Just Be Happy

That's all happening with me, my GF had relation with someone but now they breakup with each other., the most hurtable thing they talk each other on phone, and she(my gf) give more importance to him, not me.... ;-(

there is always a purpose why things happen in ones life, why some relationship didn't work out and some has a happy ending. Only God knows why things happen in that way :) but as you said we must be happy for everything that come on our way even it is bitter or sweet atleast we learn our lesson. ;)

correct and that is the key everywhere and even in a relationship to be friends and also to be happy always

I agree with the topic of this discussion. "The One" may not even exist, but as long as your happy. That being said, some people may be happier being alone. It's like the saying "the lone wolf." I don't know, maybe we just set our standards to high, after all most of us want that fairy tale ending, but is it even possible to achieve such a goal? I think it's more important to be happy in every day life, happy with yourself and your lifestyle. Also if you are in a relationship, it's better to achieve happiness, then perfection. As long as they care for you and make you happy, that should be enough.

Hi friend, you are right. Our life is short we can live it in a good way as per our wish. We have the ability to select our life partner based on our wish. We must select the proper person to have a good life.

Attaining happiness is by means of contentment. Some people choose to marry and some choose not to. But being single doesn't mean that the person is lonely. Maybe he just chose that way. Love will come naturally, you don't have to force yourself to meet someone just to say you are in a relationship. Wait for the time and while waiting choose to be happy.

I think our perspectives change as we mature. It takes sometime to realize that a person can't truely be happy until they are happy with themselves.

Hi ! Life is simply amazing ! If it happens then it is really meant to happen and if it don't then fine ! This is what life is all about , not all the things that we aspired we can get it , there are times that no matter how we strive hard just to have that person still we can't make them love us . I guessed all we need is to accept reality , though it is very painful we need to face it , this is one way of living a peaceful and happy life.

Very true. People should learn to be happy. Does not matter whether you are in a relationship with someone or not. One should have a good relationship with oneself first. If you have a good relationship with yourself, you act like a magnet to other people. The right people will walk into your life if you live life to the utmost. So, just be happy and love yourself.

I agree. Just be happy and be contented with what you have should always be the rule. If the person is in a relationship that doesn't automatically means that he/she is happy and if the person is single doesn't mean that she is lonely. I believe that the true meaning of happiness is contentment. Even if you are in a relationship or single, as long as you are contented in the position where you are at, then that's okay. Don't struggle in finding the right one, the right person will just come on the time when you are least expecting it.

life is short, we should try best to make it a happy one, not matter by yourself or together with the person you love. I wish I will be lucy enough to meet my Mr.Right and create our happy life together, but I know it is very difficult for me to find the right one in the right place at the right time.So before I meet him,I focus on my job, and do things I like in my spare time, I try to enjoy my life alone. Recently I'm in touch with a guy someone introduced to me, he may not be the ideal one I need, but as I have no other choices now I still will to get along with him. Because I think nothing is impossible in the world, mybe we can have a good result, who knows?

Many people are looking for "THE ONE" sometimes forgetting to find "THE RIGHT ONe" its better to wait for the right one instead of continuously searching for the one. Just enjoy life and pray for guidance