what will you if one of your closest friend unfriended you in facebook?

@johndur (3052)
Pasig, Philippines
January 31, 2013 12:08pm CST
what will you if one of your closest friend unfriended you in facebook. does that mean that your friend is angry at you? whats your next move?
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17 responses
@airasheila (5454)
• Philippines
31 Jan 13
good day johndur, i haven't experienced yet this scenario although i do admit that i will somehow be surprised why my friend has done that. as i will maybe think reasons why my friend unfriended me in his/her facebook account. and before i think that he/she is angry, i will try to analyze first for what reason. and if i can't find any reason at all, i will try to call him/her and will try to ask why suddenly done that move. then from there, i will do my decision.
@johndur (3052)
• Pasig, Philippines
1 Feb 13
very well said. youre a true friend that balances odds first before making a move.thanks.
• Philippines
2 Feb 13
as much as possible, i want make things clear before i jumped off to its conclusion. i don't want to loose friends but i guess its not worth to keep people who don't care enough to care for you.
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• Philippines
1 Feb 13
I haven’t encounter such unfriending on Facebook, but if that would happen to me first reaction would be is that I’ll be quite intrigue by my friend’s action and have this feeling of questioning our friendship if I had done something wrong with him/her. After thinking on such thoughts, I would then call him/her and ask why he/she unfriended me on facebook. If the outcome would be a little upsetting, still I will accept it and just apologize to the things that cause him/her to unfriend me on such social networking site. After all, life moves on with or without that person in my FaceBook friend’s list.
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@johndur (3052)
• Pasig, Philippines
19 Feb 13
that's the way to do it.confirm first if its intentional or not. Thanks
• Canada
1 Feb 13
It never happen so far on my case! If I haven't done a thing wrong then problem is on his side!
@johndur (3052)
• Pasig, Philippines
19 Feb 13
That's true.but will you ask your friend why I happened?
@johndur (3052)
• Pasig, Philippines
25 Feb 13
wow thats a firm decision. thanks
• Canada
19 Feb 13
No I wouldn't! Like I said the problems is on their side!
@jenny1015 (13366)
• Philippines
2 Feb 13
I'll try to find out through my other friends if they know anything about it or if they know something about me that made our friend to unfriend me.
@johndur (3052)
• Pasig, Philippines
4 Feb 13
true.she can even email you telling your shortcomings and resolve it quietly.unfriending someone is unethical.do you agree.
@johndur (3052)
• Pasig, Philippines
2 Feb 13
what will you do if you found out that its was really intentional to unfriend you by your friend?
@jenny1015 (13366)
• Philippines
3 Feb 13
Then I'd confron my friend and ask her what I did that made her to unfriend me. I mean if she has any issues with me, she might have told me about it so that I can justify whatever it is. But keeping me out in the dark would do no good.
• United States
31 Jan 13
I've never been through this before... I would think that it means they are mad at you or something happened. My next move would be to confront them about it and ask them what is going on. Maybe then you could resolve it and work things out and may be they would 're add you on Facebook.
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@johndur (3052)
• Pasig, Philippines
1 Feb 13
thats a nice answer. thanks.
• India
31 Jan 13
I am not sure of this reason, but once same thing happened to me too. Immediately I sent message via gmail and latter called and came to know that it was not done by her. May be any other person, who knows the password has deleted the name. So anything can happen my friend. Just connect to your friend and check the fact instead of reaching any conclusion without proper information. All the best.
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@johndur (3052)
• Pasig, Philippines
2 Feb 13
true.its better confirm first if its not intentional.thanks.
@brew2x (3094)
• Philippines
5 Feb 13
If one of my closest friend unfriend me all of a sudden in facebook then I would ask him / her the reason why. I will not immediately jump up in the conclusion that he / she is angry at me. His / her account might have been hacked or he / she might be creating a new account and has a plan of adding me again in the new account since he / she will no longer use the old one.
@johndur (3052)
• Pasig, Philippines
25 Feb 13
well that could be true.thanks for your response
@tash01 (2030)
• Jamaica
2 Feb 13
I haven't experienced this scenario has yet! But if it does happen,I wouldn't make a fuss.Then i would know that after all he/she wasn't my friend. Most friend when they are angry,they take it to Facebook and curse that specific person.And the other friend will see it if they don't unfriend them.
@johndur (3052)
• Pasig, Philippines
12 Feb 13
true people are like and should be unfriended.thanks
@jugsjugs (12967)
3 Feb 13
To be honest I would not care if they did unfriend me, as I have other friends in my life and if they feel that way then let them get on with it. Yes I would be upset, maybe angry, but it is not the end of the world.My daughter is not my friend on face book, but I dont lose sleep due to that.
@johndur (3052)
• Pasig, Philippines
12 Feb 13
true cyber life is very much different in real life.
• Philippines
4 Feb 13
I feel the same way too. I stopped spending much time in there, in fact I have already deactivated my account. There is so much fun in face to face interaction with friends than facebook. Life should no be in social media, but in real real life!
@trisha27 (3494)
• United States
10 Feb 13
I would ask them what happened. I mean I am that close with my friends that I can just ask them if I did anything wrong for them to unfriend me from facebook. But I would mostly think that they unfriended me from facebook just by mistake especially if I knew that I did nothing wrong for them to be angry with me. I have sometimes removed friends from my facebook by accident and I normally just refriend them back.
@johndur (3052)
• Pasig, Philippines
25 Feb 13
thats true.it could only be a mistake. thanks
@kourdapya (924)
• Philippines
4 Feb 13
Yay, it happened to me before. She's one of my closest friends, at least it used to be. When I found out she unfriended me, I asked her why, but she denied. She said she did not do that, and why should she do that in the first place. I asked her then how come we're not friends there anymore, she said she did not know. So I blocked her. When I decided to unblock her, she made a friend request, but I have not accepted it so far. I deactivated my account already, because I'm not that active anymore. I do not really care now if she unfriended me. I have a life outside facebook, and we're still friends but we don't communicate that much anymore. We have an unsteady friendship and I don't trust her anymore.
@johndur (3052)
• Pasig, Philippines
25 Feb 13
wow at least you have seen what kindof friend she is.even in cyberspace you can still see who is your real friend and those who are not.thanks for sharing
@Pegasus72 (1898)
4 Feb 13
I haven't had that happen but I have had family do this. I would wonder why, ask them, and hope they give me an answer so we could fix the problem.
@johndur (3052)
• Pasig, Philippines
25 Feb 13
nice answer thanks
@Pegasus72 (1898)
6 Apr 13
you are welcome
@ShyBear88 (59261)
• Sterling, Virginia
31 Jan 13
Well if a friend of mine unfriend me from facebook I wouldn't go looking into why because to me that just means they want no part in my life really and there for I don't want them as a friend either
@johndur (3052)
• Pasig, Philippines
1 Feb 13
but what if your friend doesnt know that he/she unfriended you due to lets say kids playing the laptop or something went wrong with keyboard or mouse.dont you want to know the reason why it happened?
• United States
1 Feb 13
Well stated response.
@ShyBear88 (59261)
• Sterling, Virginia
1 Feb 13
Thank you.
@marjivy80 (198)
• Philippines
3 Feb 13
i will feel sad. maybe he/she don't like to be with me anymore. i've tried being stabbed at the back of a closest friend. it really hurts but that's what she is. i can do nothing if that's what she wants. as long as i did nothing to them.
@johndur (3052)
• Pasig, Philippines
12 Feb 13
its better not to be a friend to a back stabber.
• United States
1 Feb 13
I probably wouldn't think too much of it since it's Facebook, but it would bring up a few questions why the would remove me. I probably wouldn't confront them about it though, because if they removed me, that probably means they don't want anything else to do with me. I don't chase people around, or beg them to be my friend.
@johndur (3052)
• Pasig, Philippines
12 Feb 13
but what if its your closest friend that unfriended you?will you still ignore it?
@ARIES1973 (11426)
• Legaspi, Philippines
1 Feb 13
I never notice this actually because I am not that very active on facebook. Perhaps I would be more attentive to those things. Have a nice day!
@johndur (3052)
• Pasig, Philippines
12 Feb 13
well next time check all your friends and look for the missing ones.lol
@Raine38 (12258)
• United States
31 Jan 13
This has happened to me and I did nothing. It could be anything or nothing and for me facebook isn't a measure of a good friendship. I still prefer that we're friends in real life and to be honest most of my good friends aren't even on my Facebook. I wouldn't stress over it that much especially if I know that I haven't done anything wrong. If she deleted me off her Facebook then that's her decision. My friends know my email add and cellphone so they have lots of ways to communicate with me.
@johndur (3052)
• Pasig, Philippines
9 Feb 13
true.some people are so attached to their internet life and tends to forget that there is a real world aside from cyberspace.