You and your boyfriend's ex are friends in Facebook?

@kokomo (1868)
Philippines
February 1, 2013 5:21am CST
Hi dear fellow lotters, Will you confirm an ex of your boyfriend or partner to ask you as a friend in Facebook or would you decline it? What are the significance of confirming or adding him or her.Or is it important? Why and why not?
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8 responses
@jenny1015 (13389)
• Philippines
1 Feb 13
I don't see the need of making friends with my boyfriend's ex. For what purpose. Not really jealous about her but I just don't feel like I need to make any connections with any of them.
@gimong (124)
• Indonesia
1 Feb 13
I do agree with you
@vernaC (1493)
• Romania
1 Feb 13
Personally I don't, if everyone's happy and have moved on, what's the reason? If she haven't moved on yet then more not to add her. Adding ex's to your friend's list will just bring troubles. Anyone can post anything then misunderstood and will just bring unwanted emotions or dramas.
@gimong (124)
• Indonesia
1 Feb 13
It is too risk to get troble to make my ex as ( special friend). Yeah it can be mis understanding
@tash01 (2032)
• Jamaica
2 Feb 13
Yes my ex send me friend quest,and i accept it.And now am happily married,so when he looks at my pic that she what he is missing. I have move on,and so must he and we even talk still has friend nothing else.It's not important to add him,but I just add him.
@Aja103654 (5658)
• Philippines
2 Feb 13
That depends on what kind this person is. If I don't like this person I would simply ignore the friend request. I don't see any point in befriending someone you don't like and you are uncomfortable with. There's no need to pretend and you are not considered a bad person for declining friend requests.
@kiepher (55)
• Philippines
2 Feb 13
Decline..It's the best way of evading complications on what is going smooth now, I mean, it may just cause fights between you and your boyfriend.
@missybear (11396)
• United States
1 Feb 13
I guess that would depend on how we parted ways...if we were still friends than I probably would. I tried to request my ex husband but he never accepted me, i'm sure his wife probably told him not to
@jricky1 (6809)
• China
1 Feb 13
That would be really odd to add your ex's girlfriend as friend.And i never try to do that,i know most people would wonderful how their life be now but probably i'll add my ex directly as friend.
@gimong (124)
• Indonesia
1 Feb 13
If you don't want to have problem it is better to decline him. SOme time it can be chance to be back to old situation