Wearing Jeans is bad????

@Dassodils (2010)
India
February 27, 2013 6:48am CST
Hai friends.. Now I would like to share something which I always hear from my friends..About 95% lovers are moving through this condition.Is girls wearing jeans is bad?? I can't understand the boyfriend's statement.A lot of my girl friends had said this to me/But it is totally strange to me.That people says that that is not good.and the people will consider that girl as a bad girl.Is it possible?? Luckly my lover don't consider this thing to me.He says that this is new generation.Then,are you a boyfriend?? what's wrong with wearing jeans?Please explain dear friends..
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42 responses
@dollar3235 (2062)
• India
27 Feb 13
Wearing jeans by no means is an easy thing whether it's for a boy or girl. Personally, I don't find it comfortable. However, what you've mentioned is something related to the way Indian male dominated society looks at girls. If you take my suggestion, avoid wearing jeans, it's good for you as an individual. If you are looking for some valid reasons, here are a few: 1. In Hindu religion, we've parda/ghunghat pratha (even goddess when born as a women followed it. e.g. Sita) 2. In Muslim religion, burqa. 3. In Christianity, I've found this link: http://www.jesus-is-savior.com/Womens%20Page/pants.htm I'm sure you must be aware of the differences in the rules that are there in these three different religions but on this topic, all these religions have the same opinion. So this should be enough for you to consider avoiding Jeans. And to answer to your question related to boyfriends asking their girl friends not to wear jeans, that's because they know that what (most of the) boys look at when a girl is wearing jeans. It's easy to control yourself than expecting the society to be controlled.
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@Hatley (163781)
• Garden Grove, California
27 Feb 13
hi wow are our cultures and thinking different and this thinking does not work here in the USA as we do not think women who wear jeans are bad unless their behavior is bad and that could be in any kind of clothes. I am not ever going to go to India and bear that antiquated male superiority thinking. I prefer to stay here where we women are judged on what we do not on how we are dressed.
• India
28 Feb 13
Hi Hatley, You should be thankful to god that you were born in a country that got freedom more than 200 years back, however, India has got freedom only approximately 60 years back. This difference reflects in the mentality of the people, though we've got the freedom but it may take at least a century before people in India will be as developed as Americans at this point of time. What you said is right from the point of view of an American, however, what I said is certainly not wrong if you see the society here in India. Note: Even USA had racism and other issues even after 100 years of freedom. It's a development phase of our society, we'll have to handle it accordingly, and for any individual, it's always better to go by the rules/expectations of the society.
@asliah (11137)
• Philippines
4 Apr 13
for me i think wearing of jeans is not that bad,because i always wear jeans because of my work,i think it will depend upon the jeans you will wear,if that is very fitted to your legs is the worst one,actually now a days everybody wear this jeans.
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@lampar (7584)
• United States
27 Feb 13
It is a strange idea and a very stupid statement to say that a girl wearing jean is bad???? That person obviously need to pay a visit to a psychiatrist clinic soon, he is at the blink of fallen into mental regressive state and deeper into no ending tunnel of dim-witted world.
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@Ollanna11 (371)
• United States
27 Feb 13
What you wear is your preference. In America i feel the clothes lack creativity. Yes I haven't bought a pair of jeans in a year. I gravite towards skirts not because I'm old fashioned but I enjoy the freedom that a dress or skirt gives me and hopefully I get less unwanted advances. I think the comfort of the clothes depends on the material. So I don't like stiff materials whether jeans or skirt. I like fluid materials that feel good against my skin.
@meumeu25 (917)
• United Arab Emirates
27 Feb 13
Really, since when? In this situation, it's not the wearing of the jeans that's bad, it's how people think and give a different meaning to about it. How can it be bad if you wear it to cover yourself, it's just another type of fashion. Your BF is right, this is the new generation, most women/girls in the world wear jeans, regardless their status.
@elisa47 (12)
• Romania
27 Feb 13
there is nothing wrong with wearing jeans. it's just a matter of tastes. some kinf od boys love sport girls,so here the jeans,and other love feminin women,the fancy ones,wearing high heels and lot of makeover. so preferences are discussable. you should wear exactly what makes you feel good and comfortable and don't give a damn about the others
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@chiyosan (30184)
• Philippines
27 Feb 13
In our country wearing b jeans is normal a and girls or women who do were not met with criticisms. Jeans have long been worn by both sexes and i find no hot issues or topics. On a daily basis when you walk in the streets you will meet or see a lot of our women wearing jeans. There are cultures though or beliefs that does not really entertain the idea of women wearing a man's clothing. But these are just a few compared to the countries or cultures that has already embraced the modernization of their clothing preference. My boyfriend appreciates me if I dress up for an occasion or if I dress up once in a while. He does not mind me wearing jeans to because it is really comfortable to wear.v
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@redredrose (1105)
• United States
27 Feb 13
I always wear jeans and think it is ok. I mean this is the 1920's where women didn't and couldn't really wear pants of any kind here in America. If a guy can wear jeans so can a girl. it is not bad and doesn't mean you are bad for doing so unless the jeans are so tight you can barely walk then i think that's bad. Tho nobody should tell anyone to what to wear or how to wear it. I guess tho if women wearing jeans is bad it just depends on your religion customs country whatever.
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@machatago (385)
• Philippines
4 Mar 13
Never been a problem for me, I've worn jeans everyday when I go out to work before. Sometimes I wear skirts whenever I feel like it, but I prefer jeans and almost all the girls here are wearing jeans and would still look great on it. Maybe it's your culture that somehow prefers women to wear skirts?
@Dassodils (2010)
• India
6 Mar 13
yes..here,some girls will wear skirt and tops.that is not a problem every time.I am really sad by thinking that.Thank you for sharing your life..
@andy77e (5156)
• United States
1 Mar 13
I can't say for sure, but I know that I personally find a girl in a dress 100 times more attractive than any girl in jeans. Dresses are attractive and girly and sexy. Jeans are boyish and unattractive. Just my opinion.
@andy77e (5156)
• United States
1 Mar 13
Yeah, jeans make me think of work, and sweating, and getting dirty. Dresses make me think of weddings, and kissing, and dancing. I would prefer many times, a dress over jeans.
@Dassodils (2010)
• India
1 Mar 13
Unattractive?? Here most of the lovers says that if you wear jeans,the boys will easily get double attraction than other dress.They don't like it because of ego.And that is saying for protecting their lover.Thanks
• India
27 Feb 13
Hi friend, good to hear that your lover don't dominate you in this sort. Dressing is based on individual interest and our dress is not a factor to determine whether we are a good or bad person. Girls have the rights to wear dress based on their interest and no one can force them in this sort
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@mariaperalta (19073)
• Mexico
27 Feb 13
women wear them here in mexico. i thin it depends where you live and work at. I myself dont wear them here very often.
@Dassodils (2010)
• India
3 Mar 13
Then what dress will you wear daily and for other occassions like party and office?? Thanks for your response.Thank you..
• Mexico
3 Mar 13
Im a skirt girl here. or womans slacks.
• Mexico
3 Mar 13
well here jeans are more like levis, I dont wear those here.
• Philippines
27 Feb 13
I do not see anything wrong with women wearing jeans because it's comfortable. I guess it is "bad" or should I say "unacceptable" depending on the culture and tradition of a certain country. It will look bad if you are the only one wearing jeans on a formal party :D
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@blackrusty (3519)
• Mexico
27 Feb 13
I don't see the harm of a woman wearing jeans and I don't think that the partner has a right to tell anyone what she should wear I do understand that they want there lady to look nice but you can do that in jeans as well
@Dassodils (2010)
• India
27 Feb 13
Yaa..If that girl is slim, Why that people stop their girl friend from wearing jeans?? Thank you
• Mexico
27 Feb 13
your welcome and thank you for sharing this issue it is just not where you live that this happens it happens every where now days
@Dassodils (2010)
• India
27 Feb 13
yes..for so many days I am thinking to share this topic here.While making group chat in my college yesterday as there was no class.Some of my friends said that their lover is not allowing them to wear jeans.That's why I decided to start this discussion here.Thanks for response..
@youless (112091)
• Guangzhou, China
27 Feb 13
I like wearing jeans because it is comfortable and casual. And it can even suit any types of wearing. I wear jeans most of the time. I don't think wearing jeans means that this person is a bad one. But I heard that wearing tight jeans will not be good for your health and that's all.
@Dassodils (2010)
• India
3 Mar 13
What is wrong with wearing tight jeans?? You mean air tight jeans?? Is that is harmful for health?? Thank you..
@alottodo (3056)
• Australia
28 Feb 13
Nothing wrong about wearing jeans! to me any way I Am still wearing jeans and I Am 67 and not skinny at all! and remember bad girls wear skirts as well so to me that is an excuse for boy friends to dominate their partners that's all.
@Dassodils (2010)
• India
2 Mar 13
some times,me too feel so.Some type of bad girls mostly using jeans to wear as daily and to present them for getting attraction.Thanks
@checkmail (2039)
• India
28 Feb 13
Hello Dassodils this is checkmail and don think its about sporting anything on girl or boy but its about comfort you getting with the clothes.Many times myself i avoid jeans during long journey, even old fashion elders don like it as jeans are rough in touch, also a tight, and also new to them.Rest our generation welcomes it due to fashion style, jeans looks good on girls only if their behaviors is common and not some high studd.
@Dassodils (2010)
• India
2 Mar 13
That is also right dear friend.Some fat type body will not be very perfect to see in jeans.Thank you..
@anil02 (24688)
• India
28 Feb 13
Hello, every have right to decide what to wear. Here in India jeans is most likable clothes of girls. It is also depends on society from which some one belongs. In some society elders not like that girls weal jeans.
@Dassodils (2010)
• India
1 Mar 13
Here also some people are still alive.Might they have weard some type of dress which is comparly so bad to jeans.In my view,Jeans is comfort feeling dress.Thank you
@gaiza12 (4884)
• Philippines
1 Mar 13
I think it is not bad. But it could be to some places because of these cultural beliefs that they have already grown to adapt. I read an article that wearing skinny jeans or jeggings can do you harm though because it will cause our blood vessel to be blocked because these type if jeans are fitting, maybe that is why others consider it bad. I wear jeans, although sometimes I prefer wearing shorts or skirt at work.
@Dassodils (2010)
• India
6 Mar 13
Yaa..you are right.that is because of culture change.in some places it is a part showing culture.But in other places, that is very bad to be like that.thank you for your response.. :)
• China
1 Mar 13
hmm, I think girl wear jeans is good, I do not think this is a bad thing, and I do not consider my GF to wear it or not, it depends her habit, I support her!
@Dassodils (2010)
• India
1 Mar 13
You are like my boy friend,He use these same sentences.That is why I love him so much.In my view,this type of love will be everlasting.Other type lovers are forcing the partner to do something that they don't like to do..Thank you