Friends are an Asset in Life

@Janurmas (641)
Indonesia
February 13, 2013 12:37am CST
Having many friends is meaningful in life. I am enjoying my life by having fun with my best friends, and we have planned something that can support us in doing business. Friends also can help me in solving my problems, and they give me ideas in getting solutions for my personal problems. Somehow there is a good friend of me who is being mutually benefit each other with me keeps away from me just because he has a new girlfriend. I don't know why he is avoiding me each time I need him. But I think it is life. We have to respect our friends' decision.
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5 responses
@Raine38 (9031)
• United States
13 Feb 13
If he's got a new girlfriend maybe they're still enjoying their time together as a new couple. Give it time. If you were in his position, I am sure that you would end up spending more time with your new beloved as well. Once they have fallen into some more stable pattern and "schedule", maybe he will be ready to go meet up and catch up with some friends once more.
@Janurmas (641)
• Indonesia
14 Feb 13
I am not sure whether I will do the same if I get married. However, we have to remember our friends always and be responsive to our friends in any condition and situation. let me see later if I get married.
@jricky1 (6809)
• China
13 Feb 13
Friends in need is a friend indeed.So this is really an asset in our life,i always think about the beautiful moments and what we had in those colorful ages.Thank you for accompany me.lol,respect is the most important factor,thanks mylot for sharing this to everyone.
@Janurmas (641)
• Indonesia
14 Feb 13
Yes, I agree with you. Friend in need is a friend indeed. I respect your opinion and thanks for responding this discussion.
@aqirock (857)
• Malaysia
13 Feb 13
friends is meaningful, a couple can be a great friends when they are in relationship but then they will be a great enemy when they broke up, is hard to describe about friends cause anything can be. But yeah of course having many friends in life is joyfull and can make us out of stress and they are always there for us when we need them, mostly
@Janurmas (641)
• Indonesia
13 Feb 13
You are lucky having good friends that always there for you each time you need them in your life. But how do you think if there is a good friend avoiding friendship with you just because of his personal problem. If me, I really disappointed.
• United States
13 Feb 13
He has less time to spend with friends because of his new love. once you all become friends you will have time to come together and enjoy one's company. till that time comes just wish him and his new lover the very best and wait till he reaches out to you.
@Janurmas (641)
• Indonesia
13 Feb 13
Yes, I understand his condition that he is being busy with his lover. But, he should not change the way of friendship with his friends. He is solely not being close friends with me.
• India
13 Feb 13
Yes it is good to respect them. having good friends is something great and valuable. I have seen some people change the way of their friendship after their marriage and keep friedns out.
@Janurmas (641)
• Indonesia
13 Feb 13
I agree with you. I found also there are many my friends change the way of their friendship with me after they got married. For me, I think it is not good as being friends. We have to maintain good friendship with our best friends, because there is the time we are need each other in friendship. But, if the good friend has changed the way of his friendship, would you like to help him or her once he or she needs your help?