Awkward: You're Not My Type

Why does it take too long for a guy to understand that the girl is not interested, right? There was also this guy from school (about gazillion years ago0 who really wanted to court me. Well, actually I just learned about it from his friend. He was not that aggressive type of guy, but actually the exact opposite. So how am i suppose to talk to him if he doesn't talk much at all? That itself turned me off. So what would happen is that whenever he would approach me, we would just be like either sitting on the bench or just standing up and watch people pass by. There was no conversation! So one time, when I saw him coming, I hid myself inside the ladies' room. And just everytime i would see him, I would just run away and hide.

Oh, I know. There are really scary guys in that sense. Why don't they understand to leave girls alone who had told them nicely to step back? Why do they think they are entitled to lurking around? Why? Because they think all girls play hard to get? or because they think they deserve every single girl just because they are males? Pfff... I had problems with guys like these...

Sometimes, you just have to be very firm. No smiles, do not show that their is any possibility with you. You don't want to make him feel humiliated, justquite certain he needs to move on. Someone else has mentioned you may need to ask for help for your supervisor,and if you need to protect yourself you should do it. I had a surefire way of discouraging a guy without ever being rude or or demeaning -I started speaking to them about my faith-nothing more effective -it got rid of the pests-and occassionally, I had a very pleasant conversation, and found the person treated me with respect

Such things are very much common in big or small organisation where we work. Don't show any interest in such in that guy, neglect him and whenever that person tries to come near you pretend that you are busy in your work. If you do such things again and again if he is real gentlemen I am sure he will never turn to you again. But even after doing so he tries to come closer to you then straight away tell that guy that he is knocking the wrong door.

that's the props. We have to be very careful in dealings with the people. we never know the intention of a person we are mingling with. You have to be extra careful as it may lead to anything.

I guess he is so in to you! There is a way to dump such guys. Just wait for the perfect moment when you can tell him or make him feel that you don't like him the way he likes you. And i guess what you're doing now to him can make him SLOWLY realize your dislike towards him. Goodluck girl!

Find your manager and politely request that he leave you alone.

That's really something. I mean I knew the feeling. I was treated that way with my previous job. I also thought that he (an elderly) is just trying to accommodate as a newbie and I thought that he is helping me. But nah...everyday the intention become too obvious and that is one reason why I resigned from my previous job.

I agree with gifts, I would tell him in a nice way that he is making you really uncomfortable. There is no reason to be rude about it or anything, but if you don't say anything he doesn't know, he cannot read your mind. Tell him!

I think you should talk to him and tell him that you dont like him because he's too old for you and if he still continue flirting with you then you should talk to your supervisor or go to the HR department to report his unnecessary behavior. Keeping distant might not enough especially if he keeps on coming and scaring you a lot. You need to make an action now before its too late.

You can report the incident to your superior my dear. It is really a harassment-type behavior. If the superior cannot handle the situation, then the human resource is there to give any reprimands or sanctions for him.

Yea that is true there is a guy in the company and he is that same thing i really don't like him but he just don't get it or i don't know if he is pretending but i think he really love me after all

Just straight up tell him that you're not interested and he's not your type. Say you don't mind being friends, but you're not interested in him in that way. If he keeps harassing you, then tell your manager or boss or whatever. If he keeps doing it and your boss won't do anything, then tell the police. Do not let it escalate any further! This is how women get in situations they do not want to be in.