Divorce? The children must be brokenhome. Is it always true?

@bintang9 (196)
Indonesia
April 6, 2013 9:52pm CST
divorce is just like the nightmare of marriage. But when it must be happened, we should manage our children. The children from divorced family is not always broken. There are so many from the divorced family get their successful. I think it depends on how the parents or the environment of they live. What's your opinion about this
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@maximax8 (28558)
• United Kingdom
7 Apr 13
My parents got married in 1964 and my sister was born in 1967. I was born in 1972. They got divorced in 1983. I was aged 10 to 11 years old and my sister was aged 15 to 16 years old. I got married in 1994 and had my oldest son born in 1995. I got divorced in 2000. So my marriage lasted just six years. My ex-husband is an Australian man. I am English. I am not keen to marry ever again. My sister got married in 1996 and they are still happily married. They have four children.
@bintang9 (196)
• Indonesia
9 Apr 13
wow, you have many experiences, your parents divorced, also you divorced. Would you mind sharing with us, what was your feeling when your parents divorced, and what is your feeling when you divorced. I hope your children will be fine.
@Dominique25 (9475)
• United States
7 Apr 13
I agree with you. It depends on a lot of factors. Divorce is hard on children but it doesn't mean that they have to be destroyed by it. They can learn many things as they try and adjust to their new life. Just as the parents do.
@bintang9 (196)
• Indonesia
7 Apr 13
Thanks for your response. That's right that divorce is hard on children. It also happened to me,to my children. Poor they are, actually I always cry when I remember my sons faraway from me. Firstly, they were sad, frustrated, desperate. But I can see that they are now to be independent children. They get good achievement at their school. They can handle many kinds of problems.
@Kmz059 (654)
• Philippines
7 Apr 13
My parents are separated we are on my mother's side but we still have time to visit my father's side. Nothing's change our relationship with my father is still the same. What ever happens They are still my parents and I love them,
@bintang9 (196)
• Indonesia
7 Apr 13
How lucky you are, your parents have been divorced, but you still get their attention from them. But in deep of your heart, do you want such kind of condition (divorce) happened? thanks for your response.God bless you
@Brook909 (111)
7 Apr 13
Not all of the childeren will be broken except some.It depends on the love they continue to get from the divoced father and the dovorced mother.if you still give them selfish love to them just like before the divorce,i think the children will be suceessful just as the children form the nondivoced family.
@bintang9 (196)
• Indonesia
7 Apr 13
Right, the children shouldn't be hurt, they have right to be happy. They have right to live normally as an ordinary family. I agree with you that the parents should give them love.Let you and your husband or wife separate, but still give your children right to have love,let them freely to see their papa or mama every time they need. Give them love,give them the right to get sufficient education
• India
9 Apr 13
I agree with you. If the parent is good and give their utter most affection to their kid and guide them in a good way. They will achieve a lot in their life. Parent's divorce don't affect the kid if s/he is strong and confident.
@katie0 (5212)
• Japan
8 Apr 13
Always true because for kids the mom and dad are also the exactly image they'll have of man and woman for the rest of their lives and their parents show by example if someone can find the right person and be happily married or not.