BEWARE of hater.how? its unbelievable and disappointing to me.give me some ideas

@scubapro (1056)
Gifu, Japan
April 7, 2013 4:40am CST
actually i knew this will happen to me,because when i was here 2 years ago,i had same experience in mylot, actually if people give me minus i can understand it,if my lot star goes down slowly i still can understand but if my mylot star goes down from 90 to 80 in one day,I AM SORRY but i cant understand it,and it makes me sure about one hater especially gave me many minuses and he is hater. why he? because i know who he is,ok i will not give him minuses and i dont wanna start a fight or war even he already started,but i just feel disapointed. many people like our discussions ,give you (+) and then one hater,one person with a very bad heart rates you with many minuses,oh my god,i am sorry but its not fair my friends,i am really disappointed because of this and i cant understand why mylot let this person give me many minuses. its just sad,but this time ,my third time on mylot,so i will not allow the haters to win and destroy me. i need some support from you my friends, even he gave me many minuses and try to make me sad,i will be strong this time and i will continue stronger and i say to haters,why so serious? we come to this world only ones,so why we break people's heart? yeah i know there is no reason for it love eachother so god loves you, have you ever had this experience here? what did you do?
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13 responses
@cupkitties (7468)
• United States
7 Apr 13
Just be patient and your star will get back up there. Mine used to be a 10 at one time and it took some time to move up to red as it is now. Rater haters should take the time to read the FAQ on the discussion rating system http://www.mylot.com/o/faq/faq17.aspx especially the parts about what can happen to their own ratings. Karma will hit them big.
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@scubapro (1056)
• Gifu, Japan
7 Apr 13
i also read that,thanks again to recommend i agree with you
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• Mexico
9 Apr 13
I thought the same thing. We have plenty of fun things to do here at My lot. We dont need to be worring about haters who seems to have nothing better to do.
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@dagami (1162)
• Rome, Italy
7 Apr 13
i have been here for less than a month and yes, i've been offended by some comments. we cannot please everybody, right? some people post rude comments and we just have to accept that there are lots of these in our society. my advise is not to mind them. anyway, they have nothing to do with our earnings here. i don't know exactly if others have rated my posts negative. do we get a notification on this?
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@scubapro (1056)
• Gifu, Japan
7 Apr 13
no ,there is no notifation about it,but i am sure who he is,after he gave me one annoying response i said,i dont wanna hear from you anymore to him then everything started,i know who he is, just it.
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@Hatley (164485)
• Garden Grove, California
8 Apr 13
as an older mylotterr p;lease both of you you can report people who insult you as we are not supposed to insult and flame each other. there is no excuse for that even if you do not like someone you do not insult them here, mylot is supposed to be a place where we can make good friends and enjoy each others company not a place to make war on one other.,
• Mexico
9 Apr 13
Im not sure they are haters. Just low lifes with nothing better to do. Real sad !!!
@mariaperalta (19094)
• Mexico
7 Apr 13
Im not sure how this happens. But to be honest with you, I never look at those things here at all. I just keep on trucking at my lot. have a great day there.
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@scubapro (1056)
• Gifu, Japan
7 Apr 13
you never look at those things? maybe because you never had this experience,believe me if your star goes down from 91 to 81 one day,you would be surprise ;) its just sad but thanks for the response happy mylotting
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• Mexico
7 Apr 13
I never look. I see the 9 I have had since day one. The other numbers Ive never even looked at them. Have a super Sunday there.
• Philippines
8 Apr 13
i smiled when i read "keep on trucking" because it's so you, maria. when we just keep on interacting, stay sincere and help where we can, it's more enjoyable here. by the way, do you reach payout every month? i don't and i don't mind at all.
@srisahara (4147)
• Indonesia
7 Apr 13
Hi friend, I surprised with this discussion. I never know how to find that someone gives negative rate to our discussion. So far, I never give negative rate to the discussion. If I feel it does not interesting for me, I just leave it without give negative rate. Even I always give + rate to the discussion that I interest to response. I really never know to check it. Can you give me explanation to check this problem? Thank you...
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@scubapro (1056)
• Gifu, Japan
7 Apr 13
normally we have stars over our avatars,if people give us good ratings ,its getting better , from 1 to 10 10 is the best but if some bad person or hater give you (-) always,your stars rating is getting down, so yesterday i was 9 and the rating was (91) now 8 with (80) anyway i know who he is,but its not possible to find the person here just dont care it happy mylotting
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• United States
7 Apr 13
You can't know who rated you down. You can only assume. Can't find the original post, but someone had said that keeping track of you interest rankings might at least help you find out pinpoint where the negative rating took place.
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@scubapro (1056)
• Gifu, Japan
7 Apr 13
cupkitties thanks.cheers
@savypat (20246)
• United States
7 Apr 13
It seems to me that you can worry about what others do or you can just do your thing. After all do you get paid less for a lower star color or number? I don't think so. When I first started I worried abut these things, but frankly I don't even know what color my star is, I don't know my number anywhere either. I guess I have two goals here, to make things interesting and to encourage newbies to use this site. I don't make much money, I get pay out about every three months and that is just a bonus for me. So chose what you want to do and go for it. Blessings.
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@scubapro (1056)
• Gifu, Japan
7 Apr 13
you know really supportive and kind response , really appreciate actually about money i didnt worry,just i try to give good quality responses and of course try to start good quality discussions so if somebody attacts me like that,i just feel bad, thats it but after i hear you,i will not care it happy mylotting
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@Hatley (164485)
• Garden Grove, California
8 Apr 13
savypat yes you do get more money if you have a red or blue star look in the guidelines for the explanation that the reputations of all of us are figured into the earnings algorithm to determine our earnings so the higher your reputation the better you can earn,. just both of you do the same fine quality posting I have seen you do and you will earn nicely., quality here at my lot is what counts.
• Philippines
8 Apr 13
I guess I have two goals here, to make things interesting and to encourage newbies to use this site. I don't make much money, I get pay out about every three months and that is just a bonus for me. So chose what you want to do and go for it. Blessings. -- same here, savypat. sometimes, i'm here but just reading and rating (and reporting if i come across something and let mylot admin deal with it if it's valid.) what i've learned from mylot is that we all have something to learn from and share with each other.
• Jacksonville, Florida
7 Apr 13
I have not had anyone rate me badly but I have been attacked a few years ago... I stopped coming here for a year over it and then I realized that I should not let that person get to me and keep me from a place I love to be. I realized that person was not worth me leaving or even being upset over. Don't let it get to you. There are plenty of good people here, more than the bad!
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@scubapro (1056)
• Gifu, Japan
7 Apr 13
yeah before i had same experience and stopped coming here too but this time i will not i will be here with my lovely friends thanks
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@Hatley (164485)
• Garden Grove, California
8 Apr 13
scuba pro make me youe friend and you can send me private messages if someoneis being hateful to you again as I will report them using that nice exclamation poiunt okay hatlehy here?/
• Mexico
9 Apr 13
I never look at any of my ratings. Ive been here 6 months now and have had a 9 all along. i ahve no idea when people rate me bad or good.
@blackrusty (3530)
• Mexico
7 Apr 13
i would not put to much worry into the numbers at all they go up they go down all they are in my book is nothing but a number they as far as I know not bring extra money
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@Hatley (164485)
• Garden Grove, California
8 Apr 13
wrong mydear read the guidelines as it stated the admins uses our reputations to figure in the earnings into their algorithm. so the higher your reputation the better you will earn.
• Mexico
9 Apr 13
I really never ever look at those numbers. I also wouldnt even know where to go and see them.
@grvdubey11 (1882)
• India
7 Apr 13
Well there are a few people like that here ,who provoke and when they get a reply ,they just use these unfair means.But since you are a nice guy and participate in discussions here honestly,i am sure you will get back to your original rating again very soon.I promise full backing and help from my side, best wishes.
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@scubapro (1056)
• Gifu, Japan
7 Apr 13
thanks my friend,i am feeling same.i promise you too peace
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• Mexico
9 Apr 13
I see 5 or 6 like that. Seems like they are always negative. I just keep at my lot and dont worry about them at all.
@TLilly12 (1230)
• United States
7 Apr 13
I am so sorry you have got a minus rating, and this is very upsetting to you, no you should not stop, being here in Mylot just because someone, had bad ways about them, keep Mylotting and be strong, I hope everything works out for you, here in Mylot.
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@scubapro (1056)
• Gifu, Japan
7 Apr 13
it made me upset ,i agree but i will be stronger ;) today i got another gift from mylot too this time they cant make me sad thanks my friend
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• Mexico
9 Apr 13
Im sure the adm. is real busy these days. With the new site. I bet after they will look into this problem here.
@LittleMel (14055)
• Canada
7 Apr 13
that's a lot of down for one day I don't remember the calculation but I think that would require a lot of negatives on your user ID for one day alone. by a lot I'm thinking 5 - 10 in a day they could do it from discussions you started, your responses and comments I could be wrong though, it might not be that many as you have less than 500 posts yes I had that happened to me too I knew which discussion/responses made them do it and I had an idea who the person was and his/her friends but I didn't do anything I just kept on going with my life and mylotting when I had the time
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@Hatley (164485)
• Garden Grove, California
8 Apr 13
but littlemel you can use the exclamation point to report someone who insults you.
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@LittleMel (14055)
• Canada
8 Apr 13
and he/her friends will report me lol not worth it Hatley. once maybe, but many times, I'd rather ignore them
@scubapro (1056)
• Gifu, Japan
9 Apr 13
hatley is an angel of mylot,helps everybody so nice
• South Africa
10 Apr 13
I agree. I don't see why we all can't just give one another more + rating. Help people level. Why not?
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• Serbia
10 Apr 13
I agree. But ive been here for a few weeks now and made quite a lot of posts but i have no star. It's weird. But i also dont "play nice" just to be rated +. I mean i speak my mind even if i get rated a hundred times with a - (minus). Imma still speak my mind.
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• South Africa
10 Apr 13
You have a star its 5
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@Hatley (164485)
• Garden Grove, California
8 Apr 13
hi scubapro yes it happened to me only it was taking my one hundred percent down to a fifty and I think a green star over night,So I contacted the admins and told them what happened, l got a privbte message from admins telling me that two men bragged to the admins that they took that old ladys blue star down to only fifty percent,. my lot banned these two me. So please if your star drops , more do contact the admins by hitting the contact and rolling down to other then tell them how your star keeps dropping and who you think is doing this, they can help you really. Here we are all supposed to be welcoming to each other not being mean,.
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@scubapro (1056)
• Gifu, Japan
8 Apr 13
hey how great message this is, sorry for late response i appreciate,i am exactly sure that i was under attack,next time i will report it, they have been banned? how great mylot adming is/ great story and lovely advice thanksa lot
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• Mexico
9 Apr 13
Ha ha serves them right. If people are here to just give negative rating. Tell them to hit the road Jack.
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@Nursefrai06 (2498)
• Penrith, Australia
12 Apr 13
Its a very good thing that god said "love each other" and not necessarily "like" each other. Its much easier to love than to like something under any circumstance, i think. Anyway, when my star goes down, i try to see my interest ratings and see which one from them did i get low, and then, under that interest rating, its easier to see which discussion i answered and predict which ones of tose discussions must have caused me to get a lower rating, and then when i get a speculation, i try o avoid interacting with those people who i believe rated me low. Its not worth our time and energy to spend it on people who dont matter to us.
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@scubapro (1056)
• Gifu, Japan
12 Apr 13
lovely response thanks