Sad now, the life is tough

@Alisatan (140)
China
March 14, 2013 8:54pm CST
My husband and I lived in small city, we just move to this city last year. It is difficult to find a good job here, so he is a salesman, and I do customer service here. We all earn little money but have to pay back high loans for the apartment every month. I am very stressed, but I have to be positive and happy before my husband, he is more anxious and stressful. What shall we do, I am worried this may affect our relationship such as " Poor couples sorrow",
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4 responses
• Indonesia
8 Apr 13
I know how is that to have a hard tough life, i have a pretty hard live. I think we need to keep always positive, and try as best as we can, like searching or looking for other jobs, thinking about buid a really small bussiness, and whats important too, if u a religious person, Pray, Pray to God! He will helps you with everything! Good luck! :)
@Alisatan (140)
• China
9 Apr 13
Yes, we should be positive, we have ever thought to do small business before, but gave up for big risk. Now we will work hard and improve ourselves, then we can find a better job with good salary. I believe everything will be fine. We need to keep our feet on the ground, complains helps nothing.
@tehpau (340)
• Malaysia
15 Mar 13
Hi Alisatan, I understand how you feel because I am in a similar situation. My husband had been out of job since December. We got married in November last year. I have been supporting him while he tries hard to look for a job and looking for possible business opportunities at the same time. It is very stressful, we do not enjoy being married at all. I had to work everyday and all my money is spend on making his life bearable. I don't know how long can I go on like this. My life has never been so hard.
@Alisatan (140)
• China
9 Apr 13
Thanks for your comment, let's be positive, everything will be fine. We should do somthing to improve our living condition.
@echoforever (5192)
• United States
15 Mar 13
I'm sorry to hear about your new woes of life. I don't knwo what to suggest as I've been poor all my life. All I can imagine is to get through it together the best you can. Find the good in it. Best of luck to you both.
@Alisatan (140)
• China
15 Mar 13
Thanks, we will be fine and our life will be better, I believe this. Good luck to you too.
• Canada
15 Mar 13
Hi Alisatan, Hang in there things will get better, perhaps this will help your relationship to become stronger. For me personally when I am anxious or stressful I always read my bible (for me this helps a great deal) This might help as well tell yourself every night and in the morning when you wake up I believe something wonderful will happen today. Say this over and over and just keep telling yourself everything will be okay. Good luck to you and your husband take care
@Alisatan (140)
• China
15 Mar 13
Thanks for your suggestion. I believe our life will be better. Thanks to mylot where I can pour forth my feelings, and thanks for your comments here. This can comfort me and give me strength.