I should drop my life for the week
April 9, 2013 4:36pm CST
My sister's boyfriend went to Japan or China for work business. He has been gone not even 2 days, she is now annoying me. She has been home constantly, usually she's at her boyfriends parents house. She's complaining about the lack of food and how my parents have to buy her food. She comes down and goes we're going shopping, I told her I have to go dogwalking in 15 minutes, and don't have extra money. She stomps off, like a two year old. She has been on this kick of a bunch of diets since he has been gone. She texted me to go for a walk (meanwhile it's pouring rain - only reason I am dogwalking is that I get paid). Every minute she is home not at work, she is talking about her boyfriend or bugging everyone. I told her to stop bugging me, she needs to get a life, it shows that all she has in life is her boyfriend. I made plans for this entire week and work she never makes plans any other time when her boyfriend is around so why now. She is a completely different person when her boyfriend isn't around, and I told her this. Noone wants to spend time with her because she ditches them for her boyfriend, she is never around because her boyfriend is more important (she will make plans and not show up because her boyfriend said so), so I am not changing my life this week because her boyfriend isn't around.
10 Apr 13
Help your sister to realize that there is life outside that relationship. And she should not just be revolving around that small world of hers. I don't think that she would ever get over this man if things get worse, which I hope not. But nevertheless, she needs to know hoe to make her life worthwhile.