Just Be Happy

@adforme (2116)
March 22, 2013 7:15pm CST
So many people "looking for the one". What if he or she is not out there? There are people having expensive divorces and having a relationship with someone means taking chances. I did not say that one should not take a chance on love, but do it when you can handle the fallout when it does not work. Some people need to know how to be alone so that they can work on themselves and know how to take a breakup. One has his or her whole life to make a connection. In the time between relationships, just be happy. If a relationship never happens, choose to be happy in that case too.
12 responses
@RahulRLP (178)
• India
23 Mar 13
That's all happening with me, my GF had relation with someone but now they breakup with each other., the most hurtable thing they talk each other on phone, and she(my gf) give more importance to him, not me.... ;-(
@adforme (2116)
23 Mar 13
I am sorry that you are not having the relationship you want. Just give yourself a chance to be better and do better.
@RahulRLP (178)
• India
24 Mar 13
i m thinking to ignore her and leave her.... i think she is happy to getting closer her ex-bf so i don't want be any wall b/w he and she...
@adforme (2116)
24 Mar 13
Well, you should let her go and stop hurting yourself hanging onto her if she wants someone else. Good luck in love.
• Philippines
23 Mar 13
there is always a purpose why things happen in ones life, why some relationship didn't work out and some has a happy ending. Only God knows why things happen in that way :) but as you said we must be happy for everything that come on our way even it is bitter or sweet atleast we learn our lesson. ;)
@adforme (2116)
23 Mar 13
Living and learning is what it is all about. Learning the joy of happiness and living a life that makes it possible.
25 Mar 13
i think this is destiny and its true
@adforme (2116)
25 Mar 13
My sentiments as well.
• Australia
23 Mar 13
I agree with the topic of this discussion. "The One" may not even exist, but as long as your happy. That being said, some people may be happier being alone. It's like the saying "the lone wolf." I don't know, maybe we just set our standards to high, after all most of us want that fairy tale ending, but is it even possible to achieve such a goal? I think it's more important to be happy in every day life, happy with yourself and your lifestyle. Also if you are in a relationship, it's better to achieve happiness, then perfection. As long as they care for you and make you happy, that should be enough.
@adforme (2116)
23 Mar 13
I agree with you completely AnnieT. You get the point, and I definitely concur with your response.
25 Mar 13
be happy n trust god
@adforme (2116)
25 Mar 13
Good idea. Trust in a higher power. You are worthy of life and its great plans.
@natliegleb (5184)
• India
23 Mar 13
correct and that is the key everywhere and even in a relationship to be friends and also to be happy always
@adforme (2116)
23 Mar 13
Happiness is a good indication of having the relationships you want. Friends are good to us and for us.
25 Mar 13
just be happy forget everything else
• Philippines
1 Apr 13
Attaining happiness is by means of contentment. Some people choose to marry and some choose not to. But being single doesn't mean that the person is lonely. Maybe he just chose that way. Love will come naturally, you don't have to force yourself to meet someone just to say you are in a relationship. Wait for the time and while waiting choose to be happy.
@adforme (2116)
1 Apr 13
I agree, just being happy is something some people have issues with. Happy is what you choose to be, not what someone makes you be.
• India
25 Mar 13
Hi friend, you are right. Our life is short we can live it in a good way as per our wish. We have the ability to select our life partner based on our wish. We must select the proper person to have a good life.
@adforme (2116)
25 Mar 13
Exactly. Pick the one you are happy with and share each other's joy. You can also choose to be happy alone.
@kprofgames (3089)
• United States
23 Mar 13
I think our perspectives change as we mature. It takes sometime to realize that a person can't truely be happy until they are happy with themselves.
@adforme (2116)
23 Mar 13
I agree. People grow and mature and their choices for friends and other relations should get better and be better for them. The relationship one has with himself or herself should stay strong.
@daddyj (2)
• Philippines
23 Mar 13
Many people are looking for "THE ONE" sometimes forgetting to find "THE RIGHT ONe" its better to wait for the right one instead of continuously searching for the one. Just enjoy life and pray for guidance
@adforme (2116)
23 Mar 13
Whether it is "the one" or the "right one", people who know themselves best will understand which "one" they have. Personally, the "right one" or no one is my preference.
@rockyk (160)
• India
23 Mar 13
Very true. People should learn to be happy. Does not matter whether you are in a relationship with someone or not. One should have a good relationship with oneself first. If you have a good relationship with yourself, you act like a magnet to other people. The right people will walk into your life if you live life to the utmost. So, just be happy and love yourself.
@adforme (2116)
23 Mar 13
Relationships really are better when you have a good relationship with yourself. No one can be happy with someone unless he or she knows what makes them happy.
@Angelpink (4022)
• Philippines
23 Mar 13
Hi ! Life is simply amazing ! If it happens then it is really meant to happen and if it don't then fine ! This is what life is all about , not all the things that we aspired we can get it , there are times that no matter how we strive hard just to have that person still we can't make them love us . I guessed all we need is to accept reality , though it is very painful we need to face it , this is one way of living a peaceful and happy life.
@adforme (2116)
23 Mar 13
I agree with you Angelpink. There is nothing better than the person that can accept being alone as well as being with someone. Both situations are possible happy places for me.
• Philippines
23 Mar 13
I agree. Just be happy and be contented with what you have should always be the rule. If the person is in a relationship that doesn't automatically means that he/she is happy and if the person is single doesn't mean that she is lonely. I believe that the true meaning of happiness is contentment. Even if you are in a relationship or single, as long as you are contented in the position where you are at, then that's okay. Don't struggle in finding the right one, the right person will just come on the time when you are least expecting it.
@adforme (2116)
23 Mar 13
I believe you are right. Good things can happen to good people. Be ready for what life may bring you, but have a life while you are living.
• China
23 Mar 13
life is short, we should try best to make it a happy one, not matter by yourself or together with the person you love. I wish I will be lucy enough to meet my Mr.Right and create our happy life together, but I know it is very difficult for me to find the right one in the right place at the right time.So before I meet him,I focus on my job, and do things I like in my spare time, I try to enjoy my life alone. Recently I'm in touch with a guy someone introduced to me, he may not be the ideal one I need, but as I have no other choices now I still will to get along with him. Because I think nothing is impossible in the world, mybe we can have a good result, who knows?
@adforme (2116)
23 Mar 13
Good luck with your new friend. I hope you both are able to find happiness in whomever you have as a friends and more.