Why some people flip flop

I think so too but now everyone is calling her the flip flop . I ask her if she know why she is being called that she said NO! with a shock look .

She sounds very clueless.

Agree fully

She is now known as the flip flopper She was surprise but then I give her some example of why , I think that will make her reflect . I think she will realize people sometime rather to hear what you think when they ask you "what do you think?" , because it help everyone to hear other point of views sometime .

Yes, she probably didn't think about that. Her opinion may have helped you in some way but instead she just wanted to please both parties. Then that didn't help any one.

I am the one that have to explain why everyone now think she is a flip flop . Her boss dont think she is the one for the job , because she have no point of view . I think we have to know how to act in different situation . I know her so I dont take her serious anymore lol

I am also opinionated like you and I dont mind debating my view or listening to others opinion but I will be true. She really want everyone to like her so she will continue to do this until she fully lose herself and job .

I agree with you , I dont think she have to be honest all the time but if she have a view I think she should state it especially with her job .

Never ask these kind of person what to wear when going some where important . I dont take her answer serious anymore since I realize that is her personality .

Hey Sid :) Yes we can find these people in unusual places . You first encounter with a flip flop person is here lol . That person is very strategic here to be flip flopping . I think your right they can be ignorant or very smart . If the person is that way on mylot with a lot of credit next to their name, I would think they are very smart

lol maybe she is one of those sidekick who love to kiss up so the head girl feel good . Everyone is telling her to speak up , we dont have to always be honest but stand for something .

She is not pleasing anyone

I think its ok to flip flop sometimes but when everyone start to say that is your character , I think you have over done it . I think she fear having a confrontation with someone but her job required her own point of view .

That is my though exactly she just want to fit in so bad that she dont see she is losing herself and you can never get everyone to like you . She was trying but the opposite effect happen .

Sometime you ask her what she think about a project and she say it looks good , if down the hall someone else say I dont like that project what do you think she would say I dont like it either . Now her job may in jeopardy because she is in marketing and her supervisor and teammates are annoyed with her and called her out on it . I know she is a good person but she dont have a voice and I hope she will get one before they warn her again . It annoyed me most the time so I was not surprise

Yes they do confused you because you dont really know whats on their mind because they are afraid to be honest even when its not something bad .

Those are some good point , it can be emotional damage from her childhood . Also she can be the kinda person that want everyone approval .

I really wish she would have her own views , everyone would respect you more even if they dont always agree with you . She is a good person but she need her own individuality and stop trying to kiss up to everyone .