nobody, not even a single comment. How do you feel about that?
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@May2k8 (6026)
• Indonesia
4 Jan 13
I feel bad, I just move on and looking for other discussions. Take more time to cure my mood.
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@Ambebe (42)
5 Jan 13
I was also like that sometimes. I wallow on the situation. But some things makes me move on. But sometimes, honestly i cant help but wallow. Hehehehehe. Oh well, were just human.
@Daisy_22 (1230)
• Philippines
4 Jan 13
It will be disappointing on my part but I will take that as a challenge to improve by posting more interesting discussions.If that happens to you personally,don't be dismay and feel bad.
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@Ambebe (42)
5 Jan 13
Hihihi. Yeah but sometimes its not about improvement, its about how catchy the topic or the title. Hihihihi. Thanks for the comment. Have a nice day and God bless you.
• Jacksonville, Florida
3 Jan 13
I would feel disappointed, mostly in myself for not coming up with a better discussion... I would try harder on my next discussion ..
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@Ambebe (42)
5 Jan 13
But sometimes you feel confident with your post that you expect replies but then "okay I'll think of another interesting post" Hihihihi. OH well maybe thats life. Have a great day and thanks for posting. ( I think I sound bitter. sorry about that. hihihihi/)
• Marikina, Philippines
4 Jan 13
Oh my. I have experience that too. Maybe the discussion that I've created is not good for every one and not that quality. It is maybe the title or the topic won't grab the attention for the readers. I feel a little bit discourage. Just a little bit, but next time, if I'll create a discusion topic, I'll make it better. Now, I don't feel to write a new topic. I just write a new topic if I just feel it.
@jenny1015 (13389)
• Philippines
4 Jan 13
I'd definitely feel bad about it. But what can I do? I guess I just need to make my next discussion more appealing and interesting for others to take time to respond.
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@pahak627 (4198)
• Philippines
3 Jan 13
I feel that no one is interested in my discussion. I guess I haven't experienced that yet but most of my discussions did not attract many responders. I always get below 10 responses to my discussions. Anyway, that's life, we can gain or loss.
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@aero89 (422)
• United States
3 Jan 13
You win some, you lose some!
@Ambebe (42)
5 Jan 13
I agree. :)
@Porcospino (18396)
• Denmark
3 Jan 13
The first discussion that I posted didn't get any responses and I was disappointed because I was interested in hearing what other people thought about my topic. Since that time I have also posted a couple of discussions that didn't get any responses, but today it doesn't bother me much. I think that there are severel reasons why some discussions don't get any responses. Sometimes it happens because it is a very narrow topic that few people are able to relate to. Sometimes it happens because you post your discussion in a category where there isn't much activity or simply because you post it at a time when there are few people online.
@Ambebe (42)
5 Jan 13
I will remember what you say and think of it always before I pst another one again. Thanks for your comment. :)
@meumeu25 (917)
• United Arab Emirates
3 Jan 13
Hi, I will feel a little disappointed but it's alright with me. If other members don't find my discussion interesting enough then what can I do. It happens sometimes. I'll just put myself in their place if a discussion is not interesting to me, I won't comment either, maybe that's just how it works.
@Ambebe (42)
5 Jan 13
Im kind of enlightened with what you say but well mostly it feels kind of not good. Hihihihi. :)
@Bayour05 (63)
• United States
3 Jan 13
Feel humiliated, like am not welcome with my topics. Especially when i want to get somthing out of people post in my topic and i have no reply i will really feel bad.
@Ambebe (42)
5 Jan 13
I do feel that way at first. Coz most of the time I always think of what I would post just like you guys here.
@Angelpink (4022)
• Philippines
3 Jan 13
Well i will feel little bit sad but i will tell myself , this is very okay , am just new , nobody knows my existence here but not a problem for soon i will be able to make friends and name in Mylot . Just be active here , keep on joining discussion and posting a discussion of your own , soon you'll find it worthy and enjoyable. It is but natural for newbies to have less responses to receive even to oldies here sometimes responses are just very few, that is so okay all have experienced such . Don't be sad , soon you'll gain many things here !
@Ambebe (42)
3 Jan 13
Now this is inspiring. :) I hope we can all be friends here. Thank you for you comment. It makes me feel that Im not alone here anymore. Happy new year.
@cobalt20 (1321)
• Philippines
3 Jan 13
I am not feel bad without comments in my discussions. Empty or 0 comments is not my problem. I am feel happy if I have more comments in my discussions. the most interests are the best for discussions.
@Ambebe (42)
3 Jan 13
Thank you. Happy New year.
@mensab (4207)
• Philippines
3 Jan 13
of course, i will not feel good about it. but on the other side, i think that my interest is not shared by others. thus, in my next discussions, i try to be fashionable and common with others' interests. anyway, i do not take it seriously and personally. i see them as my room for improvement.
@Ambebe (42)
3 Jan 13
Very true about the improvement. Happy new year.
• India
3 Jan 13
Hi Ambebe. It happens sometimes. Specially when one is new. It definitely feels bad but that is how we learn here. Once you start making friends here I don't think any such discussion of yours will exist. Anyways welcome to mylot and have a nice day. And yes, wish you a very happy new year as well... -=SuperShames=-
@Ambebe (42)
3 Jan 13
Thank you for that warm welcome. And for posting a comment of course :)
@vernaC (1493)
• Romania
3 Jan 13
I'd feel sad but it won't affect my whole day. I just go to someone else's discussions and respond there. It's ok if no one respond to your discussion because you can still earn anyway by responding to another discussion.
@Ambebe (42)
3 Jan 13
Of course it wont affect our whole day coz theres a lot of happiness to look up to in ourdaily lives. Happy New Year hihihihi.
@Sureoi (176)
• Philippines
3 Jan 13
I'd feel bad for it. I have done my best to come up with that discussion and yet no one had commented on it. Expectations is also one of the factor why I feel bad. Have a nice day and happy myloting! :)
@Ambebe (42)
3 Jan 13
Thank you. Its feels good insdie my heart that you commented here. Yes I agree with you.
@asliah (11148)
• Philippines
7 Apr 13
if nobody will response to the topic that i created as a discussion of course i will feel sad and disappointed because no one will have an interest about the topic that i have made,but its okay with me maybe they can not relate to that topic.
• Philippines
5 Jan 13
First, I would feel bad because I had given a good information to a certain topic yet nobody is interested on participating on such discussion. But after a while I just suck it up and ignore the “un-replied” discussion. After all, we are free to post any contents that doesn’t violate the terms over the site, so it’s oka’y that no one replies on your discussion because you can post another discussion as well.
• Japan
5 Jan 13
I feel forever alone, especially when it's a good topic. I just wanted to contribute to the community, but how the community doesn't contribute to your discussion is just disappointing. Seeing that you started this discussion and you appear new, I think that if you keep up the pace, though, you can get many responses to your discussions. Welcome to MyLot. *manly slap on shoulder*
@jaiho2009 (39013)
• Philippines
4 Jan 13
Of course that sounds frustrating. But it's very common to newbies. Most of my old topics only had a few responses, but there is no topic started by me that's left with zero comment. If few responses made me sad, what more with a zero one. Anyway, I hope anybody who have started a topic with zero comment won't give up but keep mylotting.