Parenting of Austism Children

Autism - Meaning of autism
India
March 9, 2013 11:01pm CST
In this modern days we can see a lot of autistic children. Parents must have more patience and tolerance to take care of such kind of kids. My elder son is over hyper active and recently we found that he is affected with a kind of autism. At first my wife worried a lot about this, after some time we went for a counseling and doctors advised that autism is quite common in this days and it can be cured easily with our love and affection. She advised us to admit our son in autistic school which is useful to reduce his hyper activity and he will become normal soon. Now he is going to the special school and my wife take a lot of care about him. Autism means Always Unique Total Interesting Sometimes Mysterious. What is your opinion about Autism? Do you have any autistic child or know about anyone?
6 responses
@ShyBear88 (59275)
• Sterling, Virginia
11 Mar 13
My nephew he is 5 and was dignost when he was 2 with Autisium. It's genetic which not a lot of people believe since they want to blame other reasons. Like a lot of disabilities it stems from the parents boys have it more then girls and some times it can be noticed in younger siblings as well but that is very rare. I've noticed with my nephew because I see him every day and he plays with my two little ones that his parents don't even try to understand him that he is like other 5 years olds when he isn't. He has a mind of a two year old. He can talk and express himself in small secentences but nothing more then that. He won't listen to anyone other then me and my parents we try to understand him but that is because my parents raised 3 children with learning disabilities and I'm one of the three that they raised. I understand him from being in special education all of my life. I talk to him like I do my daughter who is two a lot of things he will do. He doesn't like promises because his parents break them all of the time.
@mommaj (23112)
• United States
11 Mar 13
There is a genetic test that is done to see if the autism is inherited(genetically passed) and by which side of the family. We had our son tested and his autism is not genetically passed. My son is classic autistic. He does not speak much if at all. He is far behind his peers. He is in a special class. I would like to point out there is no cure. Love and understanding helps these children go farther than what they are originally believed to go, but they are not cured. With time and learning they do start to act like the peers in their environment. It is such a shame someone would tell you your son can be cured. If he doesn't have the classic autism and he is just on the spectrum, there is a chance he can act "normal". Parents should accept their child as they are and try their best to teach them the way they want the child to act. It has to start somewhere, school, home, or therapy and be carried over in every aspect of their life.
• India
12 Mar 13
Hi friend, you are right, we must give extra attention to such kind of autistic child and help them to come out from their problem
• India
11 Mar 13
Hi friend, sad to know that your nephew too have this problem. As you mentioned boys are very much affected with autism compared with girls. Good to know your nephew is very much attached with you, i think you can cure his problem with your love and affection. Wish him to get well soon
@chikapet (47)
12 Mar 13
I highly suspect my only child a daughter who is 3 yrs could be autistic. She is delayed in speech and over hyper active. Also between 18 to 24 months she used to walk with her toes and that is the time started doing online research on autism. I still have not taken her for diagnosis because in my country autism diagnosis is still a new thing so i just rely on the internet. I cant wait for my daughter to be fluent like the rest of her classmate because they treat her like a small baby because of her delayed speech also she has a very small body structure.
• India
12 Mar 13
Hi friend, sad to hear about this, don't delay and go for a check up, it will be good for your kid, as you mentioned she is 3 years old, it is high time for getting practice, lot of special schools are available for autistic kids, we must admit them to get rid from this issue.
13 Mar 13
Thanks for your concern, i surely will do take her for checkup. She just joined school this January and i plan to seek medical advice when they break for holidays in April.
@kalav56 (11464)
• India
10 Mar 13
I hope your child also turns out to be an achiever with all the support and love you give him.Has your wife and her mother recovered from the trauma of losing the father/husband?
• India
11 Mar 13
Hi kala, yes, they are free from that tension. Now we have another tension. Hope his problem will be solved soon as you mentioned. Surely we are giving our best love and care to him
@maximax8 (31053)
• United Kingdom
12 Mar 13
My oldest child is a boy of 17 years old and he is going to become 18 years old next month. He has got higher functioning autism. He is fortunately very clever and last year he did five AS Levels. Now in his second year of A Levels he is doing 3 of these. He is studying Maths, Religious Studies and Government and Politics. He wishes to go to university this autumn. My daughter is three years old and normal. My middle child is disabled and therefore in a wheelchair. He has got spina bifida and hydrocephalus with affects his back, hips, legs and feet. When he was two weeks old he got a shunt put in his head to control the extra fluid. I met some autistic children at Springboard Opportunity Service. It is a playgroup for disabled children and those with additional needs. One child joined a special school and a mainstream school. Another child is now talking so he is doing much better. I taught a little boy with autism when I was teaching at a school in Mid Kent. He had a special needs assistant. He was in Year 3 but he was in my Year 2 class. Good luck with your son. My middle son hates going to school.
• India
9 Apr 13
Hi friend, nice to hear about your kids. Really it is hard to parenting different kind of kids, i admire you for your patience in parenting. As you mentioned your middle son hates to go to school, you can home school him and teach good things to him. I think he is disabled, so only he refuse to go to school.
@cvodrey (225)
• United States
10 Mar 13
I have a child that is suspected to have a form of high-functioning autism; he's quite brilliant -was reading when he was two. He loves structure and things just have to be a certain way with him. It's a challenge, yes. And I think it's probably been around longer than we suspected.
• India
11 Mar 13
Hi friend, it is really a great challenge to raise such kind of autistic children. As you mentioned you too have an autistic son, so you know about it very well. Hope your son will be normal soon and my wishes for it
@roshigo58 (4859)
• Pune, India
10 Mar 13
Hi, it is very good that the austism of your child can be cures by your love and affection. love has the power to cure mental or physical problems. you have admitted him to austic school. thus he can be normal and you will be more happy again. I wish your child get well soon.
• India
11 Mar 13
Hi friend, i too hope the same. My second son is good and doing his work properly, but we have worries about our elder son. Now we find out the correct school to him and he joined there, hope he will be normal soon. Thanks for your wishes