Often heard people crying for love... Only LOve?
By Jane
@jaiho2009 (39142)
Philippines
March 17, 2013 1:20am CST
Love can make you cry - isn't the person who caused you the pain?
Then why say love makes you cry?
I don't understand why people keep thinking the person who hurt them
and say " I miss him/her" (huh?) 
Okay fine.
I knew it.
I've fall in love (once...ahhh, maybe two, three,four -hehehe)
Don't take it seriously dear mylotters (^_^)
I just want something to discuss but can't find a good topic to talk to.
So, I am here to listen ..I mean to read whatever you want to write (hehehe)
Wohohoho...it's hot hot Sunday here in the Philippines
Enjoy weekend everyone 
jaiho® forever - I miss U (!_!)
3-17-2013
2:27pm Sunday PT
Okay fine.
I knew it.
I've fall in love (once...ahhh, maybe two, three,four -hehehe)
Don't take it seriously dear mylotters (^_^)
I just want something to discuss but can't find a good topic to talk to.
So, I am here to listen ..I mean to read whatever you want to write (hehehe)
Wohohoho...it's hot hot Sunday here in the Philippines
Enjoy weekend everyone
jaiho® forever - I miss U (!_!)
3-17-2013
2:27pm Sunday PT4 people like this
16 responses
@jaiho2009 (39142)
• Philippines
17 Mar 13
hello july,
I won't let love spoils my day- hmnn...
But I want the feeling of being spoiled (ahahaha)
Now you know the feeling of being a father
@bhabycatch013 (9150)
• Philippines
17 Mar 13
hi jai,
Love can make you fat too.........living example of US hahhaa!
Love yah
@jaiho2009 (39142)
• Philippines
17 Mar 13
Oh No...not for me 
Now I need to fall in love to lose some weight 
Now I need to fall in love to lose some weight 
@maharlikah (1045)
• Philippines
27 Mar 13
Hi Jaiho,
Love can make someone cry, it can also make someone happy. In this slippery world, I don't wanna cry anymore. I want to be brave in facing life's challenges. My little Tara keeps me going strong everyday.
It's a hot Wednesday now!
:) Misyah
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@jaiho2009 (39142)
• Philippines
28 Mar 13
hello amiga
I am fine- just got back from a month long vacation and still feeling lazy mylotting (hahaha)
Well- love can make us cry for many reason (good and bad) hehehe.
Yah, it's too hot and that drives me crazy- wish I can have another month holiday (hahaha)
Miss you too
I am fine- just got back from a month long vacation and still feeling lazy mylotting (hahaha)
Well- love can make us cry for many reason (good and bad) hehehe.
Yah, it's too hot and that drives me crazy- wish I can have another month holiday (hahaha)
Miss you too 
@starsailover (7829)
• Mexico
24 Mar 13
Hi jaiho: I wouldn't say is love but the absence of love what usually makes people cry. People cry when for any reason love has ended or the person they love don't do it the same way the expect and also when for any circumstance they have to leave the person they love. Jealousy is also a reason why people cry but it's not because of love but because they don't trust in the person they love= absence of love.
ALVARO
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@jaiho2009 (39142)
• Philippines
28 Mar 13
hello Alvaro,
Nice to see you again my dear :)
Yes, people cry for so many reason when it comes to love and jealousy is not an exemption.
Jealousy is normal- but too much is scary too.
Thanks and have a great day always
@meowchie (992)
• Philippines
29 Mar 13
hahahaha :))) I can relate because, I my self cried countless nights for someone who broke my heart :D
and it's been passed a year still i feel broken thinking about him , but am glad am not crying anymore.
Honestly, the crying was something I can't control :S
So i hope it's ok..
It's ok for me, but I am honestly annoyed with some brokenhearted say "i can't live without him", "i'm gonna die if he/she leaves me", "i don't know what to do anymore"
haha well that's a different case. lol
have a good day!!
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@cherigucchi (14879)
• Philippines
2 Apr 13
Loving has two faces...the happy one and the one which you said. Love can be hurting especially when certain expectations are never met and frustration comes in. I do find it sometime annoying seeing those kind of people who seem to be lovestruck all the time.
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@jaiho2009 (39142)
• Philippines
2 Apr 13
hello cheri,
We all have different definition and understanding about love and that is the reason why some cannot handle frustration due to too much expectation.
Thanks for your share and have a great day
@yanzalong (18984)
• Indonesia
17 Mar 13
I agree that love makes you cry. This happened to me when I thought she lived me but I was wrong. She turned me down. As a result I couldn't sleep. I cried so did my heart.
@jaiho2009 (39142)
• Philippines
17 Mar 13
hello yanzalong,
It really hurts when someone we care so much put us down.
But that is one thing beyond our control.
Love often times make us cry...for all reason, be it sad or happy.
Thanks and have a great weekend
@Professor2010 (20162)
• India
19 Mar 13
Thanks for sharing. another topic on love
Yes i have heard girls and guys shouting loudly on mobile phone, i love you, i miss you, some of them have several such lovers and beloveds
Blessings from Papa
another topic on love
Yes i have heard girls and guys shouting loudly on mobile phone, i love you, i miss you, some of them have several such lovers and beloveds
Blessings from Papa1 person likes this
@jaiho2009 (39142)
• Philippines
19 Mar 13
hello dada,
Oh yes,some of them have several lovers 
Well- it's not love- but lust I guess (lols)
And those kind of relationship/s are short lived one and I am sure no one will cry.
Thanks and hugs to you and maa
Well- it's not love- but lust I guess (lols)
And those kind of relationship/s are short lived one and I am sure no one will cry.
Thanks and hugs to you and maa
@jaiho2009 (39142)
• Philippines
18 Mar 13
hello Jo (^_^)
Glad to see you my dear
I agree- women can do anything in the name of love.
Sadly it's too bad that some men can't see the pureness of her heart.
Thanks and hope you are doing great always
I agree- women can do anything in the name of love.
Sadly it's too bad that some men can't see the pureness of her heart.
Thanks and hope you are doing great always 
@jenny1015 (13366)
• Philippines
18 Mar 13
Love can make you cry---- it is said as such because we equate love to a person that we have strong feeling for. And we sometimes refer it in general, but what we really mean is only to a specific person.
Now, you got me thinking about that hurtful love--- a stupid love, a crazy love, an out of this world love! hayy LOVE!
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@jaiho2009 (39142)
• Philippines
18 Mar 13
hello jenny,
Oh yes...hayyyyy Love 
We cry, we're hurt but still we keep falling in love (oh love)
But one thing is always there- we learn from those experience/s.
Thanks and have a great day
We cry, we're hurt but still we keep falling in love (oh love)
But one thing is always there- we learn from those experience/s.
Thanks and have a great day 
@jaiho2009 (39142)
• Philippines
18 Mar 13
hello ricky,
I agree that there are mature ways to deal with the problem and I don't see crying is a childish thing.
Crying might not work to settle the matter but somehow it helps the concern to lighten the burden.
Thanks for sharing and have a great day
@enelym001 (8322)
• Philippines
17 Mar 13
Hi jai
The first to second weeks of being hurt by the lover - it's normal for people to miss that person who hurt her/him. But then after that, we will come to realization that it is not worth to even think if getting back with that person.
The first to second weeks of being hurt by the lover - it's normal for people to miss that person who hurt her/him. But then after that, we will come to realization that it is not worth to even think if getting back with that person.1 person likes this
@jaiho2009 (39142)
• Philippines
18 Mar 13
en
I knew it my dear,the first week could be the hardest.
It takes time to forget and the pain linger for weeks, months and even year/s depends on how we care the person.
Thanks again for your share and take care always
I knew it my dear,the first week could be the hardest.
It takes time to forget and the pain linger for weeks, months and even year/s depends on how we care the person.
Thanks again for your share and take care always 
@roshigo58 (4859)
• Pune, India
18 Mar 13
Hi,
We always think that the people who are in love are very happy and they feel like they are flying in the sky. But some people who are hurt in love are very sad and love make them cry. The wounds created by the hurt are very painful and very difficult to heal. But you should say that the person who hurted you is not suitable for you. there is someone special who is waiting for you somewhere.
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@jaiho2009 (39142)
• Philippines
18 Mar 13
hello roshigo,
I believe that losing someone is not the end of everything but giving way for the right one to come along.
Though it hurts to let go - and it's not easy to lost someone.
Successful relationship is not all about happiness- but also includes sad and bad memories.
Thanks for your share and have a great day
@extremefun4fun (2908)
• India
17 Mar 13
I do not understand which love has value of cry? and what a childish behave some people have to cry for nothing?
@jaiho2009 (39142)
• Philippines
17 Mar 13
hello extreme,
Exactly!
Nice question.
What exactly kind of love has the value and worth crying for?
I have written one article about relationships and that gives me this idea to start this topic.
Some say it's a childish thing to cry for a lost love, but who are we judge.
Some times we need to be in their shoe to understand them completely.
Thanks for your share and have a great weekend
@kalav56 (11464)
• India
17 Mar 13
Good topic! People do tend to say 'I miss her /him'even after they are hurt by a person. The main reason is that there were good times also with the same person and the hurt was quite intense.You particularly cared a lot for the person who offended you and that is why you have been unable to get over the hurt. THis makes you yearn for the 'might have been's deep within your heart and you tend to miss the said person; if you had not cared so much you would not miss this person.1 person likes this
@jaiho2009 (39142)
• Philippines
17 Mar 13
hello kalav,
I agree it's not easy to forget someone we love no matter how much he/she hurt us.
It takes time to heal the pain and the memories remain.
Thanks for sharing and have a great Sunday
@loyhardy (50)
• Kenya
17 Mar 13
Actually love is the best and worst thing you could ever have.If you really loved someone no matter what she/he does to you,you keep having flashbacks of the nice moments you used to have at a certain time.Don't blame people when you see them behave this way,its so natural.Enjoy your weekend too.
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@jaiho2009 (39142)
• Philippines
17 Mar 13
hello loy,
I am not blaming them, like what I wrote- I'd fall in love in my life once.
I fall in love and lost that person- it hurts and it takes time before I came to acceptance.
Love is sweet, love is bitter- but love will stay forever.
Thanks and have a great weekend
