I don't know why she bothered to message me.
By mandyc13
@mandyc13 (39)
United States
March 12, 2013 2:37pm CST
My friend Meredith has been having some trouble with another girl on facebook named Denise. Apparently, Denise is messaging people on Meredith's friend list just to talk trash about her. Denise decided to message me yesterday. Here is our conversation:
Denise: hey thx 4 addin me back. im kinda surprisd tht u did cuz i kno ur pretty good friends wit meredith. anyway i js thnk tht u shud watch wat u tell her cuz she will spread ur busnss everywhere. n if ur friends wit amy u shud def watch out 4 her 2. she cant seem 2 keep her mouth shut.
Me: I don't like Amy. Never really have and Meredith has been one of my best friends since I was in grade school so I of all people would know her better than you. You also emailed my brother's girlfriend about Amy and Meredith. So do you just go down their friends list all day emailing everyone they seem to be acquainted with to "inform" them about how they really are? As I said I don't like Amy but Meredith is my friend and I know you're David's cousin and all but their business with him is their business. I personally have no issue with him but it's not my business. And the only reason I added you is because I had a strange feeling I was gonna get about the same message my brother's girlfriend did. I don't know you personally and I'm not trying to be rude but the messages you are sending random people are immature and I honestly don't care to hear about it.
Denise: im js tryna let u kno tht u shudnt trust these ppl. not my prob if u dnt wanna take my warning. n no i dnt go down their friend list i js thnk tht evrybdy shud b warned bout ppl who cant b trusted. it may b their busnss but david has tld me sum of "their" busnss n he is family so i made it my busnss. n i aint js messagn random ppl. i kno tht eithr meredith or amy kno the ppl im messagn. ppl js need 2 srt watchn wat they tell othr ppl it seems. ur bros gf dnt even kno me yet she was quick 2 tell me stuff. n thts y i did it cuz i knew ppl wud b spilln the beans.
Me: Then why are you messaging everyone else and not them? And I'm pretty sure David doesn't need you to hold his hand. He is a grown man I think he will be fine handling this on his own.
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9 responses
@redredrose (1105)
• United States
12 Mar 13
You did the right thing by what you told her. Tho i think if they din't want to see her messages they need to block her on facebook and you should too.
@blackrusty (3519)
• Mexico
12 Mar 13
well the only thing I can say is report her and and explain that she keeps making new accounts
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@kprofgames (3091)
• United States
12 Mar 13
That's sad that a person has to go to such lengths to be stupid. It's actually under facebooks bullying, called hate speech, which is reportable.
If there is enough people that report her, would assume that facebook would just ban this person's IP address so can't make fake accounts.
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@mandyc13 (39)
• United States
13 Mar 13
That's true. I should let my friend Meredith know about it and tell her to report Denise if she hasn't already. I also know a few other people that she messaged so I'm going to tell them to report her as well. Even this girl's mother was sending hateful comments to my friend Meredith. You would think a woman of her age and having two kids would be more mature.
@trisha27 (3494)
• United States
13 Mar 13
People like that annoy me. What is the point of going around telling people stuff like that. She obviously has issues. You did the right thing and you should continue to block her and this is one reason why I never add people that I don't know on my facebook. People like that cause nothing but drama. That is another reason why I stay away from facebook too, because I am tired of drama.
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@LaDeBoheme (2004)
• United States
12 Mar 13
Cyber-bullying never leads to any good and should be reported, not tolerated.
@teotimoponcerosacena (1552)
• Philippines
12 Mar 13
I think the reason is you are important to her and the person who has the edge to comfort her. Be thankful for that. The decision is now yours to reply or not to reply.
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@Hatley (163781)
• Garden Grove, California
13 Mar 13
hi mandy wow I think Denise is a snaky sort of girl. the kind of friend who is worse than ones enemy. I dislike that kind of stuff so much that it keeps me from using my Facebook account a lot. These kind of people love to gossip and pry in other peoples messages.
The only word I can think of for Denise is sleazy and I think thats fitting. I hope your friend Meredith knows
how treacherous Denise is
how treacherous Denise is
@squallming (1775)
• Malaysia
13 Mar 13
Some people are just too free. They have nothing to be done in life and that is why they would like to spend all their time in Facebook to talk bad about people. Her action is pretty weird and I don't think it's the right to do since it's totally other people's business. I like the way you responded to her though. Let's just hope that she will stop doing it after advised by you. 
