What if?

Philippines
January 4, 2013 8:20am CST
What if man and woman have common interest, likes and hobbies? What if men loves shopping, fashion and chatting like those women? I wish my boyfriend likes what I like. Lol!..sometimes I wish we share common interest like going outside. Hanging out with friends and shopping rather than he spend his time watching basketball in the television....lol!
5 responses
@ZoeJoy (1395)
• United States
4 Jan 13
Well, what if he wanted a girlfriend who enjoys watching basketball on TV??? Ummm... The interests needs to be mutual. Sometimes you need to be willing to give up a few things in order to do things together with your significant other. Or find that someone special who does like to do the things you do. But, please understand that there is only ONE you and no one like you. Therefore, there is NO one who likes exactly the same things that you do. Sounds like you need to find a boyfriend that prefers to be with friends or perhaps, you can compromise - find friends that like watching basketball on TV. That would be a win-win situation.
• Philippines
5 Jan 13
I like watching basketball on tv just like him..hehehe.. And we have also the same interest like outdoor activities but we never hang out...Hope we have time for each other.
• China
7 Jan 13
this is right .you can't impose your hobby to him,you share your common hobbies ,but keep personal hobby,the only way he will think you are unique, you have he doesn't have one.what do you think?
• Philippines
7 Jan 13
Yes, that's right. We just need to accept differences.
@Bhebelen14 (5074)
• Philippines
7 Jan 13
My husband and I have common interest, like and hobbies that's why we always enjoy each other everyday. When were both single we always hang out with friends but when we got married married we discovered that we enjoy each other company than going out with friends. But the only thing were not common in terms of playing games, he likes sport and strategy games while i love arcade and adventure games.
• Philippines
7 Jan 13
looks like you and your husband really have the same interest. Thats good for both of you. We have also dislikes, I don't like playing card games but he do.
@alberello (4755)
• Italy
4 Jan 13
Well, I can answer this question, for the purpose, purely imaginative. This is for the reason that I, despite having already the ripe old age of 37 years, I have never been involved in a relationship, I've never had a girlfriend and so I can only theorize. If I had a partner who had my same hobbies, I would be even better. However, I respect his interests (though different from mine), because I know that we are not all equal. At that point, there's a saying "a little for one"
@indahfth (11173)
• Indonesia
4 Jan 13
Everyone, has their hobby. You can not force your partner to love the same hobby. Hopefully you're lucky, get a partner who has the same hobby with you.
• Nigeria
4 Jan 13
we are not the same in character,what we likes what will does not like,you have to adapt with his likes and you cannot force him to like what you like