Come crying to me

@911Ricki (13602)
Canada
March 7, 2013 12:28pm CST
This girl I went to high school with, back then were good friends. She started dating this guy 3 years ago, at the time we use to get tgether often. She then basically ditched me, for this guy. We would make plans, and she would talk about this guy, call him while we were out, and so on. I just ended up stopped talking to her, at the time I was working nights, and was irritated even more than now haha. She texted me the other night, saying they broke up and he moved out. This is the girl who needs attention, she supposeable had depression, but only when things dont go her way, she suddenly wants to kill herself. She keeps bugging me to get together, I told her I have to work. Sadly, she still seems very immature. I really can;t understand all these people I was once friends with who are so immature now. It's typical she would do this, ignoring and not talking to me for 3 years, then want to spend time with me. She was never there for me, and ignored me.
2 responses
• United States
7 Mar 13
I would just tell her what you told us. I would ask something like: why are you calling me now. You haven't bothered to call me for the 3 years you were with this dude. Sorry, but friends don't throw friends away when they get a boyfriend. I'm not a paper cup to be thrown away. Sorry but I'm busy.
@911Ricki (13602)
• Canada
8 Mar 13
Exactly, I told her, and she sat there and whined. I told her no, she ditched me for some guy, and when he ditched her, she comes crying back. I can see getting busy, and yes I am working all the time but simple call, or text even hi once in awhile not years when she lives down the street form me.
1 person likes this
• United States
8 Mar 13
Exactly. You just don't do your friends like that. I would not bother with someone who threw me away like trash and then suddenly wants me when they have no one else. Nope!
@redredrose (1107)
• United States
7 Mar 13
You should say to her what you did just now here on my lot. Tell her you don't have time for friends that ignore you. Tell her your friendship isn't disposable. Yell her she shouldn't have ignored you for 3 yrs and not been there for you just because she had a boyfriend and that she shouldn't come crying to you now just when she needs something.
@911Ricki (13602)
• Canada
8 Mar 13
I told her that, she made hersel as the victim all the time. I just ignored her, I know things can get busy and not talk but 3 years, whenever I tried to contact her, or make plans it was all about her boyrfiend.