I can't help myself to fall in love with you....

Thats neat. Have you talked on the phone? Does he live near you there? Happy Sunday to yaaaaas.

Hi airasheila, Have you seen him in person? I guess it is better for you to know him in person before you really fall for him. Merely observing him over the facebook may not tell you much about him. I hope you will try to control yourself and not give all out to him as I do not want you to be hurt. It will be very painful for you to bear if things not work out the way you want it...I hope you do not mind I think this way as I want to convey my true feeling...and hope you handle your love wisely.

this is so romantic. it is nice to hear this from a girl. at least we know what's going on in the mind of a girl when she falls in love. the short time and brief moment of being together is always treasured in the hearts of a lover. the other person may not know it, but we are willingly to show the feeling, but scared of the reaction of the other person. yeah, i've been through these.

its good that you fell in love with him but next time you see him online just wait that he says something first. the way he asked you if you didnt work he seemed a bit pissed that everytime you talk to him just wait that he message you first. and if he doesnt just forget about him. i know it hurts but for his reaction it seems to me that he isnt interested in you as you are with him. give him some space and wait that he makes the first move.

I think you felt in love with him...I know, it is hard for a girl to express her love includes you. But, nowadays anyone no matter boy or girl has the same right to express their love. It is so hard to hold your love. I think it is a good idea if you say that you are one of his fans. I think it will make your feeling lighter.

That's sweet. But does he know that you have feelings for him,mor is he just assuming that you are just flirting as a regular admirer? If not, find out as much about each other as you can. It would be great to see each other's reactions! It definitely wouldn't hurt to talk about it and gather information, especially if you are a distance away. Just be careful, because some people may not be as nice as that seem when you meet them in person. That's why it's important to learn each other and let your family or friend know that he exists, too for safety reasons.

love is a common and mutual feel and you must experience it from the soul and understand the life between two people

I think you should tell him, you never know where it may lead you. If he doesn't know nothing can happen between the two of you. If he rejects the idea than you know where you stand you can move on or do whatever you want to do about it. But I definitely think you should tell him. Maybe he feels the same way about you and doesn't want to tell you...

you are lucky girl to be happy a fall in love, the man must be very thankful for the affection you are showing towards him. He was a lucky guy... i hope he could notice the feeling you have been trying to show him. Keep loving and admiring, there nothing wrong in that. Give love and share the love...:) Good luck my friend:)

being in love is really an amazing feeling isn't it? it will make you blooming and it feels like everything is wonderful.. does he already have someone? i hope their will be a chance that you can be a couple so you can express more how much you love him..

Chatting is being done by introverts and facebook like walls are for extroverts. Moreover, believe me, anyone can write big lines, but love should happen only when you see someone's eyes when he is talking. When you feel you love ... i guess u just need a friend to share your feelings. Thts it. Thank you friend.

Friendship sometimes lead to love. So it's good that your crush knows you and you have time to talk to each other once in a while. Continue your friendship with him and let him know that you are always there for him whenever he needs help. You can sometimes see if the person likes you. You may determine if you have a chance for him to be his girlfriend. Know the signs and follow your instincts.

I think falling in love is a good thing, though better if the person loves you back, atleast it shows one has blood running through his/her brain. It will be a lot better if you could profess your love, you never can tell, he might have the same feeling for you.

hi, airasheila. i have read thru the exchange of responses between you and the other fellow mylotters. from what i understood, you live far away from each other and you've met him twice. it's natural to be attracted to someone. i use the word attracted because although you say you're in love, you're really still far from being in love. attraction/infatuation... we all go thru this exciting phase. do you know if this guy has a GF? if he has none, try to play hide and seek with him. the next time you see him online, don't send him a message. test the waters. if he likes you, he will wonder why you didn't chat with him so he'll send a message to you. don't go blurting out your feelings for him without having even just the smallest clue of what his feelings are for you. you might end up getting rejected and you'll get hurt. if you feel that he likes you too, then go ahead. being in love and being loved in return is such a wonderful feeling and you shouldn't miss this chance...

Perhaps you should ask yourself why you fall in love with that person, what exactly makes you doing so? What is it you are missing or this person is adding to your life? Since I think it's more about what you are missing as about loving that person for himself.