What to talk?

Hi! You better be the listener when she comes and meet you. Let her take lead and speak as much as she wants. If she stops in between and ask about you then you should continue without a break .

The official way of going about it...lol Does it really matter ..going in depth...I think that person doesnt want you to...otherwise you would reached those levels in the first round...and in the first hour. Let the other person reveal anything, if there is anything worthwhile. If you ask, may be you will touch a painful spot..which he or she is not keen to reopen.

Had no internet through the day.Has she gone now/ SO , how did it go?

Awww, that sounds so nice. Does she live far from you? I'm wondering because it would be nice if you can do this again soon, maybe? I think I would tell her right off the bat about how you'll both never get everything said in just a couple of hours and how happy you are to see her. You could jot down some priority type matters which you feel are the most important. It would be nice too if you casually walked through your garden exchanging all your conversation in such a beautiful spot... Just take it as it comes allknowing and enjoy your time with her. You can always exchange emails too if you haven't done that yet. I do understand how you'd like to get everything out because there is so much, but with only such a short time for a visit, it would be impossible. Perhaps she could spend a night one time and you both can talk your hearts out.

Just be normal. What would you normally want to know about her? Is she married? How many kids does she have now? Is she working or what? What keeps her busy? How about her husband? Of course, you also need to do your share of giving her an update of your own life, how many kids you have, what keeps you busy now, etc. You can go from there.

hello friend, its really good to know that you are meeting your friend after many year's,and any one would get confused about things to speak when they meet,so there is nothing to worry about. see if this helps you. First make sure that you give a warm hug to your friend when you meet,its a sign to show how happy you are to meet and also it makes your friend comfortable that you have not changed. Even though you will be running short on time,don't take out topic which you have decided,instead speak about something which your friend is more intrested to share with you,It may happen that you speak of something and he/she doesn't want to speak of it. jotting down points and then talking to a friend is something which will not be appropriate,you are meeting your friend and not person to be interviewed,keep that in mind. speak less as much as possible about professional life about jobs and future,rather ask your friend about old friends and days you spent together,You see nowadays everyone speaks about jobs and professional life but there are hardly anyone who would ask you about your personal life,so try to be her best friend rather being a formal friend. hope this helps Take care Raj

Is this someone your close friend? Well if you ask me if put in the same situation i would really be excited to see her/him and then i guess if we were close before we would have a lot of catching up to do, right? we can talk about how she was doing now and what did we miss, perhaps even talk about common friends that we both have had a few news about as well.

Dearheart...I can tell you are anxious, so I ask you, why does both of your's lives have to be compacted into two hours? This is a re-uniting visit..the one that open's the floodgates and you will surely have years after this,to share the world's of each other! Let the "stream of thoughts" follow it's own path, and relish in your re-newed friendship! Thank goodness, there is a tomorrow for you both to love and share!

When you haven't seen someone in a long while, there is always plenty to talk about--provided that you like the person. Jotting down things is so... pre-meditated. If someone whipped out a list of talking points when I met up with her or him for a bit of a chat, I would find it completely off-putting.

Talk from your heart and talk your heart out. Don't break the eye contact. Everything will go fine and smooth.

You are right.Sharing so many experiences in just 2 hours is certainly a difficult task.Eperiences are unlimited and time is limited.I can understand your eagerness to share all of your experiences with your friend who has been away from you for so many years.Can't you tell her to stay with you for a day?I hope she too must have a lot of experiences to share with you and she would be as eager as you to share them with you.

It will come. You don't need to make an outline of what you are about to say or topics you want to discuss with. It will look odd. 1. How are you? 2. Are you married.. and so on. If this person is a friend there will surely be flow of thoughts and flow of discussions without you that 2 hours are not enough for your meeting. Relax and be yourself. and stop laying eggs. LOL.. looks like you are pooping with nervousness. hahahaha. relax. you can do it friend