did you know he was the one on the first date?^^

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Portugal
March 30, 2013 10:29am CST
hi guys i dont know much about love yet but i would like to know from your experiences. did you ever met someone on your first date and knew he was the one for you? i never experienced that but i would like to. its like is something meant to be. so romantic right? please share your experiences ^^
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@jenny1015 (13366)
• Philippines
31 Mar 13
Probably that has happened to some people. But to me, well, it was all automatic. My husband was my classmate in College. When we became friends, he was in a relationship. As time went by, I just noticed that he goes with his girlfriend less often and would be hanging out with me and my two other friends all the time. We have even told him that he should avoid being with us coz his girlfriend might get mad at us. But he remained close with the three of us. Then one time,I felt he was really getting close to me, but he never said anything. He would just be smiling all the time. And if you have seen that smile, you'll feel that it means something. He was sweet but I never encourage him, really. Then one time his girlfriend freaked out and asked if to choose between me and her. I mean , really? We were never a couple! He chose me, instead. It came to me as a surprise and told him that maybe he really didn't mean it. But then after, it was us. Three years later we got married. And that was 19 years ago.
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• Portugal
20 Apr 13
wow jenny ^^ your hubby is the cutest! i guess you were really surprised when he chose you instead of his girlfriend ^^ such a cute guy he was for sure. im really happy that you and him are together till now. im sure that your love will be forever. the way he act it showed that you were really important to him. so im sure it will last always.
• Portugal
25 Apr 13
jenny thats so sweet. you really love your hubby cause you say that you couldnt find happiness with anyone else. anyway i believe that you and him can always solve marital issues together^^ cause honesty is a part of your married life. as long as you are always true to each other im sure it will last forever. wish you the best ^^
@jenny1015 (13366)
• Philippines
22 Apr 13
I do believe that, too. A few years back, we had some marital issues which I thought would really end our marriage. But after clearing things, I realized that I would never find myself with anyone that would make me happy.
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@1creekgirl (40516)
• United States
28 Oct 15
My husband and I met on a blind date. He was tall with the prettiest eyes and black hair, kind of reminded me of a young Elvis. After that first kiss, I knew I wanted to get to know this guy better! We'll soon be married 50 years~
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• Portugal
29 Oct 15
that's amazing *.* i wish i knew a guy and felt that way too. hopefully i will find a special one that will also make me feel that he is the one :) thanks for sharing.
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@1creekgirl (40516)
• United States
30 Oct 15
@sweetloveforeve I bet you'll meet that special someone before too long. Best wishes!
@Porcospino (31366)
• Denmark
30 Mar 13
My husband and I met online. We were both members of the same social networking site and one day I received a message from my husband. He had read my profile and he asked me if I wanted to exchange emails with him. I got positive impresion of him through the message and his profile and I agreed to exchange emails with him. We did that for a while and then we decided to meet for the first time. When we met we decided to visit one of the local cafes and chat for a while. He bought me a cappuccino and we started chatting. When my cup was empty he asked me if I wanted another one and I said yes. because I really liked him and I didn't want to leave After the second cappuccino we left the cafe, but we both wanted to meet again. We met a couple of times and a few weeks later we became a couple. After some time we got in engaged and in 2009 we got married.
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• Portugal
6 Apr 13
such a sweet story. im really happy that you decided to meet each other^^ and that both were real cause sadly sometimes people that meet online when meet in person end up seeing a different person of what they thought. im so happy that you liked each other and married later on^^ i wish you and him can be happy forever.
• Mexico
30 Mar 13
Hi sweet love forever: I haven't experienced anything like that. However, I am chatting with a very special person and I am feeling in love. When I first see her it was like wow... she is simply beautiful. As we started talking I feel more confident and I think our relationship is beautiful since the beginning but I didn't have the power to predict the future. There was just a beautiful feeling that was later confirmed and I hope I'm right about my choice ALVARO
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• Portugal
20 Apr 13
im happy that you met someone so sweet online. i really wish that she is as you think. and that she likes you so muchy too. does she live in your country? or a different one? either way if with time you and her fall in love im sure you will find a way to be together. the best for you
@rog0322 (2829)
• Cagayan De Oro, Philippines
31 Mar 13
Hi, You know it right from the very start. The magic moment you look into the eyes of a person and the attraction in the way he walk, talk and smile at you.
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• Portugal
20 Apr 13
aw rog that sounds really cute what you said. i didnt feel this yet i think. im still waiting for the right guy to appear in my life. but i will pay attention around me^^ i think its really cute to understand it the moment we look at that person. is like they are meant to be right?^^
@inertia4 (27961)
• United States
5 Apr 13
Well, there is that first love thing. I had that but unfortunately i did not go out with the girl. I met her back in the early 80's. She was going with my cousin. She was beautiful. And she was fun. She was a regular girl, down to earth. Most people were intimidated by her looks. She was a model. But I knew different. We used to hang out and talk sometimes. She was just as cooky and nuts as I was back then. She was a cool chick. But I could not go against my cousin. I would never interfere with someone relationship. And so I didn't. Funny thing is that we both liked each other a lot. I never forgot her either. And after all these years that passed I finally bumped into her about three years ago. Funny, right? So as for that special someone, I really believe it is true. And what happened to me was Serendipity for sure.
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• Portugal
20 Apr 13
thats so cute^^ i guess maybe you and her liked each other but she didnt want to leave your cousin back then so you and him wouldnt have trouble. im happy that you didnt interfere in their relation that shows you are such a good guy. you would give up your happiness for someone else's. thats why im sure your future will be just happy^^ im happy that you saw her three years ago. was she married already?
@sizzle3000 (3036)
• United States
30 Mar 13
I think I did. It was a long time and at the time he was with my aunt. To this day she still thinks I stole him but he already broke up with her. My daughter, I think knew immediately. She had met her husband when she was working at CVS and her girlfriend at the time came in with him. There was defiantly attraction and with us moving he said he didn't want to loose her.
• Portugal
20 Apr 13
sizzle if he broke up with your aunt and was with you after the break up then you didnt steal him. he just fell in love with you. your aunt has to accept that he wasnt for her. or else he would fall for you after breaking up with her. im happy that your daughter could find a guy who really loves her too. arahmae you are right those who can find true love are so lucky. im happy that you also found your true love in your best friend. who would be better than our best friend?^^
• Philippines
31 Mar 13
Those people who find their true love in just a date are the lucky ones. Oh well, I only find one without any sign, and the funny thing is, he is my best buddy...
• South Korea
30 Mar 13
In my opinion there is thing such this! ahaha when me and my husband first see each other, it's like we never like to be apart,ahaha I know its crazy but everything happens on us the first day we met, except from "that" ahaha.. during our first meeting he had our first date, first kiss.. and everything. We just couldn't forget it, we always end up teasing each other every time we talk about it. The moment he saw me, he told me I am the he would like to spend the rest of his life with
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• Portugal
6 Apr 13
its so sweet what he said ^^ im really happy that you believed in him. and that you are still together. its not cheesy at all ^^ i really wish someday i can have a boyfriend that says sweet things as yours. wish you and him be always happy together. have a happy day. and thanks for sharing your story with me^^ romantic story like movie's one^^
@mariaperalta (19073)
• Mexico
30 Mar 13
I did, i went home that night and told my mom. he was the one. 12-13 years later. I knew I was wrong. Take care there.
• Portugal
20 Apr 13
maria im so sorry that things didnt go well for you and for him. its so sad that you went to your parents and told them that you loved him and things ended up badly. i wish that you have a good boyfriend who loves you now. you deserve to be happy. im sure that even if you dont have a boyfriend right now soon you will find a great one.
• Mexico
20 Apr 13
Its ok, all the pain and suffering was well worth it... I got a great son from him. have a super weekend there.
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• Portugal
25 Apr 13
im glad that you could find a good thing in your relation after all. i dont have kids but i believe that kids are worth anything right? i wish that your son makes you proud everyday^^ have a happy week^^
@honor00 (185)
30 Mar 13
In 1970 I met my husband, Steve. He was a music student who played the piano for my choral singing group, I was just 16. I'd had 2 or 3 BFs by then, but no-one special until Steve. In 1971 I was engaged to be married, in 1972 Steve and me married, we still are. So I think we knew from first date. 18 was far too young to be married but Steve and me were determined to be together, so we married. Not romantic I think, pragmatic. There was no-one else.
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• Portugal
6 Apr 13
such a sweet story. im so happy that you and steve are still together. im sure that you and him will be happy forever. you deserve to be happy. thanks for sharing your sweet story with me here. its so sweet that you both met in an environment that both liked. music is amazing. dont say that your story wasnt romantic cause sure it is a sweet love romantic story.