I should drop my life for the week

@911Ricki (13602)
Canada
April 9, 2013 4:36pm CST
My sister's boyfriend went to Japan or China for work business. He has been gone not even 2 days, she is now annoying me. She has been home constantly, usually she's at her boyfriends parents house. She's complaining about the lack of food and how my parents have to buy her food. She comes down and goes we're going shopping, I told her I have to go dogwalking in 15 minutes, and don't have extra money. She stomps off, like a two year old. She has been on this kick of a bunch of diets since he has been gone. She texted me to go for a walk (meanwhile it's pouring rain - only reason I am dogwalking is that I get paid). Every minute she is home not at work, she is talking about her boyfriend or bugging everyone. I told her to stop bugging me, she needs to get a life, it shows that all she has in life is her boyfriend. I made plans for this entire week and work she never makes plans any other time when her boyfriend is around so why now. She is a completely different person when her boyfriend isn't around, and I told her this. Noone wants to spend time with her because she ditches them for her boyfriend, she is never around because her boyfriend is more important (she will make plans and not show up because her boyfriend said so), so I am not changing my life this week because her boyfriend isn't around.
3 responses
@mariaperalta (19096)
• Mexico
9 Apr 13
I guess everyone there wants you to live around them. Do they think you have no life?
@911Ricki (13602)
• Canada
9 Apr 13
I think so, I like just relaxing at home. I sometimes have a few hours off here or there. I guess it's because I don't go out very often, I am always working.
• Mexico
9 Apr 13
I still think its time to get out of there. How is the house hunting going there?
@911Ricki (13602)
• Canada
10 Apr 13
Been looking at a few places, but need more of a downpayment (need 15% or 20% can't remember).
@jenny1015 (13390)
• Philippines
10 Apr 13
Help your sister to realize that there is life outside that relationship. And she should not just be revolving around that small world of hers. I don't think that she would ever get over this man if things get worse, which I hope not. But nevertheless, she needs to know hoe to make her life worthwhile.
@911Ricki (13602)
• Canada
10 Apr 13
Once he comes back she will go crawling back over there, and ignore everyone. I agree, she will never have anything again. This is her first and only boyfriend, she thinks the world is complete.
@jenny1015 (13390)
• Philippines
10 Apr 13
She's headed to Doomsville! I hope she she can understand what you and the rest of your family wants for her.
@GardenGerty (96708)
• Marion, Kansas
9 Apr 13
I can see where it would be difficult. Maybe if this happens again she will plan ahead and ask you, or some of her friends to do something with her. You should have asked her to help walk the dogs. LOL
@911Ricki (13602)
• Canada
10 Apr 13
She doesn't have any friends, she expects me to drop my life when she needs something. I told her I was busy, I have things to do.