Trustworthy person

@roshigo58 (4859)
Pune, India
April 8, 2013 10:29am CST
Hi, When we have trust on someone when he is honest, caring and loving and always tell the truth. I think we should trust the one who can see thses threee things in us - sorrow behind our smile, love behind our anger and reason behind our silence. He can understand our feelings even if we don't tell anything about us. Do you have anyone in your life who is very trustworthy?
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25 responses
• South Africa
8 Apr 13
I'll say my brother. He never tells on me even as kids, he keeps his nose in his own bissness.
@roshigo58 (4859)
• Pune, India
8 Apr 13
hi, You are very lucky that you have trustworthy brother. thank you for the response.
@roshigo58 (4859)
• Pune, India
8 Apr 13
Hi, I also have only son. But we always trust on my son and my son is also of helping nature and always gives respect to us. He never feels lonely. We support each other and understand each other feelings. We are happy family. Thank you for the response.
• Serbia
8 Apr 13
That is great to have a brother like that. I am an only child and the older i get the more i adopt the Trust Nobody mentality. It's not that i want it to be like that. It's just what life, people show me.
@Deepak2J (1178)
• India
8 Apr 13
According to your idea, I don't have any trustworthy person. My mom sometimes good though at these things.
@roshigo58 (4859)
• Pune, India
8 Apr 13
Hi, every mother always understands the feelings of her children. Thank you for the response.
@comfort55 (1574)
• India
9 Apr 13
no,my mother does not understand me....i've gone through a deep financial crisis but kept always smiling before my parents,thinking that they'll understand my ordeal as time time idid tell them though I never cried(as I always cry before my Lord and not before anyobe else)..I borrowed some money from them also(that time we were better off).Surprisingly till date they expect me to repay the money inspite of knowing that our house was sold and we'd gone bankrupt.
@roshigo58 (4859)
• Pune, India
9 Apr 13
Hi, It is very sad that your parents don't understand your feelings and your financial position is not good. They should support you in such difficult situation. You all should come together and try to solve the problem. It means you have to solve the problem alone and for that you have to work hard with hope that one day you will be successful i solving your problems. Thank you for the response.
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@celticeagle (159008)
• Boise, Idaho
10 Apr 13
I have little trustworthiness in my family. My daughter lies to me about things because she will hear from me if I find out. And my granddaughter just tells what she thinks I want to hear. So I don't think bad of her. Well, I still think bad of her because I can't trust anything she says.
@celticeagle (159008)
• Boise, Idaho
11 Apr 13
She doesn't want to let me down. And once you start lying it is hard to stop.
@roshigo58 (4859)
• Pune, India
10 Apr 13
Hi, Some people tell lies and they think no one can know their lies. So they goes on telling lies. But we should not trust them. It is very sad that your daughter tell lies to you. Thank you for the response.
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@umabharti (3972)
• India
8 Apr 13
yes i do i say this because every person whom i meet i feel is trustworthy , and do understand my silence , the sorrow behind my smile, the love behind the anger and reason behind the silence.May not every person thinks the same way as we know that each person has his or her own understanding or thinking , so in their way they think and understand.I am happy with what every is going on , becox i am getting adjusted to everything.
@umabharti (3972)
• India
12 Apr 13
yes that is the only way out , to be away from unwanted negative thoughts and feeling coming into us.
@ShyBear88 (59282)
• Sterling, Virginia
9 Apr 13
I believe my husband is very trustworthy.
@ShyBear88 (59282)
• Sterling, Virginia
10 Apr 13
Your welcome. It's important to have a trustworthy ptner.
@roshigo58 (4859)
• Pune, India
10 Apr 13
Hi, It is very nice that your husband is trustworthy. thank you for the response.
@mariaperalta (19073)
• Mexico
8 Apr 13
I sure do my brother. he is by far the person I trust with even my life. he always tells the truth to me.. no matter if it hurts me or not.
@roshigo58 (4859)
• Pune, India
9 Apr 13
Hi, It is very nice that your brother always tells the truth. Sometimes truth has thorns like rose but we have to accept it. It is better to tell the truth than telling lie. Thank you for the response.
• Mexico
9 Apr 13
very true, and like my bro says. The truth hurts !!!
@berting600 (3453)
• Philippines
8 Apr 13
I have seen these traits in my wife,as she knows what I mean with my body language what I mean with my twinkling eyes,about my pointing my lips and other sign languages only we could understand,even our children knows what it means.These things are created in the name of our devotion to each and that love still is flaming in our hearts and deeds.
• Philippines
8 Apr 13
That is correct my friend,that only your family is the only people who could understand what you needed,what you want,and what you do not agree with.There are a few friends around you who might also understand you emotionally that they do not need to be inform what was going on,they just lend their helping hands towards you without any condition and payments in the name of their brotherly love towards you,yet seldom can you see this traits from you group of friends.
@roshigo58 (4859)
• Pune, India
8 Apr 13
Hi, It is very nice that you are having such loving and caring people in your life. Your family is very happy family. thank you for the response.
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@wolfie34 (26771)
• United Kingdom
12 Apr 13
Well I have my therapist, does that count? I know that I can reveal anything about myself, pour my heart out, be open and honest about the way I feel and I know that it won't go any further. It is wonderful to have her in my life, knowing that I get the support, advice and someone to listen to and offload to. She is my long term therapist and I have been seeing her since 2009. She probably knows me better than I know myself. I trust her, otherwise it wouldn't work.
@roshigo58 (4859)
• Pune, India
13 Apr 13
Hi, It is very nice that you meet a therapist on whom you can trust. There should be someone to whom we can share our worries and feelings and happiness. Thank you for the response.
• United States
19 Apr 13
Everyone in my life is trustworthy. If a person lies to me , I get away from them.
@roshigo58 (4859)
• Pune, India
20 Apr 13
Hi, You are right. It is better to get away form the liar. Thank you for the repose.
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@ifa225 (14364)
• Indonesia
10 Apr 13
hi, I am glad I have, even only one he is my husband, he always understand me and cool me when I am anger if he eber went away, my life would be through maybe
@roshigo58 (4859)
• Pune, India
10 Apr 13
Hi, It is very nice that your husband is trustworthy. thank you for the response.
@Mintlin (322)
• China
13 Apr 13
I used to give full trust of my friends but they behaved as their are totally not trustworthy person. as many ones stated here,yes,family is the top trustworthy person in our life,but i find my family sometimes hurt me a lot. currently,my husband is like my friend,we can share many things,but still,we have a lot of agruments when it comes to his family(my parents in law),so,i donot know who i can fully trust,but that's alright,i already accept it. I really envy those people who have bff or very trustworthy friend,it's rare,if i have one,then,that's really enough,i will not ask more.
@roshigo58 (4859)
• Pune, India
13 Apr 13
Hi, You are right. There are very rare people who are trustworthy. It is good that you have a friend who is trustworthy. You can share your feelings with him. By sharing our sorrows our stress is lessened. Only one trustworthy person is enough in our life. Thank you for the response.
@suni51 (3429)
• India
8 Apr 13
hi- You know a true friend whom you trust is always with you and more so while you are down and not feeling so good. You friend, I mean your true friends know you inside out and you do not have to tell them about your suffering, sorrow or happiness. They are with you in every sad moment standing right besides you to make you happy, share your problems and make you comfortable.. Cheers.
@sjvg1976 (41131)
• Delhi, India
8 Apr 13
Like I am your true friend Suny. I am with you always.
@roshigo58 (4859)
• Pune, India
8 Apr 13
Hi, Really we are true friends. We are sharing here all our feelings. But we can not meet each other because we are staying far of places. But we should keep our online friendship forever. thank you for the response.
@kokomo (1867)
• Philippines
1 May 13
Yeah. I guess, I've already seen it with my boyfriend. I guess he was very honest even if we did not see each other that often, only thrice a year. He was so caring when we are together. He is treating me like a princess. I am very spoiled when I am with him. Even in distance, I can feel that he loves me that much and he will never break my trust.
@roshigo58 (4859)
• Pune, India
1 May 13
Hi, You are very lucky that your boyfriend is very loving and caring. Thank you for the response.
@cherigucchi (14879)
• Philippines
13 Apr 13
In every persons we meet in our lives we have no choice but to give them our trust. Trusting them is usually our choice but proving us otherwise is their decision. what I mean is that, we cannot fully be aware how trustworthy a person is unless it is proven in time and the consequences or situations that happen in the process.
@roshigo58 (4859)
• Pune, India
13 Apr 13
Hi, You are right. We can say someone is trustworthy when it is proven in time and the consequences or situations that happen in the process. Thank you for the response.
@jenny1015 (13366)
• Philippines
9 Apr 13
Fortunately, I do have a very good friend whom I can trust with everything. We really seldom have the time to be together, but we send text messages every now and then. And I think that she also feels the same about me coz she would open up to me and I am always willing to listen to her and understand her.
@roshigo58 (4859)
• Pune, India
9 Apr 13
Hi, It is very nice that you have a nice friend and you can trust each other and always try to keep in touch and have a good understanding between you. Thank you for the response.
@alberello (4752)
• Italy
8 Apr 13
Well, trust is a very important thing in life. Sometimes we give it too much to the wrong person, while in other circumstances, we deny it to those who deserves it! No doubt I have given you confidence in life to many people, but some time later I realized I made a big mistake! Yet now, just to answer your question that closes your thread, I can tell you that for the moment, the only person on whom I pour my full trust, is my mother.
@roshigo58 (4859)
• Pune, India
9 Apr 13
Hi, you are right. Sometimes we make mistake in trusting a wrong person and not understanding a right person. Mother is always trustworthy for every child because she is aware of every feeling of sorrows and happiness of her child. And she is always with for supporting in our difficulties. Thank you for the response.
@bjc66bjc (6730)
• United States
8 Apr 13
Hi roshigo. yes I do have a couple of trustworthy friends in my life that I really can trust...I also can honestly say that my daugher is my trustworthy friend...
@roshigo58 (4859)
• Pune, India
9 Apr 13
Hi, You are lucky that you have some trustworthy friends and daughter. These people are like a treasure for us. We should be nice and take care of them and love them. Thank you for the response.
• United States
9 Apr 13
Trust is one easy word that is very valuable to me, yet difficult to come by. I rarely trust fellow humans as they change with seasons. For now and in the nearest future, my only trust is in God.
@roshigo58 (4859)
• Pune, India
9 Apr 13
Hi, You are right. Trust is very valuable word. We can not trust others easily. There are some people who pretend that they are nice but they are behaving like that for their advantage only. They are with us in only happy times and are not with us when we are in difficulty. We should be honest and kind with everyone. Thank you for the response.
@srisahara (4508)
• Indonesia
9 Apr 13
Yes, you are right. I will trust someone who honest,caring and loving. I trust my husband, because he never lie me, he care to me and love me and our family. Yes, I am very trust him. I feel blessed has a good husband. I think he also trust me, because i always honest, caring and loving him. I hope you have trustworthy person, because it will make you happy and feel respected. Have a nice day.
@roshigo58 (4859)
• Pune, India
9 Apr 13
Hi, You are very lucky that you have such caring and loving husband. I always like to be honest and being good with everyone. So I get the respect from others. thank you for the response.
@tinayu (214)
• China
9 Apr 13
Hi,my fridend,in my opinion,it's a lot difficult to find that kind of person.so we should take him(her or them)as the most precious treasure in our hearts.in my heart,my husband is my trustworthy man,we have met each other since senior middle school,we love each other and help each other in every moment,i depend on him more than my parents, as he knows me ,takes care of me ,i feel happy and content.
@roshigo58 (4859)
• Pune, India
9 Apr 13
Hi, You are lucky that you have such loving, caring and trustworthy husband. He loves you more than your parents. So you must be the happiest person in the world. Thank you for the response.