I am very stress

It is luck for you having patient and care husband. He has support you by not complaint of your parents just pray for your parents and for your sibling hope they have attention to your parents

It is interesting how people can get along without you when they have to. I left for 10 days and my husband and daughter were able to survive. My daughter even shoveled the sidewalk while I was gone. Susie Orman advised a lady on her show to tell those who were asking for money to cut them off and pay off her own bills. Some of them never spoke to her again but I could deal with that. That these people would learn how to survive on their own. A friend of ours had a niece come to them after she ran away from home and wanted to live with them. They could have let her but they didn't. She really tried to make them feel guilty. Told them she would have to sleep in her car but she didn't move them. They knew she would not try and do anything on her own. Many a woman has had to live in their car. I have even slept in my car many a night trying to save on money so I could pay my bills. I would see what help your parents are getting. If they are past 65 are they getting their Social Security? In many places a person can go out on the street and make money. I gave a dollar to a kid on a street corner yesterday who was asking for money.

I think you need to talk to your parents and siblings about this. Just to make the load lighter, your siblings should help you with supporting your parents, tell them you are currently unemployed and that your husband's money is just enough for your everyday needs.

Well sorry that you are stressed out by the situation. Sometimes we cant really stop helping our parents. I guess better talk to your other siblings so that you can sort out the problems and help each other how to resolve it, contributing to the financial expenses of your parent. Hope for the best to you. Dont think that much to avoid getting stressed.

You are so lucky that you have such a good husband,and yes the good way is that you should ask your siblings to share more obligation with you. And by the way,I think when your parents need money for their medications,you have no choice but have to try your best to pay the money.

There might be some good explanation as to why the money ou sent got spent so fast. It is better if you will see them, pay them a visit and see for yourself what's the real deal is. Make them understand that you will be needing all the help that you can get this time. Times are hard, and it will do you all good if you will all work together to make ends meet. You all are afterall, still a family. There is nothing that a good talk cannot addressed. Good luck and I hope you get this under control soon.

Hi there Bhebelen14, That thing is really stressful. But, try some other ways on how to deal with it. Perhaps, try to make a call to them so you need not to go to your Province. Through this way, you can save spending money for transportation. Perhaps, you just need a good communication to patch up those things, try to be calm at first, so it won't aggravate the situation. For sure you can do it, and pray for it, as God has a much better way.

I am so sorry to hear that. I can see that you are such a good daughter, your parents are lucky to have you. I think it is a good idea to go and see your parents and help them come up with budget so they don't spend money on useless things. I also admire your husband for his generosity. I hope you can solve this problem soon.

i know you love your parents but i think as long as you keep giving it to them they will keep asking for it and expect you to keep giving it to them and with only your husband working right now i think there has to be a time when you say enough is enough . i hope your stress from this settles down soon for you

sorry to hear that.. I know all about stress. i feel it everyday here. Hope it gets better for you there soon. Take care.

This is a major issue and you need to talk to your parents properly. You also need to make them understand that you cannot provide them money unnecessarily because money is hard earned.