leaving behind someone that once was very important to you...

I would actually do what you have already done. Before I jumped to any conclusions or decisions, I would try and talk to him about this issue, in order to understand what caused these weird mood switches, was the reason in him or in me. May be, if my attempts didn't work, I would try and keep my distance for a while to see what his reaction will be. Only I am not sure I would leave him behind completely, may be I would, if he did, too. But like I said, I would first try to find whatever the reason that made him behave towards me like this.

Hi sweet love forever: I think that a person like that probably don't even know what he wants. The problem is that he could play with your feelings. I think you should try to be friendly but put your distances and maybe in the right moment ask him what he really wants to do with you. ALVARO

Its very hard to take that step. But if the other person doesn't care for you. Its better to move on. I met a girl 2 years ago online. At first she gave me alot of attention but slowly she started ignoring me. Didn't pick up my phone. I asked to call me up. She didn't do that also,l emailed her also but she didn't replied. So i thought to move on. Just care for those who care for you.

hi sweetloveforeve, hope you fine and well in your sweet life, as concerned your discussion, very sorry that you were a friend and then left you alone, As i think when do so someone as one have done with you, i like that first of all may be examine that whey he left you, then if he do it clearly, then you should ignore him and deleat him. i know it is strong to do, but that will the way to out from heart. take care.

If we think that there is no hope for a certain person, then it is time to find ways to change the way of treating other with sweetness. The friend of yours is just giving an impulse probably a plain friendship and not beyond that. Though we can never tell, the future is sometimes are full of deception.

Yes, I can relate with you. I also felt that with my boyfriend. Before, he was so sweet with me. All are perfect then suddenly after some conflicts with our relationship, he had changed a lot. But then, I accept all that changes of him. I understood him. I did everything just to get back with our usual relationship and to save our relationship. I'd became very patient with his attitude.

I would just move on with someone else and remain friend with him and once I am with someone I am loyal so I dont care if he want to act like he love me . I will not be best friend with someone i used to love until i got over them because I would want to move on so i guess I would just leave them behind and move on with my life .

I have a pretty bad experience with this kind of situation and it was with someone that I loved with all of my heart and it was with someone that I thought that I was going to marry and then be with for the rest of my life. This happened with my ex-girlfriend and she was also my best friend while we were dating. I don't really know the reason for why she broke up with me but pretty much out of the blue she just started to be really distant and cold towards me. It really hurt me real bad once this happened and when she broke up with me and I still tried to do whatever I could to maintain her as a friend. I would go into the places she worked just so I could see her from time to time and so that I could talk to her. Than she just decided that she was going to up and move to Oregon an incredibly far distance from Michigan. All of the things that she did in the months leading up to this move was unexpected and I didn't really know what to do. I've tried to stay in contact with her but I've realized that it's pretty much just me investing time and effort into this relationship. I'll text her and it will take her forever to respond. She's asked me to write her letters and gave me her address. I just don't think that she will really put much effort back into writing me. Overall I'm just trying to let her go because most of her actions just hurt me really bad and I don't think that in the end I meant as much to her as she meant to me.

If I were in your position, I would talk to him first what his intentions really are. Or what relationship is he trying to build up with me. Is it only a friendly relationship or is it more than that. Whatever his answer would be will then be my decision for this matter. Either to stick to him or simply go our separate lives.

That would be tough. I think that I would sit down with him and try to have a real heart to heart conversation. Letting him know how I feel and how his actions are confusing me. Then I would ask him what he really wants. Then we could go from their once we both knew how each other felt.

I had that with my ex husband. We had a great marriage for 4-5 years. Then he began to drink, all went bad from there.. I cared for him very much , at one day. I finally left him one day, I am glad I did.

Have you actually talked to him, to ask him about his feelings? Perhaps, you need to really find out what is going on with him by asking him. If he is no longer interested in you, then by finding out his answer, which sounds like it is that he isn't as interested in you as he used to be, you can find closure and move on. Well, if he isn't paying any attention to you anymore, you will have to find the guts to leave him. After all, he has left you. So, what are you holding onto to? Whatever it is, it is no longer there. So, it is important to face that reality and move on. So, either by having a talk with him or by just letting it go, you will need to find closure to this relationship and move on.

The fun thing about your situation is that I have a female friend that I work with who is going through the same type of situation. She has this guy that she's been dating and although the relationship started out sweet now its going sour. He does the same thing, one time he acts as if he loves her and then another time acts as if he doesn't love her. I suggest that you move on because being in a relationship like that just causes you to stress out yourself and as we all know stress is unhealthy. I'm tired of go through the same thing with my friend I have to constantly keep telling her that she is worth more then what she is going through right now and need to move on. Same to you move on there are better men

You should first clear out all your doubts and misunderstandings that you have with him by talking to him at a lunch or dinner or over a coffee. If he is not intersted in you than you should not try to persuade him. Don't be pathetic in front of him. Instead, move forward in life.

I think it's sometimes really hard to move on from situations like this, but at the same time, sometimes it is the only thing that works. So it sounds like you did the right thing, even though it cannot be easy. I've had to do the same thing a couple of times in my life, and while it was never easy, it was usually the right thing to do.

Good that you've decided to delete him in your life. It's better to move on and find someone who deserves your attention and who would care for you more than you do yourself. That's the attitude of a strong woman! If it were me, I would talk it out like what i did to my long time bbm friend. I just can't assume things on my own and wonder if he cares or not. Men are not like women that says the opposite of how they feel. They are straight to the point and they act the way he feels. If my friend would tell me he doesn't really care, i wouldn't hang on. I'll delete him in my life because i am too precious to be with someone who doesn't know my worth!