I hate that I owe them $$$$ .....

owe money - I hate to owe, anyone... :(
Mexico
February 21, 2013 7:58am CST
I hate that I owe the coke man 33.00. Im not one to owe anyone money. But sometimes you cant help it. He will come back tomorrow and Ill pay him. I really could not sleep last night. Owing someone money, makes me that way. Do you like to owe people money..... I know people here, who owe everyone.... $$$$
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@julyteen (13259)
• Davao, Philippines
22 Feb 13
No problem, cook man understand your situation. It happen sometimes even you don't want to owed anybody. Just pay him when the cook man come back after the day
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@julyteen (13259)
• Davao, Philippines
22 Feb 13
Correction I make a wrong spelling. I wrote cook man instead of coke man
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• Mexico
22 Feb 13
Ye she does, as it was his idea to do it. I paid him off first thing today. I can sleep well now. H ah ah aha
@julyteen (13259)
• Davao, Philippines
23 Feb 13
If all persons like you, no one will owed any bigger amount to somebody
@wongchoiyee (7462)
• Malaysia
25 Feb 13
No problem, you will pay them tomorrow, friend. Relax.
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• Mexico
25 Feb 13
yes, I paid them the next day here. And as I said I didnt sleep well.. because i owed them the money. All is good now here.
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• Philippines
22 Feb 13
Owing is not bad, as long as the money you are borrowing is at a good reason, and you must have not forget to pay that person who trust you for his money. Most of us cannot really avoid owing someone money, especially in times of emergency and sudden events. People should realize the value of it so saving money for those events are on the top of our list. :)
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• Mexico
22 Feb 13
True , its not bad. Just not my thing here. I cant sleep when I owe people..
@substance (588)
• India
22 Feb 13
I guess the reason you were sleepless over just a mere $33.33, that you were sure of paying the coke guy the next day is just because you have learned your lessons. Your Ex- having borrowed from everyone without paying a dime and you don't like anyone to think of you that way. I had borrowed from a cousin before and paid after sometime and the reason I could not pay her in time was because she stays in another city. Even though I could pay her in a month or two, since I was earning monthly, it dragged because we had no contact face to face. I ended up paying double because of the small interest. The best thing now is I am doing well and some of my friends owe me some $$ but I am in no need right now so I don't hardly bothers.
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• Mexico
22 Feb 13
No real lesson learned, Ive seen many who owe everyone. And its never been my idea in life to borrow or owe. But I guess in a way Ive learned from everyone else.
@Nursefrai06 (2498)
• Penrith, Australia
25 Feb 13
I dont think anyone would like to owe anyone money. When you owe someone money, your relationship with them will never be the same again.
• Mexico
25 Feb 13
Well, not always that. As this was business loan. But I can see how loans and oweing family and friends could be hurt sometimes...
• Penrith, Australia
25 Feb 13
It could hurt. I dont think its healthy for any type of friendship to talk about money stuff.
• Mexico
25 Feb 13
yes, money with friends and family is a no no for me... Always ends bad for me.. when they dont pay me back...
@KrauseHome (36062)
• United States
26 Feb 13
Yes, it does make it hard when you know you owe others money, including bills and you are behind. It can make it quite frustrating ffor sure. Especially when you know it just has to wait as the money is not there. I know it is always good when you are caught up for sure. Hope you were able to get this taken care of as you wanted.
• Mexico
26 Feb 13
Sure is, this gal hates to owe anyone anything. I know its hard sometimes. But Im glad as of today I owe no one again.
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@KrauseHome (36062)
• United States
27 Feb 13
That would be a nice feeling to not have to owe anyone. Unfortunately I have a lot of medical issues etc that need to be paid, etc.
@KrauseHome (36062)
• United States
27 Feb 13
I meant medical bills.
@inertia4 (27764)
• United States
24 Feb 13
I hate owing money. But the reality is that we always owe something. We do have bills we need to pay. And we pay them. But that I understand. When it comes to something else, never. I never lend money and I never borrow money. So, I feel content.
• Mexico
24 Feb 13
your right, I think everyone owes money sometimes. I just hate for me to owe. Really bothers me alot. And as you know Steve, I dont need any stress. Take care there. Have the kids today?
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@inertia4 (27764)
• United States
26 Feb 13
No one needs stress. I have my share of it. But I know what you mean about owing money out. I have been there, but briefly. Just chill and you will get through it and everything will be fine.
• Mexico
27 Feb 13
Yes sir, I need as little stress in my life as I can have. Im ok now.. want to keep it that way...
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@SIMPLYD (88354)
• Philippines
22 Feb 13
Maria, no one wants to owe somebody money. As much as we can we would like to be debt free. But sometimes it can't be avoided that we incur a debt , so as to be able something big even without money, and that is by using the credit card. We just have to assure ourselves though, that when the bill arrives we have the money. In your case, i think the Coke man allows credit to those he already knows to be a valued client and maybe you are one of them.
• Mexico
22 Feb 13
your right there, I hate to owe anyone any amount of money. Really bothers me. And you know some people owe everyone..
@SIMPLYD (88354)
• Philippines
23 Feb 13
I think everyone is in debt in one way or another. And if it is a consolation to you, the rich has loans too to sustain their business.
• Mexico
27 Feb 13
yes they do.. And many of the rich dont pay.
@Pegasus72 (1900)
13 Mar 13
How do you owe the coke man money? Do you own a buisness? I know the theater we worked for also paid their bill when it came with the next weeks order.
• Mexico
13 Mar 13
Yes, I own an internet cafe here. The coke guy talked me into buying more than normal. I paid him all owed the next day.
@Pegasus72 (1900)
7 Apr 13
Sounds nice is it lucrative and how long do you stay open?
• Mexico
25 Apr 13
We are opne here monday till thursday 5 am till 10 pm at night. Sat, and sunday 5 am till 12-1 am.
• Mexico
21 Feb 13
I don't really like to owe money to anyone. I know what it feels like to owe someone money. It can be a pain in the head; however, to ease the pain of owing money, the best that anyone can do is to expend their money wisely and rely on the money they have to cover all their expenses without having to ask for loans, which over time can disrupt your economic balance.
• Mexico
21 Feb 13
I really dont like to owe them, or get credit. They kinda pushed it on me. As it was a special sale they had her yesterday. So I did it. Ill pay them off here on friday.
• Mexico
22 Feb 13
That is the best thing you can do. Pay all your dues and remain clean of debt.
• Mexico
27 Feb 13
I try that, as you never know when you will need help...
@blackrusty (3530)
• Mexico
21 Feb 13
no one wants to owe money to any one the best that you can do is work it out most of the time they are understanding
• Mexico
21 Feb 13
very true, I guess it happens to everyone. Just bothers me alittle more I guess...
• Mexico
21 Feb 13
well it bothers every one to owe
• Mexico
21 Feb 13
Not everyone. My ex owed everyone who he ever knew. Never bothered him one bit.
@wolfie34 (26792)
• United Kingdom
21 Feb 13
I take it when you say coke, you mean the soda variety? LOL. I am not sure what is 33, is that 33 dollars? Is that a lot, how much coke do you drink my friend? Personally I prefer pepsi to coke, and I buy it as I need it, it's part of my grocery shopping, so I don't owe anything. Fortunately I have no debts.
@wolfie34 (26792)
• United Kingdom
21 Feb 13
Pardon me, now I realize the coke is for your internet cafe right? Hope you are having a good week my friend.
• Mexico
21 Feb 13
yes coca colas, to sell in my cafe here. $33.00 is owed by me for them. I dont like owing anyone.
@ladygator (3469)
• United States
25 Apr 13
I know how you feel. Its good that you have built up enough confidence in your vendors though, so that you could still have your supply. Thats a very good thing to have. It makes a great impression on your community for your personal status and the trustworthiness of your business.
• Mexico
25 Apr 13
Yes, but I dont like owing anyone any money. Just not my thing.
@dorannmwin (36698)
• United States
1 Mar 13
We live in a world today that is pretty much a debtor's society. In saying that, I believe that I am trying to say that we really do tend to live in such a way that we do always owe something to someone. However, this really is something that my husband and I have been working really hard to change in our own lives. We have almost paid off the majority of our credit card debt and our cars are both paid off. This means that it really won't be all that much longer before the only debt that we have will be what we owe on our house and that really isn't a debt either, but rather an asset.
• Mexico
1 Mar 13
I agree with you, also many companies want us to owe them. means more cash and interest payments for them each month. Just not my thing to owe.
@ifa225 (11097)
• Indonesia
28 Feb 13
Hi Maria I feel like I am a looser if I ever owe a money to someone I remember long time ago that I owe some money from my mother in law I was so poor that time even I don't have enough money to feed my family but I am glad now I am not that poor anymore
• Mexico
28 Feb 13
I understand that... and Im sure your mother law does as well. Im glad to hear your doing better now.
@MsTickle (25058)
• Australia
26 Feb 13
I wouldn't have worried in that case. If I knew I could pay next day I'd be fine. If I had a debt or a bill that I couldn't pay then I'd be worried. The thing is, I never let myself get into that sort of situation because I always have something put by for emergencies.
• Mexico
26 Feb 13
I know, but I just dont like owing anyone a single dime. Ive always been that way. i felt so much better after i re paid this, the next day..
@bryanwmc (1052)
• Malaysia
23 Feb 13
Unless we live in the jungle, don't we all or at least our families owe money unavoidably to banks or financial institions, car loans , house payments, momthly utility bills etc etc. cannot escape it i guess, we will be considered very rich but then again even very wealthy have debts, a fact of life. But i think i know what you mean when it is about personal debts, it makes one feel very uncomfortable
• Mexico
23 Feb 13
Your right there, especaillay in hard times all around the world. Im glad I was able to pay this on time. Have a great saturday there.
@bellis716 (4805)
• United States
23 Feb 13
My husband is one who wants every bill to be paid the day it is received, even though it may not be due for a month. Our across the street neighbor is the opposite. She waits until the day a bill is due before she pays it. It isn't that they don't have the money to pay the bill. She just likes to keep her money in her account as long as possible.
• Mexico
23 Feb 13
Same here, I pay all my bills. I paid the coca cola bill today just lie i told the guy I would. So I can sleep tonight again.
• United States
22 Feb 13
I hate to owe people and being late on anything I do owe. when it is due I need to get it done.. but sometimes you have to owe it helps in some ways. but really truthful I do like to owe anyone...
• Mexico
22 Feb 13
Same for me here, Im glad I was able to pay them first thing today. Im now debt free here...
@ally12 (1204)
• Philippines
22 Feb 13
Here in my country there are companies which would supply goods then get the payments later so I think since what you owed was for business then just think of it as business. I mean you will definitely pay for it after receiving sales so no worries.
• Mexico
22 Feb 13
Here as well. I just dont like doing the business like that. Have a great day there.