"I french kissed my friend and I love it!"

Philippines
January 22, 2013 1:46am CST
It was a really funny story from a friend of mine and I can't forget it. So, she kissed her close friend because they are bored. It was not just a simple or torrid kiss, mind you, but a french kiss! I thought friends could not do this unless they become bf/gf. But in your opinion, is it alright if friends do that kind of thing without commitment?
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21 responses
• Philippines
22 Jan 13
Don't know the differences of those kisses you mentioned but one thing for sure, if they kissed each other and they liked it, which I know you 're not defining this on behalf of your friend's experience but yours, I think that you are in an affair. Otherwise, not just something had just gone wrong.
• Philippines
22 Jan 13
hahaha, i hope it was really me like what you said. well, thanks for the response anyway.
• Philippines
22 Jan 13
hahaha... well, kissing is something very inclining!
@Mavic123456 (21898)
• Thailand
23 Jan 13
just a question but totally not in connection with your discussion... Did you just skip other responses Valorie? Or you did not see the first response? Or you choose whom you want to comment back? I just observed, no offense meant. You may or may not answer this. It is okay. thanks
23 Jan 13
Haha,that's too funny.I 've never heard this kinds of things. I have watched a TV before, which the two friends became lovers after maybe ten years.When they kissed, both of them came to laugh. The boy said,'I have never kissed my friends.' Then the girl said,'Me too.' For friends have a french kiss, it is an interesting things, but to be honest, I can't do it with my friends. And you?
• Philippines
23 Jan 13
haha, i cannot imagine myself doing that but i would like to try it one day just for a change LOL, and to feel what my friend felt when she was kissing the guy who isn't her bf.
25 Jan 13
If you have already done one day, please tell me your feeling at that moment.
@jenny1015 (13366)
• Philippines
22 Jan 13
Well, if it was a guy that I am attracted to, I might allow it to happen. But if it was my close friend, and a girl at that, it's definitely a NO!
• Philippines
23 Jan 13
yes, you are right in saying that we can kiss somebody we aren't attracted to like the people on movies but i wish they got talent fees in doing that. i think that really happened just for fun or out of curiosity.
• India
23 Jan 13
Can you kiss somebody you are not attracted to? Well, yes. Look at all the people kissing in the movies.
• Dhaka, Bangladesh
23 Jan 13
To maintain good relation with husbands/wives/boy friends/girl friends, every step should be counted and every talk should be measured. Have a very nice day.
• Philippines
24 Jan 13
thanks for the response, well said! =)
@WakeUpKitty (8694)
• Netherlands
23 Jan 13
Well people can do as they like but personally I would not kiss just an ordinary friend that way. I think it's for bf/gf or husband/wifes. Which reminds me my 7 year old daughter asked me a few days ago what kind of kiss couples were giving each other. First she did it with open mouth on my nose, told her that is not the way they do it, next on my mouth.. kind of weird to be honest.
• Philippines
24 Jan 13
you have a good point, friend. that's really weird. haha
@math21 (184)
• Philippines
22 Jan 13
I think they can, everybody can do that as long as they like it but that's not very nice, people will say bad thins to you.
• India
23 Jan 13
U cannot be worried about what people say to you, should you?
• Philippines
23 Jan 13
i think everybody could do that because we are now living in a modern world where most people get bored all the time, haha. but it depends on the personality of the people involved, i think, like my friend and her close friend are liberal and open-minded and they are both intelligent.
@ladym33 (10979)
• United States
23 Jan 13
It is a bit strange and could possibly harm a friendship but perhaps they have been attracted to each other all along. Perhaps one of them has feelings for other and that could turn in to something bad if the other person does not feel the same way. If they really just felt a kiss was just a kiss and it was just for fun and they are both single and free then I suppose there is really no harm in it.
• Philippines
23 Jan 13
that's the problem, if the other feel something special and the other does not. that's really sad and heartbreaking.
@kingparker (9673)
• United States
23 Jan 13
A french kiss? That is something beyond simply closed friends, in my personal opinion. I won't never kiss my friend with tongue to tongue, that is a bit too intimate, don't you think? Maybe I am not European I think. So, probably they were drunk and goofy at the moment, and they realized it afterward, and laugh about it. Probably they are still okay, who knows. I think a french kiss just too intimate for two persons.
• Philippines
23 Jan 13
hahaha, no, they are asians who love french kiss, i think. that's really intimate and that is for bf and gf only but, my friend told me that it was just for fun.
@willc98 (67)
• United States
22 Jan 13
That seems pretty unusual, I've never heard of that before. I mean if they like it then more power to them. But I would think they might have stronger feelings for each other than they are admitting if they kissed like that. That's a pretty passionate kiss! I've never kissed any of my friends.
• Philippines
23 Jan 13
haha, yeah, more power to them! i know this is really an unusual story that's why i posted it here without my friend's consent, haha well, i did not mention her name anyway.
@pomwango (1353)
• Kenya
22 Jan 13
this may spoil their friendship or take it to a relationship,getting physical with someone of the opposite gender is never just a game but a step to more things.
• Philippines
23 Jan 13
there is a possibility that they are moving to the next level of friendship which is called intimate relationship. well, i hope they do.
@MaylaJay (349)
23 Jan 13
No. This is not alright. One or the other of them is going to end up thinking that there is something between them, when in fact there is nothing. One of them will end up hurt. This is not alright. This is how friendships are destroyed.
• Philippines
23 Jan 13
yes, this really would hurt them and destroy their friendship but if the two of them are really open-mided, i think they will just forget what happened and continue the friendship.
• Indonesia
22 Jan 13
in according to my view, your friends probably do not realize what he was doing. but sometimes an event occurs so quickly.and without we don't really know what we have done it's something we don't want to do.
@CarraC (69)
• Canada
22 Jan 13
Wow! I for one wouldn't french kiss my friend unless there was some intimate feelings involved. I think even the simplest kiss given in the wrong way can ruin friendships. I believe your friend and her close friend has hidden feelings for each other. Being close says that they have been getting to know each other. Maybe feelings are developing, hence the reason why the kiss came along.
• Philippines
23 Jan 13
perhaps,they really have hidden feelings for each other. i hope they develop their feelings so both of them wouldn't be able to kiss a friend out of boredom again, haha because they already have each other.
• India
23 Jan 13
I think facebook was created becuz Zuckerburg was very bored. XD
• Philippines
23 Jan 13
and facebook is a great thing, haha. so i think my friend and her guy friend have done something great in their lives,haha.
@Iriene88 (5343)
• Malaysia
22 Jan 13
Hahaha, at first I thought it is about someone first kiss on a date. After reading the content of this post, I too laugh! I believe there are such cases as people are bored and for curiosity reason perhaps! So, in this case is it a boy to a girl, or a girl to a boy. Could you kindly enlighten us? Thanks ...
• Philippines
22 Jan 13
haha,this story is so crazy and funny. this kiss is between a boy and a girl but i think, it would be crazier if it was between a girl and a girl or a boy and a boy. =)
@babyeve (1048)
• Seychelles
22 Jan 13
It must have been a very nice kiss Dear. Sometimes this kind of thing happen and it is called experimenting. Therefore there is no need to feel awkward or regret it.
• Philippines
23 Jan 13
that's the right word, i think, "experimenting". they kissed each other because of curiosity and experiment. i hope they just did it once so they wouldn't end up doing what's beyond kissing, haha. that would make a problem, for sure.
@meowchie (992)
• Philippines
22 Jan 13
Your friend might have not told you in detail but we can never tell. They may be both attracted to each other than caused them to do that! LOL! I honestly have lots of boy friends too, and even if along with any of them, since I am not interested with any of them or vice versa, we weren't able to come up or even imagine of doing that kind of thing. We sing, dance, compete on games but kiss? hahaha :D Sounds new.
• Philippines
22 Jan 13
it is really something new. haha sounds like the movie "friends with Benefits" by justine timberlake and mila kunis, right?
@vernaC (1491)
• Romania
22 Jan 13
That's crazy, they should be diagnosed with boredom in terminal stage just like what a senator in Philippines said. Crazy, crazy ladies!!!
• Philippines
23 Jan 13
yes, they are really crazy people. imagine, kissing because they are bored?haha absurd.
• Estado De Mexico, Mexico
22 Jan 13
hello there, Well its true that unless you are a GF/BF you can't just kiss each other like that,on top of it if its a french kiss then its really you should think about.And as you said they kissed each other because they were bored,do you really think that one should kiss each other when they are bored,don't they have something else to do.There might be a possibility that they were attracted to each other and were looking for some reason so that they can come close and fortunately they found one. there are friends who can go beyond a kiss and without any commitment,But they are really not friends to be honest.they are just satisfying each other and that's it.Once their interest is over in each other they will move on with no regret. Take care Raj
• Philippines
23 Jan 13
hmm, may be they are attracted to each other, who knows? well, in my point of view, my friend is really a pretty and smart girl and her guy friend is smart and attractive too, so there is a possibility that they like each other. there's nothing wrong with that, they are both single.
@dee777 (1417)
• South Africa
22 Jan 13
This does not make sense. People kiss when they are in a relationship. People kiss when they are in love. People cannot just go around kissing friends when they are bored...
• Philippines
23 Jan 13
hello, dee! you are right, they shouldn't have done that to each other if they aren't in a relationship because it might destroy their friendship and they might end up hurting the feelings of each other if they continue french kissing out of nothing at all.