What will you do if you saw your bf/gf holding hands with another girl/guy?

Philippines
February 7, 2013 9:43pm CST
Anyone here has experienced this thing?
9 responses
@chiyosan (30199)
• Philippines
8 Feb 13
If i see him holding hands with someone, i would try to see more about them, and try to see why he is holding her hands if there are signs of them being romantically linked to each other - and of course, i would take video or photo so i can have something to show him.=) hahah
• Philippines
10 Feb 13
Hahaha. Hard evidence. That's a good one. He can't deny it anymore once you have a photo of him and the girl.
@wwjwcom (237)
• Hubei, China
16 Feb 13
If I come across that situation,I will meet my bf and the girl,say hi to them as if nothing happens and wait for my bf to answer.Of course,I will not let that girl know that I am the gf.I will never forgive him if he dates with other girls.
• Hartford, Connecticut
23 Jul 13
i have experience with this. My eyes was hard evidence. It was party at my house and my husband was holding hand to my best friend. When i asked him why he did it he said that he got drunk. He hurt me so bad. When i try to talk with him about her he got upset and yell on me that there is nothing between them. Should i trust him?
@danix1982 (593)
• Philippines
27 Feb 13
i will confront my bf to ask him why and that girl holding their hands and we will talk about our relationship.
@nanayangel (7861)
• Philippines
21 Feb 13
Hi there Blitz 1224! Thankfully, I have never experienced it. Well, I will definitely be hurt, no matter what the reason behind them holding hands is because I think holding someone's hand is a bit intimate and it is mostly reserved for the people who are really special to you. That's me though, and I also know my husband well and he do not do that to just any girl so it means that when he does, she must be someone really special. I might not do anything outright but will ask my husband about it when I get the chance.
@tyleremy (170)
• China
19 Feb 13
I would lay my eyes on them,finding out what's going on with them.And I'll ask her what she has been doing the whole time when she gets back home.
@cripfemme (7714)
• United States
19 Feb 13
I hold hands with people without it being romantic at times. My gf does, too. We're very affectionate people. Even if I thought something untoward was happening, I wouldn't go publicly postal. No person is worth losing your cool in public and risking embarrassment (for which you might be remembered always with you tube and cell phones with cameras). Totally not worth it for a cheater. As someone else said, get photographic evidence for later.
• Philippines
17 Feb 13
I am not the type of person who easily jumps into a conclusion. If I saw my boyfriend holding hands with another girl, I will really examine the girl at a distance first. I want to know who is that girl. I don't want to just confront my boyfriend and then later found out that the girl was her sister or cousin. I really want all my actions to be sure.
@andy77e (5163)
• United States
17 Feb 13
I have to assume you mean holding hands romantically. I would call them up and say our romance is over, and wish them the best of luck with their new boy friend, or girl friend, or whatever. Then I'd go find someone who really wanted to get married.
@wwjwcom (237)
• Hubei, China
16 Feb 13
I have not come across this kind of situation and I hope I will never run into that.I'm a person who is serious about love.The man who cheats me will never be forgived by me no matter for what reason he holds hands with other girls.Love should be pure.
@kiepher (55)
• Philippines
15 Feb 13
I'll make sure, he saw me by that time. That way he can never deny, but I will never confront him infront of anyone. I will wait for him to say sorry and promise not to do it anymore but if he is going to be defensive then there's no reason to prolong the cheating, break up is the answer..