Life is like making a cup of tea if you know how to?

India
February 13, 2013 2:45am CST
Life is like making a cup of tea. Please always remember that love is not only to be with right person, but to understand the person in right way; and it’s not about how much love you get in relationship but how much love you offer to other one. [b]So boil-off your ego, evaporate your worries, dilute your sorrows, you must also filter your mistakes to get the real taste of happiness in ‘true-love’. [/b] [b]Your say on this? Please respond and share your valued opinion and comments. [/b] Thanks in advance. Professor Dr. B.Saraf. PhD. ‘HAPPY VALENTINE DAY IN ADVANCE’ Cheers have a lucky day ahead. [i][/i]
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@kprofgames (3023)
• United States
14 Feb 13
Well said and very deep yet ever so simple. Can say that a few years ago was really struggling and a very simple poem was given to me and it really changed things around. Yes there is much to get when you offer more. I think when a person monitors their attitudes they can see, feel and have a understand more. So when you say boil off your ego and dilute your sorrows it's saying to me that we are not an island. It takes reaching out to others to find more within ourselves.
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• India
14 Feb 13
Thanks for sharing your opinion too. We get much more tan what we offer lol. HAPPY VALENTINE DAY.
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@sweety_81 (2129)
• India
14 Feb 13
Yes, and we can learn a lot from others, if we are able to wash away our ego(s).
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• India
14 Feb 13
RIGHT
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@dorannmwin (36695)
• United States
15 Feb 13
I do think that there are times that we love someone with all of our heart and that is something that is great. However, we also do have times between ourselves and our partners where there are great misunderstandings. All of those things given, I think that when we are in love with the right person, we are able to learn to understand them in every way as more and more time goes by. That is one of the reasons that I really do believe that my husband is the right person for me.
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• India
15 Feb 13
Misunderstanding and minor quarrels are normal between couples.
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• Philippines
13 Feb 13
wow im moved by your post! i totaly realized something after reading this.. yes indeed its true love is an unselfish devotion.
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• India
14 Feb 13
Welcome to mylot danes Thanks for sharing your view, yes love is unique. HAPPY VALENTINE DAY.
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@jennyze (7048)
• Indonesia
3 Mar 13
When I read the caption of your discussion all I think of is that there's a similar saying in the old Javanese custom/ tradition or whatever you call it. It says: "Living is just popping up for a drink". It means that life is short, so do as well as you can and don't be regretful when your time ends. And I am kind of stuck with this belief hence often I don't take it seriously any bad happenings to myself and just go on living as best as I could... if by best means even when you are bankrupt there will always a solution to it...
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• India
3 Mar 13
Thanks for sharing your opinion and the say there.Every thing has a solution if we know how to solve boldly.
@jennyze (7048)
• Indonesia
4 Mar 13
Yes, I believe there's always a solution for everything as long as we are willing to take it...
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• India
4 Mar 13
@surekharathi (14134)
• India
4 Mar 13
Wow.... nice discussion but uncle we can write everything here but difficult to follow on real life. Only few people can do this. Now world is cruel the person killing their own family members only for money I hate those persons. Why the not understand when we will go from world nothing will go with us. Why the person running behind money and not think about family child why not check the son is going in wrong way or right way.
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• India
4 Mar 13
Surekha beti Very few persons can understand this.
• United States
4 Mar 13
I believe that in life your family should be your first concern and you should always help your children to do the best that they can. Never make fun of other family member or friends. Help when you can. Always want the best for yourself and your family members without hurting others along the way.
@sweety_81 (2129)
• India
14 Feb 13
Nice thoughts!And how would you equate adding garlic/clove etc to our cup of tea to? Any thoughts?
• India
14 Feb 13
I have do think and research lol. Thanks for response HAPPY VALENTINES DAY
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@kokomo (1868)
• Philippines
14 Feb 13
Yes, when we love someone, we should do the best that we can be. Our love should be unconditional. We should not ask something in return. I think the best thing in the world is to love someone and we are being loved back.
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• India
14 Feb 13
You are right dear. Thanks for sharing HAPPY VALENTINE DAY.
@tigeraunt (6331)
• Philippines
13 Feb 13
dear professor, very nicely said. indeed it is how one should make his/her life. you make it, not anybody else. so enjoy it as much as you can. no sorrows, no worries. just lots and lots of love. happy valentines day.. for tomorrow. ann
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• India
14 Feb 13
Honey Life is short we have to enjoy it to the fullest Thanks for sharing HAPPY VALENTINE DAY.[
@flyinghi (130)
• Canada
13 Feb 13
Brilliantly stated! I agree that when we are dealing with others we need to be understanding and be ready to give maybe a bit more than we get at times.
• India
14 Feb 13
Welcome to my discussions, i am happy you liked the way i stated lol.
• India
13 Feb 13
Yes, life is all about understanding and respect even if there is no love there, we can live happily with that way.
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• India
14 Feb 13
Thanks for response, all of us want to live happily lol. HAPPY VALENTINE DAY.
@dee777 (1418)
• South Africa
13 Feb 13
Brilliant! Others are not 'making' our lives for us, hey. You are right that the choice is how WE want to make it worth the while. It's making a difference in other people's lives that gives true meaning to our own life.
• India
14 Feb 13
Thanks for sharing your views dear, i am happy you liked this. HAPPY VALENTINE DAY.
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@Kathy1981 (157)
• United States
4 Mar 13
I agree you have to know how to be a good person in life. You have to care about others and be willing to help others. I work in my Uncles bar serving liquor. Others look down on me for that. But when you are a single mother to three children. You work where you can make the most money to support your children. My children are my life and their father supports them and does watch them at night when I work. I help all friends and family when I can.