I traveled around the world instead of stay at home unemployed

@maximax8 (31053)
United Kingdom
March 4, 2013 8:16am CST
I was made redundant from my job when I was 20 years old. My home country has high levels of unemployment due to a recession. I tried ever so hard to get another job but it seemed impossible. I decided to let out my cottage, get a working holiday visa for Australia and buy an airline ticket around the world. I was able to work in Australia as a children's nanny, a factory packer and a charity collector. My friend is aged 41 years old and he is married to a lady that works as a nurse. He left his shop assistant job to try to become a bus driver however he failed his training. My view is that it is much worse for a mature person to be made unemployed because he or she has responsibilities of having a partner and rent to pay. Some people also have children to provide for. I think young and single jobless people can go off traveling on a working holiday. I think being jobless can lead to terrible upset. It must be soul destroying to apply for lots of jobs and get loads of rejections. It must be awful to get into debt due to no longer having a job. What do you think? How can an unemployed person keep happy and not let his or her situation get him or her down?
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37 responses
• United States
4 Mar 13
Its hard for people to do things when they don't have a job, money pays the rent but I agree with you, why sit at home, you can do other things such as volunteering or charity work. There is satisfaction in helping others. I lost my job a few years ago and it was tough, my wife had to provide for our family and I thought I would go crazy not being able to help. We started travelling because of her job as a nurse and now I can't think of anything else I would rather be doing.
@maximax8 (31053)
• United Kingdom
5 Mar 13
Thanks for your wonderful response. I think voluntary work and charity help are very good ideas. It was a pity that you lost your job a few years ago. It is great you began traveling because your wife is a nurse.
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@ajithlal (14716)
• India
20 Apr 13
I think it is good to do voluntary work and charity help.
@Adval2013 (436)
5 Mar 13
Wow! I think you are a strong person. And I admire you for being able to do what most people wouldn't do in the face of unemployment - to travel around the globe. I also choose to be happy despite some pressing situations because I couldn't afford to get sick when stress gets the best of me. The more you're stressed out, the more you get sick, the more it is impossible for you to achieve the universal dream of travelling around the world. Me, I just want at this point in my life to travel to our neighboring countries with my mom, but if I get my miracle,why not the world! Thanks for this post..
@maximax8 (31053)
• United Kingdom
13 Apr 13
I hope that you get to visit your neighboring countries with your mom. Yes, depression can be linked to illnesses. Stress is common in the modern world and learning some relaxation strategies can be helpful. Good luck.
@avonrep1 (1862)
• United States
5 Mar 13
I agree with you that working travel holidays as you called it should be done when your young and can afford to take risks. Not so much as you get older and have children. When I was 16 I left home to travel around the US with a traveling sales company. I went to work for them because I wanted to travel, I stayed because I was good at it. I traveled with the company for 3 years went to all 50 States in the US and got to travel to Mexico and Canada all while working for the company. I had a blast doing it. I am now 35 years old and now it would be horrible to have to do. I couldn't imagine being away from my kids, and most jobs don't allow children to go to work with you. But I was lucky I got pregnant at 17 had my daughter at 18 and was able to keep traveling with the company I worked for, we had a traveling nanny to travel with us. It was nice, but I know that most places don't have that.
@maximax8 (31053)
• United Kingdom
13 Apr 13
Wow! I loved reading about your work with a traveling sales company. It was amazing you visited all 50 States, Canada and Mexico. It was amazing they had a traveling nanny with you all. So you had your first baby born at age 18 years old. These days you location is fixed since you are now 35 years old.
@salonga (27775)
• Philippines
5 Mar 13
Yes, being jobless can lead to terrible upset. Whether you have a family to support or just merely yourself or even if there is someone who could support you..being jobless makes you feel deprived. But I believe that in most cases, being jobless is a choice. There is always a way to find a new job or any way to earn a decent living if and when you are suddenly separated from your job (for reasons beyond your control). Why stop looking for another? If job is elusive than you always be self-employed. It takes just diligence and industriousness to remain productive. While you still have the strength, you can always do it. I don't think an unemployed or unproductive person could be really happy unless he is born to live a life of slothfulness and dependence on others. So, the way to be happy is do something so you won't remain unproductive. I also believe, age should not be a hindrance in job. For as long one is still mentally and physically able, he should be allowed to work or do some productive things. I don't believe in retirement age. There is no age to retire. It depends upon the person's physical and mental fitness plus his own will to continue or not.
@maximax8 (31053)
• United Kingdom
13 Apr 13
I think it would be excellent if age wasn't a hindrance to getting a job or keeping a job. My retirement year is likely to be 2039. I will be aged 67 years old then. Good luck to all unemployed people.
@cynthiann (18602)
• Jamaica
5 Mar 13
Surprisingly, many unemployes people do find jobs by being involved in charity work or just active in their community. The library is always having coffee days and give out community information whether it be even talking or visiting a shut in. These contacts can lead to full time employment. The debt problem is a biggy but it is surprsing how you can find so many ways to cut expenses. I was so pleasantly surprised by what is offered in poundland. If I lived in the U.K. then I would shop there as the bargains are amazing - especially those involving cleaning supplies. Doing supermarket shopping later in the evening when the prices are cut often by over half the price. Things like this can help. The unemployed person must have a reason to get up and get dressed and get out on a daily basis to avoid depression. Above all, if they have a faith then this can give them hope because if theylose hope then depression sets in. Has your friend thought of being retrained in any other field? I do hope that he finds work soon.
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@maximax8 (31053)
• United Kingdom
13 Apr 13
The work that the library does seems valuable. I like a shop called Wilkinson and it has low prices. A book shop called The Works is having a sale at the moment. Yes, Pound Land is a very cheap shop. Some unemployed people stay in bed a long time not wishing to get up. I think a walk in the fresh air can help. My friend isn't any to afford any retraining sadly.
• Philippines
5 Mar 13
I have been unemployed for 2 months now, wait, turning 3 this month. I quit my job due to stress and being unhappy. I know it's not a good idea to quit even a high paying but stressful job these days. To keep me sane, I went back to my hometown to visit my family. It has been a while since I was away from home so it really pays to be with my mom and brothers again. It keeps me happy and sane. I know this is not permanent. Sooner or later I will need to look for a job that can pay the rent. Besides, I don't want to work when I'm too old to enjoy my life. For now, I'm enjoying unemployment, away from stress.
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@maximax8 (31053)
• United Kingdom
13 Apr 13
Well done for having the confidence to ditch your job and all the stress. I am happy that you are currently enjoying unemployment. It is lovely that you are back in your hometown around your family. Good luck finding a job you like that doesn't make you feel stressed in the future. Good luck.
@wolfie34 (26771)
• United Kingdom
5 Mar 13
I have that exact same problem right now my friend, I am 42 this year and I am going back to work after a long period of not working due to depression, trying to explain to prospective employers what I've done whilst not working is difficult enough, along with my age against me, and the competition! The only thing I have got is experience, but that alone won't be enough. Trouble is they expect GCSE's and A Levels now, and I was at school and got CSE's which don't seem to be recognized now. Fortunately I am a single person and don't have anyone relying on me, but it's extremely tough out there in the job market and sadly, it's getting far worse.
@maximax8 (31053)
• United Kingdom
13 Apr 13
Hello Wolfie. It is such a pity that the economic down turn has made the job situation dire. Many people are unemployed through no fault of their own. Back in 1988 we were the first lot to do the General Certificate of Education exams. The year before us did either Ordinary Levels or the Certificate of Education. You are 42 this year and I will be 41 in July. Good luck getting a job. I hope you can think of wording to explain your gap in employment.
@suspenseful (40193)
• Canada
4 Mar 13
I think in your situation, you had a cottage to let out. If you were as many young people were then, living with their parents, or renting part of a flat, then you would not have been able to get the money for the passport, and then take off. Also if you had not the skills, ditto. Also now it is the TSA agents and the machines that take x-ray of your body to search for whatever. I would say if you do not mind that and the young people live with their parents and their parents do not charge rent or if do, just a pittance, then they could travel and work abroad. Otherwise, it will not work. Also once a person is married and has a family, unless they do not have any heavy things in the house like a piano, but live in a flat, they cannot travel. Best for them to save up for an extended holiday.
@suspenseful (40193)
• Canada
13 Apr 13
I would hate to travel now and I do want to take a cruise again, but do not have the money set aside for it. Besides I am the type who says, "O I really should sell my ipad or not plant a garden so I can save the money for travel," as I sort of categorize. I would rather avoid an airport at all costs. I do not like getting cancer from an X-ray machine that shows me in the altogether and I do not like mauled. Those airport security procedures all they do is to make people more easily willing to be victims of tyrants. I also remember when us Canadians did not have to have a passport or visa to travel to the States, but now they have these horrible long lineups.
@maximax8 (31053)
• United Kingdom
13 Apr 13
I was lucky with my situation. I let out my cottage to get a monthly income. I had felt bitterly sad not to get a job in that location. Yes, many 19 year old people live with their parents or rent a room in a shared home. Also once a person is married with children that plan wouldn't work for them. The procedures sound horrible at the airports now in North America. I went to Canada in 2010, to America in 1993, 2001 and 2002. This year I am delighted to be traveling by train and so I won't have to worry about any airport security procedures.
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• Philippines
5 Mar 13
It is still all about the money. If you are unemployed but have more than enough savings to travel everywhere to find your luck then good for you. I think what's really depressing is that you don't have anything to start on. You don't have money, you are unemployed, there are no means to get by.. If given a chance, I would want to travel around our country and live the "life" but truth is, I am still in the start up phase where I can't go anywhere because I don't have the funds for it
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@maximax8 (31053)
• United Kingdom
13 Apr 13
One My Lot member in my discussion mentioned a need when working to build up an emergency fund. I believe this should be enough for three to six months time. Maybe two young unemployed people could start up a romantic relationship. Good luck getting past your start up phase and getting together more funds.
@bjc66bjc (6730)
• United States
5 Mar 13
Hi max, I don't know if it was a smart move or not but I will give you kudos for doing that..It certainly is much harder for a person with responsibilities to just jet off into another world.. I am haoppy for you but when does it stop, I mean will you ever settle down and have a permanent home..you are not getting any younger either... continue to enjoy your life!!!!!..
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@maximax8 (31053)
• United Kingdom
13 Apr 13
Hi there. Young people should make the best of being without heavy responsibility. I think that if it is free then studying is very much worth it. In my home country education is free until 19 years old like secondary or further education. I am now double the age I was when I set off on my trip around the world. I am still enjoying my life now I have my children and my dogs.
@cttolledo (5460)
• Legaspi, Philippines
5 Mar 13
Employment has been the method of earning in cash or in kind to survive, hence it is very important to everyone. If you are not employed maybe you can try to invest into something that you will earn without working.. invest your money in any company that sells stocks.. or you can start your own business which is less work. This my dream someday to stop working under the shadow of rich companies and build my own company, I am not wishing for a big one, but at least something that I can call as mine. Because I really believe that very seldom get rich by just being employee alone.. We need to spread our wings and try a lot of opportunities outside, there's no harm in trying.
@maximax8 (31053)
• United Kingdom
13 Apr 13
Good luck building and maintaining your own business. Investing money is a good idea since interest levels are low. When working it is superb to save some of the money.
@Raine38 (12257)
• United States
4 Mar 13
It's really hard to have fun when you have no money or low on funds. You can't seem to get into that mood when you have lots of bills and obligations, not to mention you need some money as well to live by. I think someone can still be happy despite the financial problems if they will have some major lifestyle adjustments. Set standards of living a bit lower so the chances of getting disappointment will not be that great and depressing. I think it will also help to seek emotional and spiritual support from your community. It makes one feel even more grounded and thankful for what little they have and be appreciative of what they have. They will realize that despite everything, they're still far off luckier than most.
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@maximax8 (31053)
• United Kingdom
5 Mar 13
Thanks for your excellent response Raine. I can understand that sort of mood when you have no money and lots of bills coming in. Some money is necessary to live like for utility bills for electricity and water. Getting emotional support from the community is a very good idea.
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@mariaperalta (19073)
• Mexico
4 Mar 13
Mexico has the same troubles as you did. To many people not enough jobs. Im glad you chose to travel rather than sit at home and do nothing. Great job.
@maximax8 (31053)
• United Kingdom
13 Apr 13
Hello Maria. It is a shame that Mexico has the same problems that I did. I hope more jobs will be created in Mexico. I recommend a working holiday if the unemployed person has some money.
• Mexico
13 Apr 13
Yes, Its bad here. Kinda funny when the richest man in the world is here....
• China
5 Mar 13
werid!
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@ajithlal (14716)
• India
13 Apr 13
I think it is good to travel different place and to visit different people and see different cultures. I think it is good to not to stay home and be unemployed. I think it is good that you have traveled around the world.
@dawnald (85135)
• Shingle Springs, California
4 Mar 13
It is harder for older people to find jobs, and the burden of having children and payments can make it really stressful. In my case, I have skills that are being sought after, so I've never been out of a job for long. My partner has been looking for years though, and it's very discouraging.
@maximax8 (31053)
• United Kingdom
5 Mar 13
I know exactly what you mean about age being a barrier to work. Older people can find it hard to find a job. Many middle aged ladies get a job as a supermarket check out assistant in my home country. I am glad you have sought after skills. Good luck to your husband.
@GreenMoo (11834)
4 Mar 13
Being unemployed at any age can be very difficult, but when you have many responsibilities that just adds to the stress. I think if you are unemployed and unhappy about it there are many things that you can do to keep busy. Volunteering is one of them, and sometimes that can add extra skills to your portfolio and even lead to employment.
@maximax8 (31053)
• United Kingdom
13 Apr 13
I think that it is wise for an unemployed person to learn new skills. I believe the volunteering is a very good idea for such a person. For any that are doing that I hope it leads to employment.
@leateagee (3667)
• China
4 Mar 13
basically being unemployed will not bring you anywhere. no money to use to do things you desired. so just stay at home and be useful there. My current job is not what I graduated from. I was unemployed in my younger days but my mom was my good adviser. She always reminds me that if I cannot find a job, I should make one. So I always sell the crafts that I love to do as a hobby whenever I am unemployed. My wish now is that I would be able to make my own real business.
@maximax8 (31053)
• United Kingdom
13 Apr 13
I hope that you will make your own business. It was great that when you were unemployed you did craft projects. I think you mom gave you a helpful tip.
@leateagee (3667)
• China
14 Apr 13
. Yup, she did. Oh, I have an online shop now. It's not about my crafts but it is a start. Not bad for its first month.
@Porcospino (31366)
• Denmark
4 Mar 13
Before I went to Estonia I had the same problem. I passed my exams, but I wasn't able to find a job, and I decided to do something different. On the internet I found a home for adults with special needs in Estonia and I contacted them. I got a job there and spent some time there. At that time I was young and single and I didn't have my own house or other responsiblities. Today it would be much more complicated to take a job in another country because my situation is different today. Today when I am unemployed I stay in my own country and send out lots and lots of applications. I also contact places that aren't hiring new people at the moment and ask them to keep my application in case they are going to hire new people in the future. I usually keep some savings for emergencies so that I can survive some months without a job.
@maximax8 (31053)
• United Kingdom
13 Apr 13
It was such a pity that you passed your exams then couldn't find work in Denmark. It is excellent that you went to work at a home for disabled adults in Estonia. Yes, you were young and single in those days. You are now married so your location is fixed. It is great you have savings to use in case of an emergency.
@marguicha (215325)
• Chile
4 Mar 13
WE did the same when I was around 30 years old. That`s when my husband and I went to Europe for the first time. We camped with camping gear and a VW bug my siblings lent us. I saw a lot more of Europe than normal tourists and at cheaper prices.
@maximax8 (31053)
• United Kingdom
5 Mar 13
That is excellent to hear my dear friend Marguicha. Camping in Europe must have been very economical. I am glad you saw more of Europe than the other tourists as off the beaten track are cheaper prices.
@marguicha (215325)
• Chile
5 Mar 13
At that time I could do it and we had fun and visited many countries. At some countries, campings were far better than cheap hotels.
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