Why you would like to have baby now?

Vietnam
March 20, 2013 10:56pm CST
We usually like to have baby because some reasons. I'm too. I got married for 1.5 years. But we have not had baby. I must say that I have not wanted to have baby now. But my mother-in-law is sick heavy. So, I would like to have baby soon in order that she can see her grandchildren early. I consider if we should use IUI method. How about you? Do you have any reasons when you would like to have baby?
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@pals101 (2010)
• Philippines
22 Mar 13
Yes it would be great to have some kids. Me and my girlfriend are planning for our wedding this coming 2016. Hopefully we can our own children someday. I would like to have a twins, but still its okay if the Lord will provide us with one boy and one girl.
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@ajithlal (14716)
• India
24 Mar 13
I think it is good to get married and get kids. I hope you have twins. Best of luck. May God bless you with twins.
• Vietnam
22 Mar 13
All people have dream like you, my friend.
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@giex22 (273)
• Cebu, Philippines
22 Mar 13
Having a baby is a great opportunity between the two person because it is nice to have one. Since, you are married for almost 1.5 years and you don't still have a baby this is because of your emotions too it can do affect it to you. Now, if you are willing to have a baby then you should stable your emotions, physical and mental for all the things would go properly and also you should see your OB-GYNE for some suggestions that you'll be needed. Yes, i do have reasons why i want a baby, i love children and i do like to have my own.
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@ajithlal (14716)
• India
24 Mar 13
I also think it is good to consult a doctor. I also think that emotions do play role and it is good to relax and to have stable emotions. Best of lucks.
@giex22 (273)
• Cebu, Philippines
4 Apr 13
Absolutely right, it is always a better idea to consult your doctor first than never. thanks. same as you also.
@stanley777 (9402)
• Philippines
22 Mar 13
As some parents might have said, their children are their greatest wealth. I guess it's true, if the parents have properly nurtured them most especially with love. Most parents wants to have children after marriage but once they have, some can not provide for their needs. While others who mostly wanted and had the capability to do so, sometimes are the ones who were not granted even one. What I'm saying is, if you thought that you and your husband can not provide for them yet why the rush. It will be your responsibility as a parent to bring them up as a good citizen and to care for their needs, not your MIL. Anyway, it's your's to decide if ever you would heed to your MIL requests.
@cttolledo (5460)
• Legaspi, Philippines
22 Mar 13
What is IUI method? well curious.. obviously clueless since I am still single... I want to have baby also but not now.. I want to do it in the right time and in the right place...
@ajithlal (14716)
• India
24 Mar 13
You can search on the internet to know more details or consult a doctor to know more about it.
@ayano678 (441)
21 Mar 13
yes, because I really love children and I want to have a baby in order to continue the struggle of my life, thank you.
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• Vietnam
22 Mar 13
Almost women think like you. Wish you're happy.
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@srisahara (4508)
• Indonesia
22 Mar 13
Yes, friend. I also have a reason when would like a baby. In the first year of my marriage I have been had a baby, because I want my family is complete. Marriage without child, I think it is not comfort, so I want to have a baby short after married. Now, I was pregnant for my second baby. I decide to have a baby, because my daughter have not friend to play and having brother will help her for independent. This is my reason, friend. Have a nice day.
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@ajithlal (14716)
• India
21 Mar 13
I love babies very much. I am got married for 3 and half years ago. But we have also no child. We are really depressed to it. Now we are started treatment .
@maximax8 (31053)
• United Kingdom
23 Mar 13
I think your mother-in-law is trying to pressure you into have baby. She wants to see some grandchildren coming into the world soon. My mum decided that she had been married for two years so she would try to get pregnant. It took her a while to get pregnant. She had my older sister born and three years later she tried to get pregnant again. She knew she was getting too old to have a baby. Yes, she wanted to have her second baby born before she was 40 years old. I was born when she was 39 years old. There is a 5 year gap between me and my sister. I think it is unlikely for a lady to get pregnant if she is activity trying to get pregnant and becomes stressed about that whole thing. It is better to stop using birth control and have a lovely time. It should be a relaxing time that is full of happiness. It would be after two years of marriage or the ticking clock in my thirties. Now I have 3 children I am not planning anymore. I am now aged 40 years old. If I get pregnant I keep my baby.
• Philippines
25 Mar 13
I'm only 20 years old and I think that I'm not yet ready to have a baby. With the society today, I should be studying my Masters degree or Law school. It is one of the pre requisite for the working class and if ever I will have a baby, it would be a big distraction. With your case, I think its best of you go see your doctor so that she can give you some advices in what you are going through.
@ShyBear88 (59272)
• Sterling, Virginia
21 Mar 13
Nope had no reason at all. We where talking about having kids because we wanted kids but not for a few years but we where using protection and I end up pregnant after my pills failed not to long after getting married and ten months later after having our daughter we end up getting pregnant again with protection again. As they say things happen for a reason.
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@ayeeesha (1127)
• Philippines
21 Mar 13
Planning when to have a baby depends on you and your husband's choice. Don't let anyone dictate you because it will be your primary responsibility, not theirs. While of course, parents are excited to see their children's children, if you are still not ready to have one, then don't. Don't pressure yourself too much. My case is different because I've always wanted to have a baby. My husband and I didn't wait for too long before we had one. And I'm happy with having a baby. It's always the best thing in the world.
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22 Mar 13
The ultimate reason in getting married is to build a family,this is made possible only if i have children.Babies are gifts, the main reason to have them is to complete your family,to let your parents see your children is only a bonus.For most babies are gifts in your married life,they answer mans ultimate desire which is to have a family.
@ashpm87 (17)
• South Korea
21 Mar 13
Well... I am 7 weeks pregnant now. We did not plan the pregnancy. It just happened. At first, we were unsure if if can take up this huge responsibility, later we made up our mind to continue this wonderful journey and i have regretted our decision. We both love kids and its going to be wonderful. Trust me
@mjhalz8 (255)
• Philippines
6 Apr 13
I have a 10 months old baby boy now. And we really wanted it. But don't have any plans for another one for the moment. In your case. I don't see any reason for you to still don't want to have a baby, maybe its a sign for the both of you to work it out now. Hope to hear from you soon about the gender of your baby :)