Two Weeks Without Communication

Philippines
February 6, 2013 7:27pm CST
I think this is enough. It's over! I have lost my patience of waiting for him every day. 2 weeks without leaving even just a message? what is that?? i don't want to pretend that i'm okay when i am not and i don't want to hope that this will work out. i have to accept the fact that he's not that into me and i have to move on with my life. i'm better off without him. this is crazy.
3 people like this
17 responses
@WakeUpKitty (8711)
• Netherlands
7 Feb 13
Do you have a relationship at all? Or does this relationship just exist in your mind and is he seeing you as a friend where he can pop in whenever he likes? Sounds to me he doesn't feel the obligation to call or meet you or tell you what is going on. No matter if you have a relationship or not, you are right. Go on with your life, forget him, set your own goals and above all: let him stay out of your life! No matter if he shows up and bangs on your door. A person like that will never change. It's a waste of your time, life, energy.
1 person likes this
• Philippines
7 Feb 13
Well, if hes still alive he certainly would communicate with you if he cares enough. That is already a sign for you to give it up. You are right, move on.
1 person likes this
@jenny1015 (13394)
• Philippines
8 Feb 13
Don't waste your time on people who doesn't care about you at all. Just move on and do things that you need to do. Your Mr. Right will come to you on the right time.
@sriroshan (2586)
• India
8 Feb 13
And what I feel her Mr. Right must be busy in some work and once he finished the work surely will come back. For some man their work is more important.
• Philippines
28 Feb 13
2 weeks is indeed too long for you to wait. It's very normal for you to feel angry but let him give time to explain the reason. Maybe he has a good reason or make an investigation instead. Find out the reason. Do not make decision in anger stage. Be calm and pray that he is in good standing right now. God Bless!
• China
28 Feb 13
I feel so sorry to hear that my friend,so do not figure out why he do that?If he can not give you a good reason then may be I think you two you leave for some days and think about this relationship deeply.
@danix1982 (593)
• Philippines
27 Feb 13
maybe he is busy try to make move in calling him or visit him to know what is his condition or how is he?and then talk to him confront him if he still love you or do you need to continue your relationship. don't make decision when you are angry just think of it first.
@Dominique25 (9476)
• United States
10 Feb 13
Sorry to hear that he hasn't contacted you. It probably is a good thing that you move on. If he is not considerate enough to contact you and even let you know what is happening then you are better off without him. I hope that in time you will be able to meet a better person.
• Indonesia
8 Feb 13
communication its real important thing if we want to build a solid relation. but if you feel enough with your situation right now so i think you must keep going on. and don't waste your time by thinking your past.
@sriroshan (2586)
• India
8 Feb 13
You are correct like you even I have experienced the same thing if my husband is on tour and does not contact me just one day also. In your case 15 days is really too much.
@dainy1313 (2354)
• Leon, Mexico
7 Feb 13
Hello Valorie, I hope that you are fine. I think that everything depends on what´s your idea of good relationship. In my case, when I was young I went through the same situation that you are facing, and I moved on. And it was for a better relation. Now that I´m older, if I have troubles with my hubby I think it twice or more times before taking any action, because this is a relationship where I have invested a lot of time, effort, love, care, years, money, soul, and I want it to continue. It´s up to you! You have the final decition. We have a say in my country: Nobody knows what´s inside in the pot but the pottage and the beans. This means it is finally you who knows best about him. If you want to move on, move on, but don´t regret it later, I mean, if you want to move on and make a change in your life, do it, if you want to talk to him and give him a second chance, do it. Listen to your heart. Blessings Valorie... dainy
@theselan (74)
• Malaysia
7 Feb 13
To better your situation, please do message him and talk to him. Express your feelings to him and about what you feel when he avoids you. Ego is a never in relationships because it will destroy the love and create misunderstanding among the couples. Once you have express your feelings to him, please to watch his expression and action, by this way you can guess how much he love you. All the best.
@enelym001 (8333)
• Philippines
7 Feb 13
A friend went through such phase. But good that she have already found out the reason when he sent her a message two days ago. You've got to know first why he is not sending you a message. Have you tried calling him? Have you sent him messages? Have you sms him already? If you did these things already, and there is still no response from him. You can worry about him - maybe there is something bad that happen to him or he's sick. Or you can just think that he's really not that into you, like what you are thinking now. Sad to think but we can think of that as a reason.
@mods196621 (3631)
• Philippines
7 Feb 13
Your feeling is just normal to get angry with him. Because i feel the same. But i try to ignored all about him the time he never send any message. Well if you think that it is right for him to forget well let it be. IF he is not effective to you, let him go. Maybe you are right he is not meant for you. And i learn also to accept with myself the same reason as i told you because i am also in the same situation. If that is burden to my feelings well i let him go. I love myself and i don't want to have heart attack. I dont want to be sick just because of him..Now if you take consider my advice well just do it with your wise thinking and also feelings.. Dont worry my dear friend...Millions of people outthere!
@Raine38 (8907)
• United States
7 Feb 13
2 weeks? That is pretty long and pretty obvious that he doesn't want to have anything to do with you. That or he must be dying to do something like that to you. Of course, I'm just exaggerating but I'm sure you get what I mean. And I'm with you when you said you should move along now even if it's without him. At least this early you already know that he is not that reliable and he can't even be straight with you.
• Indonesia
7 Feb 13
Be patient to yourself, i mean that to overcome your blue, you must think to consider him positively. Maybe there's something he faces, so wait for awaile. Say prayer to God, your heart will be stronger.
@marguicha (78453)
• Chile
7 Feb 13
Do you know him or is it just a relationship online? Sometimes the people we love are so busy that they cannot message in peace. What excactly is the kind of relationship that you have had with him. For how long? Tell us all so that we can help with more knowledge. Take care!
• United States
7 Feb 13
I would come to the same conclusion in this case. I think you should get on with your life. it will take some time to get over him for sure. but,how could any one treat a person like this in life. there are so many good people out there looking for good woman to love. I hope this does not sit too long with you. it can get easy as the days go by. take care of yourself.